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My Boyfriend Wont Say he Loves me
ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean
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You should say it first, maybe hes just embarrased to say it in person , if you do it first, maybe he wont be so embarrased any more. Try spending more time together
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yeah just say it first. he could be shy or just scared that you won't say it back. good luck hun..
..kathleen*
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`oh he's probably just shy =D ` lots of people leave e-mails saying "i love you" ` or a message because they aren't saying it to them directly. `hope i helped =)
shan xox
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it sounds to me like he's just shy! maybe you should try saying it first, it might help him be more confident about saying it to you. :) ~mermaid poetess
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Well if it was me.. I would just say it to him at the end of a phone conversation... just be like "love ya" or "i love you" and see what he says.. but if you really aren't the type of person to say it first wait him out.. he might just be extremely shy! And it really does sound like he loves you so just wait.. he'll come around.
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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I think what you just need to say it to him. Maybe he only says it on messages because he knows that way you won't have a chance to not say I love you back. I think he's just afraid you won't say it back to him if he does say it to you. Just say it to him next time yall are on the phone and about to get off. -Kayla
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listen, if you feel ready to tell him you love him, say it first. just prepare yourself for all the responses he could have. if he doesn't answer with what you had hoped he would, remind yourself that guys are shy like that, and just because he can't say it doesn't mean he doesn't feel it.
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Maybe he's just shy. Give it time, he'll come around. BUt dont say it first. I mean if your fine with that kind of stuff, but if i were put in the position to say it first, i would feel really akward.
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well if you really care for him you can a)tell him how oyu feel and talk to him about it or b)say it first
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Well I have never been in this situtation but maybe I can give you some lil sumfin!If he didnt mean it on voicemail he wouldnt say it at all. Maybe you should ask him about it and see what he says or say it first and if he says it back then you know he really means it! Hope I helped!
Tell your friends!
<Kayla Ann>!
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sum guys r really embrassed 2 say it face 2 face or on the phone because they know they like u but they just can't say it 2 ur face!! it's hard for guys to say that especially in public!! he luvs u he just can't say it yet! give him time!!
*BeSs*
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first understand that sometimes people can totally feel like they love you but it just takes effort to actually speak the words so don't question is commitment or anything. if you really want to let him know and want to say it then say it. but before u do know this, if he doesn't automatically say it back don't freak out. you can't go into saying i love you to someone with expecting something back. you have to say it because that is how u feel and that all u want to do is tell that person. after u relize that and say it to him give him time. make sure u don't pressure him into saying it. if he gets used to hearing from you and know that u mean it then he will prolly say it back if he loves you. people that are guarded usually say it back automatically so if hes especially guarded give him extra time and keep on going with the relationship.
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Aww i think thats so cute!! hehe, hes prolly just really shy and scared about what youre going to say back..if i were you, id leave HIM a message and say u love him on it..then in person, say it to him be4 u are gunna leave to go somewhere..give him like a couple seconds to say it back though..i really do think its only cause he is shy! hehe but definitely tell him
love kristin
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he's just afraid that you don't love him too i think you shouldn't say it straight out say something like I liked your voicemail or something like during a conversation and at the end of being on the phone say I love you bye.
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hey grl i knwo it is hard when u wnat to say it so bad but let him coem to u hint around the idea and drop clues that u liek him alot if that dotn work try to talk 2 him or u have 2 just coem out and sya it to his face it will prob b embarseing but it will help u 2 knwo how much he luvs u bac
luv
advicegrl88
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He's probably shy. Guys are like that and if they know that they aren't speaking to you directly and "live" then they don't have a problem saying it to you. Just sit him down and say "______ (his name) I have to tell you something..." He'll say "What is it (or something like that) and then you say "I really love you" You also have to do this... when you say it to him say it while you're looking down and not directly at him and then right when you said it look up at him. Then say "I really do mean it too." He should say it back. It works everytime... even if he's said it to you in the past but not in person he should say it. All of my friends have asked me about that and they told me that their boyfriends got this really cute/sad look on their face and said "I love you too". You also have to keep in mind that it is much easier to say "I love you too" than to say "I love you". It sounds weird but that's just how it is. I really hope this helped!
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