Ok, i had a boyfriend and we were totally in love, but we barely saw eachother (once or twice a month) because we both went to different schools and were in all honors and ap classes (aka TONS of hw). In the end he ended up breaking up with me because "I love you, but i really cant b attached to someone right now." We still ended up being best friends, but about a week ago he told me that he had never told his mom about us breaking up, and i asked him y. He told me that it was because he still loved me (after 2 months), and that he could never take down the picture of us that i gave him for valentines. We're going to the same school next year, and he wants to get back together then....should i go for it because i love him...or just not put the used gum back in my mouth?
HckyAg89 answered Monday July 11 2005, 9:52 pm: What i think you should do is sit back and let what is meant to be happen. I mean still call him and hang out, and when the dreaded time comes for all of us to go back to school, i think you will have a pretty good idea of what you want to do. If it was me, i think id give the used gum a lil try again ;)
HEARTXBREAKER answered Monday July 11 2005, 5:52 pm: If you really love him, go for it. I see no reason why you shouldn't. It sounds like you guys would be a good couple.
hollistertanlines answered Monday July 11 2005, 1:10 am: i think that if you guys really loved each other and still possibly do then you guys should try it again.it seems like he really likes you.but if you dont feel comfortable being with him again then dont.you have to trust your gut on this one.
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milliethu answered Sunday July 10 2005, 6:30 pm: if i were you i would go for it. he probly broke up with you because like he said he just didnt really have that much time for you and now that you 2 are going to the same school things should change. but are you shure you really love him? i mean, no offence, but if i were in love with someone and we broke up for a logical reason, i would go out with him again asap. there probly is a reason youre not shure about it. maby you like being friends more, or maby you just injoy being single. in anny case, maby you should ask your self what you really truely want. hope i helped good luck on deciding [ milliethu's advice column | Ask milliethu A Question ]
akissintheshapeofabullet answered Sunday July 10 2005, 6:07 pm: I think any kind of guy that says he still loves you after 2 months defintly deserves a second chance. Once you go to the same school, I am sure things will be much better. Your guy seems really sweet and I know its really "cliche", but whats meant to be will find a way, and I think your love for each other has found its way.
SummerrBabe answered Sunday July 10 2005, 3:09 pm: if you still love him and he still loves you and you both have feelings for eachother i say go for it.. if your gonna go to the same school you might as well try it out again<3 hope i helped [ SummerrBabe's advice column | Ask SummerrBabe A Question ]
poetqueen answered Sunday July 10 2005, 1:15 am: see how things go when you get back to school who knows once your at school together you could have some classes together and get to see each other alot i think if he still loves you and you love him that you should go for it! hope i helped! [ poetqueen's advice column | Ask poetqueen A Question ]
xoiLovehim608ox answered Saturday July 9 2005, 9:53 pm: if you love him and haev feelings for him and he feels the same for you then i think that since he let you go and he came back it was meant to be so you should "re-chew the gum" lol!...Good Luck!
MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday July 9 2005, 9:02 pm: I think you should definetley go for it! Because whenever he broke up with you, he told you he loved you still, he just couldn't be attached at the moment.. so all this time he's loved you and you love him, and I don't see why you wouldn't date someone if you love them =) And he sound slike he's a really sweet and nice guy and that you two have a really nice relationship. Cause you guys being best friends after shows that you still wanted to be close with one another and that you must be really comfortable with eachother =) So defienietly go for it. =D Hope I helped!!
SmileLikeYouMeanIt answered Saturday July 9 2005, 8:44 pm: I don't see why you wouldn't go for it. You love him... he loves you... I don't see a problem here. It sounds like the two of you have an incredible relationship because you are able to love each other even though you barely ever see each other at all. It might be better this year, too because you are going to the same school which means you might have more time to see eachother. It sounds like you guys are really in love and i don't have any doubts that you should get back together with him. Good luck with everything... I hope it all works out! [ SmileLikeYouMeanIt's advice column | Ask SmileLikeYouMeanIt A Question ]
S_C answered Saturday July 9 2005, 4:16 pm: It depends. Do you still have feelings for him? Is the ONLY reason you broke up because you didn't see each other enough? If that's all, well then you should DEFINITLY try again. What's stopping you? Or is there something stopping you? I've never heard anyone say "or just not put the used gum back in my mouth?" That's a cool statement. But if there isn't anything stopping you, if you still love him, then you should give it another try. I hope I helped, good luck with you and the guy!!!!!!! <3 always, Kate... if ya ever need everything, post one to the inbox or e-mail... Maniac_Munchkin@yahoo.com or Bull_dawg_Babii@yahoo.com
::EDIT:: Yeah, you should, I mean, he probably didn't want to be attached because he had so many other things going on. Just make sure you're one of his top priorities. You, school, and family should be his tope 3 in just about any order I guess. As long as you are up there, then go ahead and try agaian. There really isn't much holding ya back!! But if you want, check out some of the other advice you will or might get, and just do what you feel in your heart, that's most important. And thanks for the good rating and the feedback, I appreciate it!! [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
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