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I have four really good friends. Well one of my best friends that ive known for a long time left this week for kansas where her family lived. And we have been planning a beach trip with the four of us and our families. Well the week everyone could go she couldnt. Well..my other 2 friends (theyre sisters) theyre dad is gonna be down there and they invited me. Well i didnt kno my friend was coming back the day before i was leaving. So she got mad at me becuz they didnt invite her but they invited me. Should i go and not worry about it or not go and make everyone happy?
PS this friend has done some stuff to me..like she left me out a couple of times..but im still godo friends with her becuz our families are too
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hmm this is hard and happened to me. Ask your freind that isn't coming if it is ok for you to go if she gets mad just remind her of the time she ditched you but all the good times and not all freinds can be together 24 7 and do every little thing together if she is still mad ask your freinds that are going without the other freind if she can come if they say no then i have nothing i would follow my heart and know you did what you thought was right good luck and have fun if you go
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i would go cus its not ur fault she wasnt invited...you no? hope i helped!
DntTurnMeAway
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well i would go and have a good time before the summer is over, my friend is in Vegas and didnt invite me, but im going to Florida and i invited her so idk, id go with ur gut instict.
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I think you should go and have a good time.. i mean, you cant be with her all the time. and if she thinks that you can only see her and no-one else, she is NOT a good friend
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You should do what feels right for you. I personally would go, not to get back at her, but simply because you didn't know she was coming back the day before you were leaving. Also if you stayed home then what would you do? Sitting around wishing you went, when you could be out having fun. Obviously you'll have a blast if you go because they're your friends. The other girl can't be jealous all the time. It's not like she owns you, so you shouldn't act like the world revolves around her. She'll get over it. Plus you could always plan a day with her when you come back.
Hope I helped!
*Caitlin*
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Me personally, would explain to her that they asked you to go well before you knew that she was coming back, even if that isnt true, just so no feelings get hurt, and still go and have a good time, but call her once during your trip and talk to her.
Option two, makes you seem like your inviting along baggage, but explain the situation to the girls who are taking you, and maybe she can come with you, but only do this if you feel comfortable with who your asking, because it kind of puts you in an akward position if you have the same personality type as i do.
hope i helped a lil!
drew
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