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Lately I've been feeling so depressed. My life just seems like its going downhill. Its not my grades really. Its just about everything else. Theres a lot of drama going on between my group of friends, and everyone is splitting up (we all still hang out in one place, theres just these little cliques). I've liked this guy for a really long time, and I used to think he liked me, but now he's not showing anything anymore, and that has a lot to do with it. My parents are ALWAYS around. I'm an only child and its not like they're overprotective...I just spend a lot of time at home, and my dad's always bugging me (he didn't go to work in the last few days)... he's loud and obnoxious. I spend a lot of time with my parents and I'm so different from them. They're pigs, and I'm so neat and everything has to be proper, etc. I just feel like I have nobody and nothing to look foreward to in my life anymore. Next year I'm going to be a senior and I've been thinking about my childhood and how its all going to be over soon. I haven't really lived the teenage life...going out with friends every weekend, staying up late talking about my crush or with my crush, sneaking out, having my friends hang out at my house (in my entire life, I've only had friends over 8 times, and only 3 of those times were to hang out...the other times it was for projects). The reason for that is mostly my parents... when we have someone come over, the house has to be cleaned, and never is... my parents have to put on an act, because my dads a regular couch potatoe and my mom is always dancing and doing something stupid (yea, it sounds funny but seriously its so annoying). I never just, go to the mall to hang out with my friends. Theres a lot I've missed out on... having a boyfriend for a week and then breaking up and not having it mean anything. I don't mean stuff like getting in trouble, or doing anything that will damage my body (I've never smoked/drank or anything and I don't regret it)...just the normal teenage stuff. And I regret that. Soon it will be all over and I can't do anything about it. I don't know what to do. Everything makes me so depressed...
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Your talking to the queen of depression,seriously.
I lost alot of friend i did. BUt it made me realize who were really my true friends and what not.I try to never be home becasue my dad is off on workmans comp and such. All i can say is. try to be a teenager. Go out! just walk around if u want and rag on people (haha) or watever.Get a friend u trust and just hang out at the mall. do all the things u wanted. If u have to spend then nite at her (or his *wink wink) House and stay up all nite talkn.and about the relationships ive only had one meaninful relationship and that was like 6th grade (weird huh) all i can say. Better to get rid of the jerks be4 they lead u on deeper into feelings that will make u sadder in the end. Try to live it up as much as possible.
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Wow! Im am going through your same exact postition.. What I do that helps me alot is call up one friend not a whole bunch (mostly the one i trsut the most) and ask them to go 4 a walk with me..just to get out of the house and i talk to them about it.. Walks also calm you down alot.. the guy I like onlii shows intrest in me not aurounf his gf..and wen hes drunk.. Which realli hurts wen hes sober..so i just try and avoid him as much as I can.. maybe try talkin to your crush on how you fell..my dad is also always home and gets me pissed..but I always just try and calm down and talk it over with him.. just try n make the most of the rest of your teenage years.. try n make more friends by being outgoing and funny! Maybe then you`ll have stuff to do to get out of the house..I normally dont have friends over my house either.. jsut goto there hosue or meet up sumwhere n goto a park or the mall!!
Xo BRe oX
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wow i know how that feels you just need to get out of your house and go out and do what girls ur age do like go out and dont hurt your self because of that alright? just live ur life if u EVER need to talk with somebody u can leave some messages in my inbox or.. if you got u can IM me aight i hope i helped love,shorty
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First of all, get out of the house! Go cruizing in your car and just pick up your friends unexpectedly and go to the movies or the mall! Then second of all, boyfriends are worth much now-a-days, you will meet a better guy in college... Join more school activites and get into sports or clubs! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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