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17f...hey im really really really close with my mom...shes been dating this one guy for like 3 years..they were SUCCCH an unstable couple though like they argued and broke up like every week...my mom even called the police on him once because the fight was so big..he has so much money though its crazy...parts of me thinks thats one of the reasons why my mom is with him..but neway i HATE this guy and my mom knows it..theyve called eachother sooo many names when they fight..it was such a dramatic relationship..im like a fucked up kid from it now because ive witnessed all of it..wheneever they would "break up" he would ALWAYS call my mom begging for her back and saying how sorri he is and blahblah..then they would get back together..theyve gone thru counciling, all of it..the thing is they "broke up" like a month and a half ago and he hasnt called her like once..my mom is SO DEPRESSED off it now..be4 when they would break up she would be like i dont want that asshole, blahblahblahblah..now since shes being rejected i guess she is soo sad..ive tried talking to her and telling her the obvious: its not a healthy relationship, u 2 agrue too much, etcetcetc...but she doesnt get it..i dunno how to help her..they ARENT right for eachother and i DONT want them to get back together..any tips on how i could help her move on?
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well you have just gotten it..adults make really STUPID decision..and they do not have all the answers.
Your mom things this guy is the one. He is not..just from what you said..but maybe she is worried about the future so that is why she stays with him
can you do anything...no..she has no self esteem or she would not be with this loser.
but do not argue wiht him or her...see when you remain calm..and keep your mouth shut..it becomes all about them
It will end..it might take awhile..but it will end...one of them will move on.
will it be hard until then..yes..but keep out of the fights..and just listen..hopefully one of them will be an adult and grow up
I am sorry..this is NOT the kind of life you should be living...
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Well, just talk to her and tell you how you feel about it. Lol, sorry I wasnt much of a help.
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They say love is blind for a reason. I wouldn't worry about them getting back together for the moment. The point is that they aren't together right now. Spend some time hanging out with your mom and do some "girl friend" things together. It will get you closer to her and you can tell her a little about what you have been feeling about her relationship. If these fights continue, I would try finding a different guardian to live with because its not safe for you to live in that kind of environment.
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She probably won't listen to you because your younger... Let her have her time of mourning and she should get better... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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