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i gave *frank* head and i kinda used my teeth..like i didnt BITE it but wen i was sucking i i kinda pressed my teeth against it..like he didn complain bu bim wondering if that hurts?
thnx (link)
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yeahh I HEARD ITS HURTS WHEN U GIVE HEAD YEAHH D0NT USE Y0UR TEETH WHEN U GIVING HEAD GIRL AIGHT H0PE I HELP Y-U!!
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my boyfriend and i have benn going out for 11 months and he is always saying how much he loves me and stuff but then he hurts me so bad sometimes and he thinks he can like other ppl but im not allowed and i cry almost everytime we get into a fight and he thinks i dont care about him and the person i would think understand this bc shes been with him b4 said i need to move on but i guess thats really not what i wanna hear because i love him so much!!! but i dont think i can trust him cheating on my and playing with my mind but i love him so much!!
What should i do :/ (link)
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well i feel you there girl.. i had a problem like that the best is that you move on bc its better being happy then hurted im sorry to says this but u need to let him go if his like making you crying thats not good i was in da problem i hating it i got to a point i said ok i will move on because its better being happy trust me ok.. if you need anything or more help me leave me some in my column ok! love nicole.. hope i help you!?
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hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help (link)
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well since your married and you met this person online you need to tell him straight up and tell him you just want to be friends and that you married and you love y0ur husband ok hope i helped! need m0re help leave me s0me in my c0lumn! l0ve sh0rty>
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Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart, and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
I rate hight for quick responses (link)
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w0w chica.. i was just reading ur question aight well smoking weed i think maybe ok but if he does it alot then maybe you should to talk him about it quiting it i dont know if its tasting bad when u kissing because i have never kissed somebody wh0 smokes well he seems like his interested in you yes im being honest it looks like he likes you because he wants you to says hi to him it doesnt matter how short he is or taller all that depends is that you like him and that he likes you if he really likes you then he will stop doing weed ok i hope i helped love,nic0le
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so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this! (link)
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ok im sorry to hear that im like going though right n0w i moved on with my x because he hurted me a lot and i got tired of it i got a new boyfriend which treats me better well try not to think about it and be lucky that you have a good boyfriend your still young dont feel unfaithful because you should feel great n0w that you have found a great guy ok i hope i helped need anything else just leave me some in my inbox ok.. love,niC0le!
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OK here's the deal. Me and this kid have liked each other for a few weeks now and he finally asked me out. We've only been going out for 2 days now but its feels like longer. I really do love him, and he loves me. There's just one problem. He's kind of "advanced". I'm only in 8th grade and i've never really been into doing things with guys. For example, I wouldn't give a guy head or handjob anytime soon. He jokes around a lot about this and really wants me to do it but he isn't pressuring me. The problem is, he always wants me to go to his house after school, and for some reason i don't like to go without a friend. I don't know why, but I just can't bring myself to go alone. I love him a lot, but I feel better knowing that someone else is there with me in case something goes wrong. Even if it's one of his friends that's there too, i'm ok, but other than that, i just get a little uneasy. It's just something weird I guess that's going on with me that's making me not want to be alone with him. The other problem is that I still don't know how to kiss and now that I have a boyfriend, I think that maybe that's the reason im scared to be alone with him because i'm afraid of his making a move on me. I don't suppose I would mind too much if we kissed but I still don't "know how to". He sounds mad whenever I don't go to his house. He always wants me to, and he always wants me to go to the movies. That's where my problme of being alone with him comes out. I don't want to go to the movies with him if it's just me and him so I usually suggest a double date but the thing is, my friend would be making out with her friend during the whole movie and it might make me and my boyfriend feel weird so I never want to go. I feel bad saying no to him, but I don't know what to do to not be scared about it. Can someone please help me and tell me what I should do? I would appreciate it so much and i will rate you 5 even if you don't give good advice. Thanks (link)
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my advice is that take it slow and since your scared to kiss him or whatever dont be they says when you kiss somebody we are like born with it so dont worry about if you cant kiss because everybody can trust me and if you feel weird with him then tell him how you really feel and first take it slow it seems like you pretty young and if you feel weird then weird you two should broke ^ bc when you have a boyfriend you should comforable with him ok i hope i helped you.. love, nIc0lE
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Dear advice people givers (lol),
I got my heart broken recently. Last Sunday to be exact. We'll call him Jason. Jason and I have been going out for a week and 4 days. We known each other for a couple of months and have been aquainted. Jason and I got in a fight the day before we broke up. He was on the phone with me and I told him my personal life and I began to cry too and he threw it in my face saying all this mean stuff. It left me so mad at him. You can't even imagine. Well on the 11th (next day) day he calls and he was all like "Hey what are you doing?" and I said "I am at my house.." I said it with an attitude because I was mad at him. Then he was like "I think we should just be friends..." I just hung up the phone. I have no idea why he broke up with me... I could not talk to him, I didn't want to. Then like 15min later he calls my cell on his friends phone and when I answer he hangs up! I was so mad and so sad. I know boys lie but somehow they make you believe their lie, He said I was the best thing that has ever happened to him and he loved me soo much and he wanted this realationship to last forever. Well...I believed it. I haven't talked to him since we broke up (dec. 5) and for some reason I really want to call him and talk but then again I think I don't want to but then I really do...do i make sense? But then my best friend told me the weirdest thing, she said that when we started hanging out as just friends, that he thought I was a ho or a slut (i wasn't supposed to know). And 1st of all I do not dress or act like one because, yo, I am the farest from being a slut and dude, he wouldn't have gone out with me if that was all that he was looking for. Because he knows me...everything almost. Should I call him? I really miss him...a lot. But he hasn't called me, not even once. I don't want to call him and feel like an idiot...srry 4 it being so long :)
Thanks :) (link)
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damn girl i know how you feel im going though that right now i know it really hurts me and my boy broke up too i know its probably just try to get over it i know its going to be hard and show him that you dont care about him anymore and just move on trust me it will take care and go out and meet other guys and dont even think about him aight if u need anything just leave me a message in my inbox.. and tell me whats up or imed me if you got AIM ok girl take care and i hope i help you love, nicole!!
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hey! does anyone know great sites for pictures/icons to put on ur buddy4u pro? thanks! (link)
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yeah check out my friends site she has like really nice icons and everything and even for your journals!
http://www.mycrazyworld0x.cjb.net/
and need anymore just ask me ok and just leave messages in my inbox ok i hoped i helped you!!!
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I never really liked anyone I was dating.I used to always cheat on all my boyfriends.
I started dating this guy about 8 months ago. I really like him. In fact I don't even care about other guys. We moved in together about 3 months ago.
Here's my problem I always think he's cheating on me. I get angry at him easly for the littlest things. I find myself always trying to start a fight with him. I don't know whats wrong with me! HELP!
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wow i know how you feel i use to be like that with my boyfriend accpect we dont fight anymore well maybe dont fight with him anymore and ask him that you feel that his cheating on you and that you want things to works and talk to him and dont fight with him about everything little thing i know its hard but think first ok '' i like him'' he must like me 2 and i bet he probably loves you and you him 2 ok i hope i helped need any help or more just leave a message in my inbox aight ok love, Sh0RtY
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2day is mine and my boyfriends 2 months...but we have been talking longer than that. but anyways...for the past few days we have been arguing alot about me talkin 2 guys..he says he trust me, but really he doesnt! but thats not it. well he transferd to my school because of me, then we started talking. and well im with him every passing period, we always text in class, im always with him @ lunch and well were always together after skool. all my homegirls think its so cute and that were the perfect couple!..but alot of my homeboys are like dont you get tired of him?!...but today since we were arguin he sat sumwhere else @ lunch..and well its just that i need time to my self. but whwen he doesnt sit with me, he is a loner!!...
im sorry this is so long..but really, i do need some advice!! (link)
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wow well tell him how you feel if you really get tired of him and you said his a loner and then he must not have much friends and your all he has right now tell him that maybe you two need some time apart like you go with your friends for a while and he goes his own way for a while so then you wont be soo annoyyed i hope i helped!!
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I had a friend named Cherry since I was in kindergarten. About a year ago my cat died and she said "Oh well, now you can get a new one." (I was very close to this cat) Well, my mom said that no one close to her had ever died and she didn't understand but I didn't listen. About fou months later I caught her talking about me bahind my back saying I needed to go one a diet. I admit that I guess I do but it was still hurtful. My friend Guari tried to stick up for me by calling Cherry a prep and saying some bad things about her. Then I got mad when she insultes Guari and we got into a big fight and I stopped talking to her for almost a year now because 1. She was a prep and Guari convinced me all preps are evil (not true) 2. She was rude about my cat (she didnt understand) and 3. she talked about me behind my back (we all do it)
Now I want to apologize but I dont know if I can or should and I know after all those bad names we called each otehr and that big fight that lasted almost a month Guari will be mad and Im not good at admitting I was wrong. What should I do? (about apologizing and if I do about Gauri's reaction) I RATE! (link)
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well if she talked behind your back and treat you like shit like right now then you know what dont even apologize to her!! you dont need a friend like that and find a new friend that doesn't talk behind your back and who is honest with you and who will be a true friend i know how it feels when ur cat dies ok i hope i helped if u anything just leave me a message in my inbox or e-mail me ok
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ok, i love this guy "John", but we currently arent together. but yet i still love him. and a freind of mine is trying to get me back together with one of my ex's "David". i mean, i like David, and would love to date him again, but i would feel ba cuz i cant give him my whole heart like i did last time, cuz i am in love with John. so i dont know what to do, me and David are still really close and are soooo alike, and i guess his friend picked up on it, and i dont know what to do, cuz, if i wait around for john, and thigns dont work, i could miss out on David, and vice versa. so someone please help me!!!! (link)
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well i would says just follow your heart and just be single and whoever comes first to u then da one u should be with i would says wait 4 john.. and forget about david..bc u said u love him and that u guys r soo alike thats what i think well i hoped love,shorty!!
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Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...
btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)
~Signed, Lost in Love (link)
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wow i would says he isnt worth those tears dont cry girl.. just tell him how u feel and her.. and ask him how he feels about u ok i hope i helped love shorty
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Lately I've been feeling so depressed. My life just seems like its going downhill. Its not my grades really. Its just about everything else. Theres a lot of drama going on between my group of friends, and everyone is splitting up (we all still hang out in one place, theres just these little cliques). I've liked this guy for a really long time, and I used to think he liked me, but now he's not showing anything anymore, and that has a lot to do with it. My parents are ALWAYS around. I'm an only child and its not like they're overprotective...I just spend a lot of time at home, and my dad's always bugging me (he didn't go to work in the last few days)... he's loud and obnoxious. I spend a lot of time with my parents and I'm so different from them. They're pigs, and I'm so neat and everything has to be proper, etc. I just feel like I have nobody and nothing to look foreward to in my life anymore. Next year I'm going to be a senior and I've been thinking about my childhood and how its all going to be over soon. I haven't really lived the teenage life...going out with friends every weekend, staying up late talking about my crush or with my crush, sneaking out, having my friends hang out at my house (in my entire life, I've only had friends over 8 times, and only 3 of those times were to hang out...the other times it was for projects). The reason for that is mostly my parents... when we have someone come over, the house has to be cleaned, and never is... my parents have to put on an act, because my dads a regular couch potatoe and my mom is always dancing and doing something stupid (yea, it sounds funny but seriously its so annoying). I never just, go to the mall to hang out with my friends. Theres a lot I've missed out on... having a boyfriend for a week and then breaking up and not having it mean anything. I don't mean stuff like getting in trouble, or doing anything that will damage my body (I've never smoked/drank or anything and I don't regret it)...just the normal teenage stuff. And I regret that. Soon it will be all over and I can't do anything about it. I don't know what to do. Everything makes me so depressed... (link)
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wow i know how that feels you just need to get out of your house and go out and do what girls ur age do like go out and dont hurt your self because of that alright? just live ur life if u EVER need to talk with somebody u can leave some messages in my inbox or.. if you got u can IM me aight i hope i helped love,shorty
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other then picturetrail and photobucket what other sites can i put pictures on more then 40 or so...thx (link)
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try www.mypicgallery.com i hope i helped love shorty!!
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HURRY how do you put more than one picture in a column??? Hurry! lol I rate High if you give me good directions! lol Love- ANdie (link)
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yeah it does let you here are da sites aight
http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?x=safe&u=html+.+help
http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#pics
ok on the second site you need to get da url on it and where it sayz pics put da url there ok i hope i helped love, shorty!!
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my boyfriend tells me how much he loves me about everyday and i feel the same but i think hes tryin to make me break up with him...always tellin me about other girls and them kissin him and its juss soo rude! what do i do? (link)
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wow.. he must be cheating on you girl well.. broke up with him and tell him if he loves you then why does he says those things??
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I was wondering if any1 knew a website to make a homepage or webpage (please Help)
-Thanks anything would help
Xo_UnKnoWn2YoU_oX (link)
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yeah try www.freewebs.com and www.migente.com thats like a site u can also meet other pplz i hope i helped aight love, shorty
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first of all.. im only 13.ok, ive been having a hard time latley. ive been getting really depressed and i felt like i wanted to die. so i started cutting. at first i just scratchd myslef till i bled now ivebeen using razors and knives and scizzors to cut my hands and my legs and my wrists. i dont kno why exactly that i do it but my frends at school found out and they started to treat me differently and that made me want to cut more.i started to think alot about suicide and i would have comited it already if i havent been so chicken. i dont want my mom and dad to blame themselvs cuz i kno they would if i killd myself.i told my frends that i wanted to comit suicide and no one even cared at all. i just dont know what to do. i just feel so alone in the world and i always feel like i want to die. it seems like no one cares and i relly dont want to live anymore.i relly dont wanna talk to an adult about this becuz i dont want my parents to get involved and it jus wouldnt work. i dont kno what your gonna tell me to do i just need some help, please.
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ok let me tell you something why are you doing @ this young you should really stop!! seriously!! ihad a friend like that but i mean dont do that and do killed ur self that just wrong i bet ur a good person u know if u EVER wanna talk 2 me feel free 2 e-mail on if u got AIM please imed me or something ok my sn is xurMySuNsHiNex1 i hope i helped ok if u need a friend right now which i bet u do please talk 2 me ok ill be there for you so stop doing those things ok and i bet pplz want u here i really know how you feel ok im out bye 1 take care love shorty
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so this one guy ((who is sumwhat popular)) asked me if i wanted to give him head and i said no.. and the next day he spread sooo many rumers about me its crazy. ((he doesnt go to my school)) so alot people at 3 different Jr highs believe the rumers he is spreading ((like ive had buttsex and im not a virgin)) and what hurts is people believe it. over the past few months ive been crying myself to sleep, depressed, suicidal, and have lost about 10 friends. ive been known to take chances and be very outgoing so when i tell people it is rumers they wont believe me! people ive never herd of hate me. is there ANYTHING i can do to stop them!?! (link)
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well listen.. if they are your real friend they wont beileve those rumers and be always be ur friends trust me and im sorry to hear that and if u need anything just imed me or just send me a message and if u g ot aim i will give it 2 u if u send me a message in my inbox ok? i hope i helped love,shorty
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