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Can you drive a 3.5 ton truck on a normal driving licence (link)
no you can not drive anything over 1 ton without a commercial license, and depends what the truck has on it (air brakes.. etc) you would need at least a B class license


hey
i have a game this tuesday against pioneer and i hear they are good im a 1st string and a setter im very nervous what about if i mess up and we lose what should i do so that i wont get REALLY nervous befor the game??????????
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Ok, first of all, dont take the last piece of advice given to you in the column, that does not work, especially because i know the intensity your going thru (i play on the jr. national hockey team, and i start too) you cannot just look at it as a game, because its a way of life (at least for me), but all you have to do to calm down is honestly, close your eyes, take deep breathes, envision your goal and how you think you will play in your head, and keep going over it and over it, remind yourself of your fundamentals of your sport, and make sure none of them slip your mind. That way, you are now mentally sound, you have thought thru all the quirks of your game, and thus, are ready to play at an even higher level than even before.
Go get em tiger

drew


I am looking for a VW Jetta, Toyota Corolla, Toyota Celica, Honda Civic, Ford Mustang but I really would like to know what one would be safest.. (link)
Ok, out ouf all the cars you listed, the VW Jetta is the safest, being the toyota corolla only has 2 airbags v.s. the jettas 6, the mustang is a great car, just not a car you want to be driving in the snow (if that effects you), because the sway bars are a tad stiff, especially getting on to hard packed snow with the amount of understeer and stuff, not too safe, but great car


I dont kno him this guy likes me. He calls me like 4 times a week and we talk for like hours, If he likes me i dont want to hurt him cuz i dont like him that much. I have a bf and i want to tri to make this work. But this guy is talking to me alot and i might start having feelings for him. So i dont kno if this guy likes me or he might just like me as a friend. I dont want to break up w/ my bf just bc he likes me. But im not sure if he likes me.
Thanks you (link)
What I think would be best fitted for this situation is make sure he knows that you have a boyfriend, and he should respect that. Tell him not to take offence to it or anything, and just remember that you ARE allowed to have friends that are guys during a relationship.
good luck
DREW


does anybody know where i can get cool aim away messages? i really like those ones that like the colors of the font like fade away or get brighter. or with pictures. thanks! ill rate. (link)
www.gonebuddy.com has hilareous aways, all of which you can just copy, paste, and save to ur sn.
hope i helped
drew


Ok, i had a boyfriend and we were totally in love, but we barely saw eachother (once or twice a month) because we both went to different schools and were in all honors and ap classes (aka TONS of hw). In the end he ended up breaking up with me because "I love you, but i really cant b attached to someone right now." We still ended up being best friends, but about a week ago he told me that he had never told his mom about us breaking up, and i asked him y. He told me that it was because he still loved me (after 2 months), and that he could never take down the picture of us that i gave him for valentines. We're going to the same school next year, and he wants to get back together then....should i go for it because i love him...or just not put the used gum back in my mouth? (link)
What i think you should do is sit back and let what is meant to be happen. I mean still call him and hang out, and when the dreaded time comes for all of us to go back to school, i think you will have a pretty good idea of what you want to do. If it was me, i think id give the used gum a lil try again ;)

hope i helped!
drew


Well this is my senior year in high school.
Me and my friends want to leave behind somethig that everyone could talk about.
You see our school has not had a senior prank (well not a good one) for about 5/6 years.
I mean I have some good ideas but I need more.
If you could pls help (link)
hmm, here i go again

-goldfish in the school pool
-let mice loose around the school, sit back and watch the fun
-buy 5 airhorns and randomly start blowing them off in the classrooms as the classes start to settle.
-a couple of my friends took their bikes and made skidmarks all over the cafiteria.
-same idea, now do it all over the school, and get ppl on rollerblades and skateboards too.
- NO BOMB THREATS plz, those you get screwed over twice, first they are a retarded way to waste your seinor prank, and two, you can get thrown into the slammer for 5 yrs.
I personally, would let mice loose around the school and have a seinor skip day! and have a beach party.
but thats just me... hope i helped!
drew


So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what? (link)
yeah, you hit the nail on the head. a true class act asshole. I hate to be the bearer of my worst case opinion, but i think he gave u a line of horse crap so he can get back w. his ex. im so sorry, ik how it feels. i hope i helped, and if theres anything u need, uk where to drop it. hope i helped
drew


I'm not too confident with walking up to people and starting conversation...
What would be some good opening points/questions for talking to people? Of around my own age (16/17) (college people) or older? (work collegues)

Any suggestions? (link)
kay, here i go

1. sports
2. where went to high school
3. favorite hobbies... snowboarding... surfing... etc.
4. ask if they have any good jokes, i know it sounds rly lame but i do it all the time and we have a ball.
5. girlfriend/boyfriends.... need i say any more?

yeah thats just a short list of what i can think of, ill drop one in ur inbox if i think of any more, k? im out like a fat kid in a dodgeball game

DREW


heyy, I need some help here.. can anyone get me some cute quotes that I can put in my pro? Any kind is alright, thnx!

--emily

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www.quotes.com, they have the best quotes out of anyone.
thanks, hope i helped!
drew


for theatre i hafta recite a poem and i wanna make a good selection. an original poem that no one has relly done before. any ideas? plz dont list any edgar allen poe poems, i luv his work but i'm already reciting one of his. thankz in advance! (link)
alot of people get very moved by emotional poems, but not sappy love ones, so i think my suggestion would be to recite that poem about the kid under the influence of drugs and alchohol and he killed his parents in a head on crash, along with his girlfriend
sorry if im not much of a help, but i think, especially if you are speaking to a group of mature kids or adults, they would be moved on a totally different level.
thankx, hope i helped!
drew


My verticle for now is about 1 foot. I want to approve this measurement to as much as possible. What workouts should i do? Thanks (link)
Ok, this is my thing i have been doing to get in shape for hockey, i assume it works the same for vert jumping seen as how using the same muscles, so here i go... if you have access to a gym, the leg press is beautiful, but only use it 3-4 times a week, or it deteriorates your muscle instead of building it
There are other machines also, such as the calf raise machine, but make sure u stretch before using, or else you start to cramp up.
Another major muscle used for vert jumping is your hamstring(the entire back of your leg, from the bottom of your butt, to the top of your knee crevace.)Of course, if you want to jump high, us an EXPLODE cadance, which basically means muster up all your strengh, and let all your rage out while lifting, it gives you the most blood flow to the specified area. make sure your staying hydrated while workin out too, and make sure to stretch, you have no clue as to how much it will benefit you in the future.

hope i helped
good luck
drew


I have four really good friends. Well one of my best friends that ive known for a long time left this week for kansas where her family lived. And we have been planning a beach trip with the four of us and our families. Well the week everyone could go she couldnt. Well..my other 2 friends (theyre sisters) theyre dad is gonna be down there and they invited me. Well i didnt kno my friend was coming back the day before i was leaving. So she got mad at me becuz they didnt invite her but they invited me. Should i go and not worry about it or not go and make everyone happy?

PS this friend has done some stuff to me..like she left me out a couple of times..but im still godo friends with her becuz our families are too (link)
Me personally, would explain to her that they asked you to go well before you knew that she was coming back, even if that isnt true, just so no feelings get hurt, and still go and have a good time, but call her once during your trip and talk to her.

Option two, makes you seem like your inviting along baggage, but explain the situation to the girls who are taking you, and maybe she can come with you, but only do this if you feel comfortable with who your asking, because it kind of puts you in an akward position if you have the same personality type as i do.

hope i helped a lil!
drew


I have this ex-girlfriend, ok? And see what happened is she just broke up with the guy that she broke up with me for. And I'm kinda worried that she might try to go back out with me just because I'm their and I'm familiar. Plus we also were lightly flirting last time we were together, which was about a month ago so I think I'm safe. What should I do to let her know, without a doubt, that I won't get back with her now, but do it lightly so it's not really noticeable? (link)
I have had the same problem, and i did it two different ways
way #1) "you speaking," _________ , i think we are just better off as friends then bf/gf, do uk what i mean?

Way # 2) Leave her a note saying that even though she is a great person, that you two would be better off as friends than a couple.

hope i helped a lil!
drew


i have a car and someone keyed it... also, they egged it and put ketchup and sweet n sour sauce on it! ugh! i cant believe someone would do such a thing! also, they put a used pad on it. it had blood on it and everything. SO GROSS! Also, they put a used tampon on top of it. My windows are broken and everything. What should i do? (link)
Hmm, if youve caught the bastart, LYNCH THEM! but in the high chance that you havent yet, file a police report, and have an officer come look at the damage, dont worry, bc your car insurance will cover it, but just think about who would do this to you and why, and therin lies your perpetrator.
Thanx, hope i helped!
drew


So, I was reading your advice, and I was hoping you could help me a little..


You see, tomorrow I'm going to see my boyfriend. I haven't seen him in several weeks because I've been out of town. I got my hair cut today and it's will be the first time he's seen it down tomorrow. I'm extremely self conscious, and I'm very nervous. This is a convention of sorts that I'll see him at, but I'm very nervous. I don't know how I should act, dress, etc. Should I be the one to initiate? Or should he? I'm hoping you could help calm my nerves... thanks! (link)
I think your biggest problem isnt your self consience, i think your just overly nervous to see what your boyfriend thinks of your haircut after several weeks of being apart, theres no shame in that! trust me, ive had my head shaved into a mowhawk for no reason at all. all you have to do is show your boyfriend that your the same you that you were several weeks ago, and i think if he is a good boyfriend, he would tell you your hair looks beautiful before you even could count to ten, even if it did look bad, which i doubt is the case. all you have to do is be yourself, and what helps me do that best ESPECIALLY with my loved one, is just act like hes your best friend, not your boyfriend, and that usually initiates conversation and brings out the normality in you.
Im sure you will be just fine, all thats wrong with you is a severe case of the first sight jitters, dont werry, it happens to all of us!

hope i helped! feel free to drop one in my inbox if need be!

good luck
DREW


Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.

Tim (link)
Okay, it seems like you have had enough help on the pregnancy part of the question, but a few helpful hints that helped out my stepsister when she went thru her pregnancy.
STOCK UP ON DAIPERS NOW! when you go grocery shopping, buy a pack, trust me it goes much easier once you have the baby.
MAKE SURE YOU HAVE HEALTH INSURANCE! my sister is still paying for this mistake, her baby needed to be put on a resperator for 3 weeks, all in all cost was 3,000 dollars, a regret she still has to this day, im assuming this wont be a problem, seen as how your full time job will most likely cover any health insurances for your baby, if you register him/her right away, there are quick deadlines when it comes to this, im talking 12 hrs after the baby is born, you need to mention to your health insurance provider, in order to be on the safe side.
Your wife will probobly go into a state of depression after giving birth, for about 2-3 months, make sure her doctor is good, and be nice to her.
Have a reliable home, make sure their is no flaws with your house (faulty furnace.... a/c not working...) this could just end up being the thing that throws your wife off the wall.

Make sure everything is set into motion and take as much stress off of her as possible, because as we all know (and hear everyday), women go through alot in the Pregnancy process, so just be gentle and loving, and tell those future in-laws of yours to eat your ass! j/k, just bringing some humor to a diffucult situation

hope i helped, please leave one in my inbox if you run in to any problems, chances are if its a pregnancy one, ive ran into it once or twice before.

good luck!
DREW


okay so theres this guy that goes to a different school. hes best friends with a lot of my close girl friends but ive only met him about 4 times. i talk to him online all the time and just recently he started liking me. he asked me to go ice skating with him and i accepted. now i'm scared of rushing things too fast and i always have. i'm scared to hold a guys hand and i dont know what to do if he tries to kiss me. please help! I am a 13 year old female! (link)
Hey! first of all you need to calm down, i dont think i know of a guy who likes a nervous girl! All you have to do is treat him like you dont like him, and be yourself, and as things start to come to you, go with the flow and be real! Everything that is meant to happen will, so just be yourself and let things just naturally come to you, and thats a good thing. Hope i helped.


im 13 and goin into 8th grade i have really bad acne and i was wondering what i should do i have persripion medication and i wash my face 2 times a day!!! (link)
Im sorry im going to tell you this b.c. it is rly grose, but i too, was in the same situation as you, and what i found worked best, even though it stung alot, was pop all zits possible, and once the zit did pop, clean your face off nice and good, and then apply rubbing alchohol onto a cloth and press against it, because a zit is nothing but a minor infection, and thats what has worked for me ever since.


i havent had my period yet and im 13 is somthing wrong? (link)
what i mean by that is that she hasnt started puberty yet, we dont talk about those things, bc yeah it is kinda creepy




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