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Friends and Guys
I have a problem...i like this guy justin. I have liked him for like 3 years and recently my REALLY good friend Shilah started liking him and he liked her too...they went out for like 1 week and she thinks she loves him but i like him alot and recently we started "talking" like b/f g/f... and i told my friend about it and now she is mad at me... but i liked him first what do i do? Do i go for him and say forget her or do i forget him?
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Amanda
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talk to her...let her know how much you really like him and that what shes doing isnt really fair to you. maybe she'll stop liking him or they'll grow apart and things will turn out alright. But you cant forget him...and you cant forget her. Either way you go, someones going to end upset, so try to do it in the way you think will leave the fewest broken hearted.
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you say you like this guy for 3 years right well at that point you dont really kno what to do so you decide who is more important a guy youlike or your best friend who sticks by you no matter what
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never let a boy become between friends..never..
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lol wow me and you have alot in common my names amanda and i like a guy named justin too..haha neways..id say go for him your friend knew u liked him first so she shouldnt of went for him neways..youve liked him for 3 years wut did she like him for like a week? personally if i was you id go for him you might regret not doing it. goOd luck amanda!
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That sounds extremely cute about what you and justin have. BUT..theres always a but :-/..but you cant do that..Thats so bad karma. Plus u are hurting your friend a ton. You dont wanna do that .. right? I hope not..I would back off definitely, if he asks whats wrong explain it to him... tell your friend that you like him too but you love her way more and your going to back off because of the situation...Youre going to loose a friend if you dont..:-/
love kristin
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um i say first u need to talk to him and then talk to your friend and if u really value her friendship and want to remain close keep the guy as a friend for awhile and see how things work out. i mean they could go out for awhile or they could break up soon. but whatever happens stay true to your friend if u really keep ur friendship
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Well i dont think she is a true friend if shes gonna get mad at you for something that silly.. but i think you shouldnt go out with the guy justin.. just tell him u want to be friends just for now.Hope i helped!
<3Juliet<3
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