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what do i do? commitment problems
okay so theres this guy that goes to a different school. hes best friends with a lot of my close girl friends but ive only met him about 4 times. i talk to him online all the time and just recently he started liking me. he asked me to go ice skating with him and i accepted. now i'm scared of rushing things too fast and i always have. i'm scared to hold a guys hand and i dont know what to do if he tries to kiss me. please help! I am a 13 year old female!
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pick up on how hes acting if he moves to fast tell him if your in an uncomfortable situation and he doesnt know sooner or later you both will be he may want to take things slow just dont worry about it too much your only thirteen theres no reason to hurry just enjoy it while you can. hope i helped!
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Hey! first of all you need to calm down, i dont think i know of a guy who likes a nervous girl! All you have to do is treat him like you dont like him, and be yourself, and as things start to come to you, go with the flow and be real! Everything that is meant to happen will, so just be yourself and let things just naturally come to you, and thats a good thing. Hope i helped.
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Just going out on a date isn't rushing things. Go and enjoy yourself.
Hand holding and even kissing are not that big a deal. Nothing to be afraid of. But if you don't feel like it then don't do either.
If he tries to kiss you and you don't want to, just tell him you would like to get to know him better first. :)
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just tell him that you dont beleave in doing anything too fast on the first few dates untill your ready. ;) always works for me. Then the guy has respect for me after words.
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when he goes to hold your hand or something just think something different in your head. if ypur nervous you can tell urself that its fine you gotta grow up sometime. or just think of something happy. always helps me. hope i helped !
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you should do whatever you feel comfrontable with. dont do anything you dont want to do. if you like the guy then dont be so worried about it. i mean your going to have to hold a guys and or a kiss a guy sooner or later. right? hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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Just do whatever feels right. If he tries to kiss you, don't go with it if it doesn't feel right. Even if he gets mad that you won't kiss him, there will be other times when you feel right.
I hope this helped!
X_Amanda_X
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thats perfectly fine. if you dont want to rush things, then thats great. just tell him that && most likely he'll respect you for it. if he doesnt, hes a jerk. just go ahead and take it slow. your still young, dont feel pressured to do all those things. =) hope i helped.
♥ nicole
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the younger u start the more experienced ull be ;))))
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its ok...if you dont like this guy you can just say i dont want to ruin our friendship because relationships can do that and if u arent comfortable holding hands or kissing than tell him you arent ready yet
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My advice is to stick with your instincts. Also try to remember that he might be just as scared as you are. If he tries to kiss you, just say "lets take it slow and just enjoy every second of time were with each other." Or if you're more comfortable, just talk to him about how you feel. He might feel the same way. You'd be suprised how many guys feel the same way!
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just tell him your not going to rush into things and your just going to ice-skate to get to know him better and if you like him, then after awhile, tell him if you decide you like him too. Hope i helped and good luck!
♥Julie♥ ^o^
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