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Ex-Girlfriend
I have this ex-girlfriend, ok? And see what happened is she just broke up with the guy that she broke up with me for. And I'm kinda worried that she might try to go back out with me just because I'm their and I'm familiar. Plus we also were lightly flirting last time we were together, which was about a month ago so I think I'm safe. What should I do to let her know, without a doubt, that I won't get back with her now, but do it lightly so it's not really noticeable?
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Stop flriting with her when you see her. It send the wrong message. And if she asks politley explain that you don't feel that way for her anymore. Its a sticky situation theres not real easy way to go about this. Just gotta be tough and do it.
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Well you don't even know if she WANTS to get back with you. So don't assume anything. If she starts to heavily flirt, and get intimite, then just tell her that SHE was the one that broke up with YOU and that you guys are over.
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Well since you don't know for suree if shes even going to ask you back out then maybe you should just wait, but if you hang out with her try to be less flirty, not mean, just not at flirtatious.. then maybe she'll get it from that but if not, wait until she asks you out and use the classic line, i just want to be friends.. should work.. hope i've helped
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I have had the same problem, and i did it two different ways
way #1) "you speaking," _________ , i think we are just better off as friends then bf/gf, do uk what i mean?
Way # 2) Leave her a note saying that even though she is a great person, that you two would be better off as friends than a couple.
hope i helped a lil!
drew
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Well the one thing is: Don't flirt with her at all. Even lightly flirting. Cause she might take that as a hint that you ARE interested in her. And if she does try to make a move on you or something just be like," Look, I'm sorry.. but all I want to be is friends..". Or maybe try asking another girl out ( that you like of course!! ), cause then she'll definetley know then that you don't like her like that ( otherwise you'd ask her out..) and that she can't really flirt with you or anything because you're taken. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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All you need to do is when she starts coming on to you (if she does) just get up and walk away. That will definately give her the idea that you dont want to get back together.
I hope this helped XD
X_Amanda_X
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You could ask about her ex-boyfriend and if she's ok and everything and ask her why she broke up w/ him. Maybe she did it for her own reasons, not bc of you...but if it was bc of you she prolly wont admit it but if she does you could just tell her that it really means a lot to you but you think it would be awkward for the friendship to get back together again! ok well hope I helped!
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She can't go out with you so long as you say no. I think you just tell her that your glad your still friends (if you are!) and how you wouldn't want to go through a break up like that with her again. You could ask some other girl out on a date. Or, if she just isn't the type to take a hint, you just tell her straight. Sorry, but I like you as a friend only and don't want dating to mess things up. :)
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The best thiong to do? Back off. Don't get involved with her as much and don't like make an effort to see her. Like if she calls you say you're busy. If you want it to be the most down to earth way to make sure she understands. Tell her straight.
Hope i've helped,
Anthony
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Well next time you talk to her try not flirting and acting buddy-buddy. Act like you guys are friends and what not. If she does ask you back be like * im really sorry but i dont care about you that way anymore, i was hoping we could stil try to be friends.* If she keeps bugging you just tell her you really only wanna be friends and shes not helping! Well i hope i helped a little...Sammerz
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If SHE could sooo easily hurt and betray YOU, when the HELL would YOU care about letting HER down gently??? A simple "Fuck no, Bitch", will send the message you want to get across.
Hope.. I.. helped..?
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