ok, well ive been dating this guy for a like a year, but now i feel like the realitionship is faded and i dont like him as much. now i always feel awkward around him. I still want to be with him, but im just so confused. its not fair for both of us to not be able to date around becuase we have been together for so long. So im asking advice for two things: How can I get over this whole doubtness and how can i tell him i want to maybe date exclusivly.
-lost in love
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mermaidpoetess answered Friday November 5 2004, 1:35 am: sometimes after you have been in a relationship for awhile, the raging feelings start to fade. ask yourself "do i not love him at all? or is it just that it's not the same as before?" relationships evolve and enter different phases over time. a year is a long time, and it could just be that you've passed out of one phase of your relationship and into another, less passionate one. i suggest that before you call it off, you think about it and try to figure out that might be the cause of the matter. butit could also be that you really aren't in love with him anymore. you're the only one who knows your feelings and can determine this. [ mermaidpoetess's advice column | Ask mermaidpoetess A Question ]
xXBaBiGuRlXx answered Thursday November 4 2004, 8:16 pm: well sumtimes that elative feeling like your light headed at the start of your new relationship fades and thats not always a bad thing.it can change for the better or for the worse. if the newness of the relationship is the best thing that waz going in your relationship then you owe it to yourself and him to break up. but if you usually feel this way in a relationship after a few months than try to stick through it. its perfectly fine if your not up for sumting serious right now. you just might want to stay single for a while you know? [ xXBaBiGuRlXx's advice column | Ask xXBaBiGuRlXx A Question ]
Soulsinga answered Thursday November 4 2004, 6:10 pm: This is soulsinga bout to sing a song to your soul. Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. are u loco or what homes? this is a easy situation. Both of you guys oviously dont like each other. you guys could still be freinds. But if u feel u dont love him u should let him go and just be his freind. ah DUH!! HIT ME UP MUSICMANXX3@AOL.COM [ Soulsinga's advice column | Ask Soulsinga A Question ]
HurleyGurley answered Thursday November 4 2004, 1:54 pm: tell him your feelings, if its fading then change it! spend more time together and if it doesnt work its time to find a new man, talk to him about it! :) xoxo [ HurleyGurley's advice column | Ask HurleyGurley A Question ]
megan answered Thursday November 4 2004, 10:04 am: well it depends if u still like him or not and just talk to him and tell him how u feeel tell him that u feel like ur relationship is fading and stuff and see if maybe he feels the same way.
hope i helped.
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