Member Since: November 4, 2004
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Last Update: December 17, 2004
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My boyfriend and I have been together for around 3 and a half months. I really like him and he says he feels the same but we never talk. He acts like all he cares about is seeing how far he can go with me. When we are not hugging or kissing, we just stand around not talking. We just never have anything to talk about. I don't want to break up with him because I really like him but our relationship is based on physical contact and no emotional support. So what should I do? (link)
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sounds to me like you two should end things and just stay cuddle buddies (friends with benefits,you kno hugging kissing,etc.)so you dont have to be serious with sumeone k?
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On Monday I broke up with my boyfriend that I had been with for almost 9 months. Sunday would've marked 9 months. Anyways, I really love him but I think he deserves someone better. We both knew we'd end up together in the end. Well yesterday we were talking and my friend told me that he told her that he wanted to get back with me so bad but he didn't think I wanted to get back with him. So I told him that I wanted to get back with him more than anything. This was all on the net so he told me that I would have to ask him out in person, which I was planning on doing anyway. Well last night we were happy and we were talking and he said he didn't know whether or not he wanted to get back with me because when we're together we're one and he has no control over his life. I said "I get it.. I'll go" and he said bye forever. He didn't even try to stop me. I told him I was going to do something really bad and he said he wouldn't feel guilty about it. A bunch of things were said between each of us and he ended up saying he wanted to talk to me just not then and he knew we'd end up together in the end. I just don't know what to do. Should I just stop talking to him and try to forget him (impossible), or should I wait? I need help. He was my last hope and last night after we stopped talking I cut myself and OD'd. I'm sorry it's so long but someone please tell me what to do. (link)
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you should never let a guy make it a reason to mutilate yourself you know its bad i mean you could have hit a vein ok? talk to him explain things about why you still love him and if you think that you love him alot then you should wait for him but dont put your whole life on hold if he doesnt want you back
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okay i need some serious help on how to get my bffl that is like my lil sis bc ive known her forever... k it all started when we liked this guy... then like we started to go hang out at his house and stuff and he started to like me and so like one day we just like started makin out... and he asked me out n stuff.. k so like we stopped bc we thought that my friend had left so we went to go look for her but we ended upstairs and started makin out again.. then i heard something goin on downstairs and my friend was gone and we went looking for her and stuff... and now shes so mad... like i said something but i let my emotions get a hold of me...what do i do to get her to be my friend again... help! (link)
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appoligaize to her and explain that you didnt mean to hurt her feelings and just dont give up on her yeah i mean i'd be pissed at you too but you kno she just has a crush and all nothing serious but i suggest next time you kno your friend likes a guy try as hard as you can to back away from it and try to hook them up and dont make out with any of her crushes because then you may end up with no friends at all.
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Ok...Me and Caitlan are best friends, but we always get in little arguments about the stupidest things, and she gets mad at me sometimes for little things and it causes us to be mad at each other for a while. And everytime i start to like a guy, she hates him and she constantly says mean things about him. Like my ex-boyfriend Jeffrey, she doesnt know him, she's never talked to him and i havent even talked to him for 4 months and she's always like "brittani you still love jeffrey" and alot of crap and it pisses me off! and she gets mad if i get mad at her for that stuff. Then, now i like sean and she gets mad at me all the time for talking to him and it pisses me off! it seems like she's jealous! what should i do?! HELP!! (link)
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sounds to me likeyour friend is afraid that you might forget her or even leave her out dont always talk about guys when youre around her if it seems like it upsets her ok?
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me and my ex dated for 4months...not a long time i kno but everything was perfect we were totally in love and i realli had faith in our relationship well we broke up in august and i still havent found sum1 that makes me truly happy like chris did. my friend mentioned that i should date her exbf but now she changed her mind and doesnt want me to date him. i respect that because he is her exbf and stuff but she did kind of have my hopes up on finding someone who would treat me right and stuff. i dont kno lately its been goin through my head to just give up on a relationship right now because im only 15 but another part of me wants to keep looking. should i give up for now or keep on looking? i just dont know...~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~ (link)
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you can never give up on love holy shit!love is possibly the best thing in the world without love we might be like all weird but i kno back to the subject matter.it seems as tho you still might like your ex or you kno you dont always have to have a boyfriend no need to rush for sumone new in the meantime flirt like hell!
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im 17 yrs old and My Daddys my Best friend... unfortunatly my dad is HIV +! and im sooooooooooo scared to loose him. im scared that when and if i do i just wont be able to make it without him. 2 days ago his best friend died of aids and he got it at the same time around my dad and for the same reason. im so worried and i dont know how to react or cope with this. im scared to talk to my dad about this because i dont want to make him upset or anything. and i also want to ask him how far along he is with his AIDS .. i just dont no how to come about this.. please help!! (link)
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well if you really care for your dad then you owe to yourself to talk to ihm it might possibly make you cry but at least you talked about it and understand the situation and all.i dont really kno what to tell you to say but just let him kno that you are scared and that you dont want to lose him becuz who knows maybe he wont die you kno?
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ok, well ive been dating this guy for a like a year, but now i feel like the realitionship is faded and i dont like him as much. now i always feel awkward around him. I still want to be with him, but im just so confused. its not fair for both of us to not be able to date around becuase we have been together for so long. So im asking advice for two things: How can I get over this whole doubtness and how can i tell him i want to maybe date exclusivly.
-lost in love (link)
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well sumtimes that elative feeling like your light headed at the start of your new relationship fades and thats not always a bad thing.it can change for the better or for the worse. if the newness of the relationship is the best thing that waz going in your relationship then you owe it to yourself and him to break up. but if you usually feel this way in a relationship after a few months than try to stick through it. its perfectly fine if your not up for sumting serious right now. you just might want to stay single for a while you know?
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My best friend I and both like the same guy. He recently asked her out, and now everyone thinks that I'm mad at her; and I'm not!! I think that she might belive what thery're saying, and I don't want our friendship to fall apart. PLEASE RESPOND ASAP!
~Liz (link)
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tell her that you are not madd at her and even hang out with her like it waz before he became her boyfriend and after awhile things will fix themselves as long as you pick up where you last were before the rumors
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I have a problem...i like this guy justin. I have liked him for like 3 years and recently my REALLY good friend Shilah started liking him and he liked her too...they went out for like 1 week and she thinks she loves him but i like him alot and recently we started "talking" like b/f g/f... and i told my friend about it and now she is mad at me... but i liked him first what do i do? Do i go for him and say forget her or do i forget him?
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Amanda (link)
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you say you like this guy for 3 years right well at that point you dont really kno what to do so you decide who is more important a guy youlike or your best friend who sticks by you no matter what
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ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean (link)
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well if you really care for him you can a)tell him how oyu feel and talk to him about it or b)say it first
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