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ok well whenever i go to the bathroom, i look at my underwear and theres this like clear slimy gooey discharge and i havent gotten my period yet ... what is this ? im 13/f HELP! (link)
i think it is a discharge that all women get before their period.. its called obvulating , it only lasts about three days


For the last few days (maybe 5 days) my stomach has been hurting. Does anyone know what it could be. Other than that I feel fine (link)
Um.. maybe its the beginning of a stomach flu.. or something you ate..

try this

1. drink lots of water
2. watch for things like vomiting, or diarreah
3. If you have diarreah you should go to a parent or doctor because it could be a stomach virus.

I hope you feel better soon baby!


i am REALLY constipated. i know i have to poop because i can feel it but it just wont come out! yesterday was saturday and i sat on the toilet for 3 hours pushing and pushing and pushing and i still cant get anything out, i really want to poop and i cant!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Aww hun i feel so bad for you! that same thing happend to me and i asked my sister if i could squeeze her hand and it worked!!!!

Step 1: ask a close friend or family member to come into the bathroom with you for a second.
Step 2: ask them if its alright if you squeeze their hand to help you out.
Step 4: Get a cloth to wipe the sweat off your head if u push too hard.
Step 5: Hug the person whose helping you and wish yourself good luck.
Step 6: Squeeze their hand as hard as you possibly can while pushing really really hard.


hope i could help..


a friend asked him one day and he just smiled, then the bell rung so he had to get to class. he didnt say yes or no, just smiled! im gonna try tomorrow to talk to him, but if i chicken out, should i write a note? (link)
Yeah , you can write a note. Smiling is good, that could be a sign of something.

Hope I could help..

xox


ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
Um... Maybe you should ask him if he still likes you. If you feel uncomfortable doing that, you should ask a friend to ask him for you.

Sorry I wasnt much of a help..

xOx


Hey im 15yrs old and i just found out that my best friend did "stuff" with MY BROTHER ! When i found out I cried cuz me and my brother WERE really close so this kinda broke us up except he doesnt know that i know .. and my best friend wasnt even going to tell me until like a couple months later until another one of our friends told her that i need to know. I told her before that he was just using her and now she realizes it. And to top it all off alot of people at school found out and everytime they ask me "omg is that true"? I just flip out on them.

1. should i forgive her?
2. should i forgive him?
3. should i tell my brother that i know wat happened?
4. should i deny it when people at school ask me about it?
5. Am I over reacting when i yell at people for asking me about it?

thanx so much xoxo (link)
Hey i think you should invite your friend over and sit in your room with your brother and friend and just talk it all out. let them know how you feel. if you want to forgive them you should, but if you dont, just wait a while. dont ruin your relationship with your brother , talk to him and tell him that your hurt. just ignore the people at school and walk away.

I hope I could help!!

xox


How can you tell if your depressed or going crazy is there any signs of it ? (link)
Well, you get really upset easily, cry a lot, act different than u usually do. Maybe if you go to the DRs then maybe he can tell you if your depressed or any thing. You could also tell a close friend or a family member. Good luck sweetie, I hope I helped !


how do you get rid of dead skin on your face?! I've tried everything, exfoliators, expesnive lotions..etc etc...and nothing seems to be working. I was just wondering if there was any home remedy or something that would make my skin smooth and flakey free? Thank you. (link)
Well, look online for some homemade stuff, the natural stuff works and it isnt expensive or anything and really fun to make! I hope I helped!


hey im sorry but this is guna sound SO GROSS but just hear me out and if u can help, plz do hehe:

okay its thursday and Ive been dieting since last sunday..i eat 3 healthy meals a day..breakfast around 7 in the morning, lunch around 12 30 n the afternoon, and an early dinner around 5:00..so its a good diet..but the thing is, in the past 4 days, Ive only gone to the bathroom [number 2] like twice and ive been kinda constipated...is there a problem? sorry i know this is nasty.. (link)
Hey sweetie, I understand, it happends to everyone and its not only you. Well, if your REALLY constipated, you should take some stool loosener or some medicine like that. Maybe its your diet, you should go back to normal and see if that helps. And if you are really struggling to get it out, ask a close friend, or family member, like ( mom , sister, cuszin ) and ask them to help you out by letting you squeeze their hand. Im really sorry and I hope you feel better soon, I HOPE I CUD HELP!!


13 - female

I started my period about 9 months ago and I know that it takes about a year or 2 to get into an exact cycle..but how do you know when you're gonna have your period..because I don't wanna have a leak at school or something and not know about it until I get home! Please help! (link)
You should use a purse or a pocketbook and tuck some pads in there. Just dont let anyone look in there. Bring the bag in with you to the bathroom in case of an emergency. I hope I was some help !


im not trying to be gross but these past 3 days i've been getting really bad diarreah after i eat something, but i dunno why cause theres no change in my diet at all, and im not sick! could i just suddenly be lactose intolerant or something? (link)
Well, is your stomach upset? Maybe it could be a stomach virus. You should tell your mom and let her know whats wrong and how your feeling. Let your mom know and if it keeps going on for another few days, go to the DR. If you've been having milk before it happends, maybe you could be lactose intollerent. And dont worry, diarreah happends to everyone, dont feel embarassed or anything when you tell your mom. Make sure you let her know ASAP.


I just got my belly button pierced today and when i went to clean it out i was going to use safegaurd soap... but it was a deoderant soap to or something, and has a little scent, do you think that its going ot hurty my belly button n all because it has a scent?
Thanks so much. (link)
Id just stick to the antiseptic stuff and some rubbing alcohol.


ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean (link)
You should say it first, maybe hes just embarrased to say it in person , if you do it first, maybe he wont be so embarrased any more. Try spending more time together


17f...hey im really really really close with my mom...shes been dating this one guy for like 3 years..they were SUCCCH an unstable couple though like they argued and broke up like every week...my mom even called the police on him once because the fight was so big..he has so much money though its crazy...parts of me thinks thats one of the reasons why my mom is with him..but neway i HATE this guy and my mom knows it..theyve called eachother sooo many names when they fight..it was such a dramatic relationship..im like a fucked up kid from it now because ive witnessed all of it..wheneever they would "break up" he would ALWAYS call my mom begging for her back and saying how sorri he is and blahblah..then they would get back together..theyve gone thru counciling, all of it..the thing is they "broke up" like a month and a half ago and he hasnt called her like once..my mom is SO DEPRESSED off it now..be4 when they would break up she would be like i dont want that asshole, blahblahblahblah..now since shes being rejected i guess she is soo sad..ive tried talking to her and telling her the obvious: its not a healthy relationship, u 2 agrue too much, etcetcetc...but she doesnt get it..i dunno how to help her..they ARENT right for eachother and i DONT want them to get back together..any tips on how i could help her move on? (link)
Well, just talk to her and tell you how you feel about it. Lol, sorry I wasnt much of a help.


is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!




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Hey hun, well online relationships can be risky and dangerous. You can still talk to him but if he asks you to meet him in person, dont do it because you never know who your talking to on the internet. It would be nice if your family and friends knew but you dont have to tell them if you dont want to. Just dont meet him in person and dont give out too much personal information .. like ur phone number, address, full name, and stuff like that. I hope I helped !




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