I never really liked anyone I was dating.I used to always cheat on all my boyfriends.
I started dating this guy about 8 months ago. I really like him. In fact I don't even care about other guys. We moved in together about 3 months ago.
Here's my problem I always think he's cheating on me. I get angry at him easly for the littlest things. I find myself always trying to start a fight with him. I don't know whats wrong with me! HELP!
21/female
zapreth answered Saturday December 4 2004, 10:33 pm: I think you are projecting your insecurities on him. You know how you used to be, and you are terrified that he will be the same, now that you have finally given your heart to someone. This is your contience hounding you for old wrongs. It's called transferance. Seek some counciling. You have issues you need to deal with. If you can get him to go, great, but you really need to look into it for yourself. Hugs and luck! [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
xoxobabygirl answered Saturday December 4 2004, 10:01 pm: wow i know how you feel i use to be like that with my boyfriend accpect we dont fight anymore well maybe dont fight with him anymore and ask him that you feel that his cheating on you and that you want things to works and talk to him and dont fight with him about everything little thing i know its hard but think first ok '' i like him'' he must like me 2 and i bet he probably loves you and you him 2 ok i hope i helped need any help or more just leave a message in my inbox aight ok love, Sh0RtY<<<<<<<<<<< [ xoxobabygirl's advice column | Ask xoxobabygirl A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Saturday December 4 2004, 9:59 pm: maybe you feel that way because you were in the position of constantly cheating and you know how you acted and maybe he is acting in that same sort of way. no offense... maybe you are just paranoid about it because you dont want to get hurt and that your conscience is making you wonder about it. you will know if he is chaeting on you. if you are always trying to fight with him and he is still with you then there is obviously something about you that inerest him. i wouldnt worry so much about it. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
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