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Heyy I'm HurleyGurley and i'm here to help you with your problems and questions! If you ever ask me a question i'll be sure to answer you back right away! Much love :) xoxo

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ur hawt and i wanna do u hard

its gettin' hot in herrrr so take off all ya clothesssss!

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this guy and i have been liking eachother for over a year and things are starting to happen. he has slept with 6 girls ao i guess he might be considered a "whore" im a virgin and he knows that and he told me that he liked me enough not to have sex with me. the thing is that i want to have sex with him. i think im ready and i trust him completely. i just dont know if im too young or if i might regret it so i kind of need some help. by the way im 16 if that helps at all..

if you reallly want to do it and he wants to also, then dont question it and go for it! but if your unsure i think its best you wait, and also he seems kinda sleezy if hes already done it with like 6 other girls.. but its your choice! :) xoxo

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are you a model?

yes, for Pacific Sunwear the clothing store, the picture up there is me!

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i wanna do you like dawgg, foxy ladyyyyy

i wanna do you like a kittyy, you fox!

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ok, well ive been dating this guy for a like a year, but now i feel like the realitionship is faded and i dont like him as much. now i always feel awkward around him. I still want to be with him, but im just so confused. its not fair for both of us to not be able to date around becuase we have been together for so long. So im asking advice for two things: How can I get over this whole doubtness and how can i tell him i want to maybe date exclusivly.


-lost in love

tell him your feelings, if its fading then change it! spend more time together and if it doesnt work its time to find a new man, talk to him about it! :) xoxo

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i feel like im so clueless all the time i dont know whats going on ever with my freinds and i kinda feel like im invisible and sometimes i feel like my freinds arent really my friends and im just there with them and not really freinds i dont have a best freind i thought all my friends were my best freinds but i dont think so what do i do? i feel like moving to another school but that wont do anything so ive just decided to be miserable....

i have the same problem...i just hang out with the "friend" that's closest to me, jsut be really nice to everyone and people will start to realize what a cool person you are! :) xoxo

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My best friend I and both like the same guy. He recently asked her out, and now everyone thinks that I'm mad at her; and I'm not!! I think that she might belive what thery're saying, and I don't want our friendship to fall apart. PLEASE RESPOND ASAP!

~Liz

just go and tell her yourself that your not mad at her, easy as that! if she's a good friend she will believe you instead of everyone else! :) xoxo

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ok im 13 and have always been energic. Ever since this school school year started ive been exusted every day after school. Its so bad that i acually want to take naps (ive never done that). i don't do after school programs so those can't wear me out. plus for the last 3 days ive done nothing but want to eat (also never done this before). i have no idea wats wrong and i can't go on like this. plz help i'll rate.

p.s. i can't take naps after school i have no time!

your growing! your goign through puberty and changing, eveyone goes through it..! :) xoxo

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im 13 and im scared to wear a tampon what should i do...Im getting self concious

stick it in! i wasn't scare, it doesnt hurt! :) xoxo

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Hey everyone!! This is "xO.Carrie". Hey i was wondering if anyone knew any good research sites on modeling?! mY mom really wants to sign me up!! Thanks guys!!

xO.Carrie

hey you could go to google and type in modeling or something or in the back of magazines like YM or Seventeen they show adds and websites for modeling! :) xoxo

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i dnno wat 2 do my bf is bein' a pain , should i dump him?

umm well what is he doing that's "bein' a pain"? like i dnno the situation...tell me more :) xoxo

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Ok, i really ReAlLy like this boy named Naz. This whole year, i worked hard at getting to know him, and it finally worked! So now i'm really really good friends wit him, and i tell him everything, like he tells me. My parents dont really care about me liking him, as long as i dont do anything. But then one night wen i wuz talkin to Naz, he found out that i was a virgen still, and he said, "i guess whoever u give it up to, u really luv them." Then he asked me if i wud sleep wit him. I sed i dont know. (And i know he's not usin me becuz for one thing, i'm really close wit him, and also becuz he knows i liked him this WhOlE year, so if he wanted to use me, he cud've tried to a long time ago. And i DiD kiss him before.) So anyway, i really want to, becuz i luv him. And i KnOw this is luv becuz....well i jus know. Everyone who's been in luv knows. So i want to sleep wit him, but then my brotha Miguelle cums into the picture. He says if i do that, i'm a slut and a hoe and that i shud be ashammed of myself. He made me feel really bad. But it's My lIFe, isnt it? I wanna listen to him cuz he's my brotha, but he jus has no idea how much i luv this dude. He doesnt understand, cuz he's neva been in luv before. But wat shud i do? (sorry its so long! I ReAllY need help on this, pleaz dont delete it! Thanx!)

ok maybe its just be but to me this "Naz" guy sounds like chump and i don't think you should really be wasting your time on him and giving yourself up, but it is your desicion and i think you should listen to your brother, if you want a good reputation you should wait but if you want to be known as a slut go ahead, :) xoxo -i know im sorry i may sound mean but it's the truth and im trying to be as honest as possible

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hi now i no this is gonna b gross but .. when i was younger i had sex w/ my cousin when i was like 3 and up untill i was like 9. how do i get rid of the horrible memory of.... ya no? and i feel soo dirty around my parents for not telling them!! what should i dooo?????

i don't think that you have to tell your parents of you don't want to, i know it might be embarassing bringing it up but i think you should talk to your cousin about it, and i wouldn't worry about those "dirty thoughts" cause you were only 3-9 years old to begin with, dont worry! :) xoxo

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This boy (lets call him Dan) asked me if i wanted to go out 2 dinner with him, i said yes, but i dont fancy him or anything. i dont really know him either, so what do i do if i didnt enjoy the date and dont want to go out again ( i hate hurting peoples feeling) whats the nicest way of putting it??? thanx

i just think you better tell him the truth, cause if you lie and say you had a good time you'd be leading him on thinking you like him and well i don't think you want that to happen and so just be honest with him, if you have anymore questions you can always ask me, anything, anytime! :) xoxo

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im sry i just picked this category cuz its where most people go. but somhing weird just happened. i was out bak and itss very dark cuz its like 9. and i look at the woods in my yard and.............i saw something. ....i dont want 2 believe wat i saw cuz peeps wud tthink im wweird....but i saw a pair of bright...hypnotic...red eyes. now im the kinda guy who think movies like signs and the mothman prophocies r wicked gay. i dont get scared by hem i getbored. but as i stared at these eyes i felt llight headed andd i kept hearing this sharp,crackly sound coming rom he eyes. then it all of a sudden took off!!i jumed up in the air i saw its shadowy silouhette in the sky. it reminded me alot bout mothman. but i live in Mass. this has really freakedd me out. should i tell som1?

yeah sure you can tell anybody what you saw and im sure nobody would call you a freak, well i don't really beleive that there are animals out there liek that, it was probably just your imagination...sometimes tha happens to me when i get freaked out i kinda just think about scary things( not on purpose) and i get scared a lot..dont worry :) xoxo

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My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.

since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!

i really think that you should go back to the privite school, it's only for 15 days! it would help your parents a lot and i'm sure they'd be very happy with you and liek you said you get all your money back! then after 15 days you can go back to your public school and everything will go back to normal! :) xoxo

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Ok i got my period and i have really really bad cramps. i had such bad ones that i threw up 4 times and i had just taken medicine so i threw it up. Also when i sleep i wake up like every hour because it hurts so bad. What is something i should take or do??

you could always take medcine, all kinds, i dont know much at the top of my head but dont worry we all go through it, just always stay active that helps!

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Can anyone give me Ideas? I want to get my boyfriend a gift and I'm all out of ideas!!! Some info that might help you is he is kinda in the middle of punk and prep not in clicks or anything he is 17 and we have been dating for 7 1/2 months. I want something thats cute and shows I love him but does not but cost a lot of money~ Please help me out~

well you could get him a book, cd's , dvd's, a wallet, flowers, chocolates, clothes, things guys like, just think about it and the the perfect idea will come to you! :) xoxo

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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

well if he was gay than i don't think he'd be going out with you would he? maybe he just feels uncomfortable watching those kinda things with you around, not all guys can be into things like that i guess or not as much as others! :) xoxo

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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\

you should tell her what you did wiht this guy and that you like (if you do) and if she's a friend she'll understand! just tlak it over! :) xoxo

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