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i need help: he is always saying how much he loves me and stuff but then he hurts me
my boyfriend and i have benn going out for 11 months and he is always saying how much he loves me and stuff but then he hurts me so bad sometimes and he thinks he can like other ppl but im not allowed and i cry almost everytime we get into a fight and he thinks i dont care about him and the person i would think understand this bc shes been with him b4 said i need to move on but i guess thats really not what i wanna hear because i love him so much!!! but i dont think i can trust him cheating on my and playing with my mind but i love him so much!!
What should i do :/
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well if you can't trust him then you know the answer to that question.. you need to have a talk with him and make him know that you are dead serious... sometimes guys just need to get a reality check.. also maybe he thinks that you are "clingy" so play hard to get and maybe he'll change his mind on liking other girls
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If that guy is cheating on you, you've been in multiple fights? You should completely drop it. If he LOVES you like he says he does and isn't just completely using you he will drop this girl like a hot potato and come back to you. I don't think you should keep drowning in this unsincere relationship when there are plenty of other fish in the sea that won't cheat on you. In my opinion you seem to be wasting your time with this guy.
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well i feel you there girl.. i had a problem like that the best is that you move on bc its better being happy then hurted im sorry to says this but u need to let him go if his like making you crying thats not good i was in da problem i hating it i got to a point i said ok i will move on because its better being happy trust me ok.. if you need anything or more help me leave me some in my column ok! love nicole.. hope i help you!?
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Why do you love someone who hurts you? He doesn't sound so great to me. Write a list of all the things you 'love' about him, and then all the things he does that hurt you. Seriously. By the end you'll be wondering the same thing I was. It'll blow yer mind.
Break up with him.
xoxo
ABCTC
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You can forgive him again and again and things will seem okay for a while over and over but that's all it's going to be is a never ending pattern. If you are prepared to be hurt over and over then stay with him, but if you want to be strong and respect yourself then leave him. It's a tough decision, I know how the love feels, you just want to keep him, I know. It all depends on how much you can take, and your heart will let you know when it can't take anymore. It's a hard lesson and it sucks, but you will be a stronger person in the end if you don't put up with it forever.
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Hun, if you don't got trust in a relationship what do you have? Nothing. I relationship is all about trust and understand. I know it's hard to give up on someone that you've been with for 11 months, but you have to. He treats you poorly. If he really does love you, like he says he does, he wouldn't be treating you like there. There's a lot of other guys out there that are waiting for a girl like you. He doesn't sound like "Mr.Right", so maybe you should break up with him and think things out. Maybe get back on track and find your Mr.Right.
♥ Krissy
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