so this one guy ((who is sumwhat popular)) asked me if i wanted to give him head and i said no.. and the next day he spread sooo many rumers about me its crazy. ((he doesnt go to my school)) so alot people at 3 different Jr highs believe the rumers he is spreading ((like ive had buttsex and im not a virgin)) and what hurts is people believe it. over the past few months ive been crying myself to sleep, depressed, suicidal, and have lost about 10 friends. ive been known to take chances and be very outgoing so when i tell people it is rumers they wont believe me! people ive never herd of hate me. is there ANYTHING i can do to stop them!?!
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Sunday October 31 2004, 5:33 pm: Sorry hun, but you can't do anything to stop it... All guys are immature around your age! Stop crying yourself to sleep for once... Cheer up! Go out more with the friends you have because obviously they are your true friends if they believe you and not the rumors! I hoped i helped!! :)
orphans answered Sunday October 31 2004, 4:11 pm: Probably not. The damage has already been done, but you know what you've done, and your friends (if they ARE your friends) should believe you. Highschool hell ends. And then you go onto life where people still suck, but not so much. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Sunday October 31 2004, 3:41 pm: Tell them exactly what happened.
ThReEdAySgRaCe_GuRl answered Sunday October 31 2004, 3:40 pm: sorry, u cant do anything about rumors, but dont let the rumors get to you, only you and God and your family know that your a good person and that all that matters. Dont feel down cuz thats wat they want u to be. If these people are beleiving every lil lie, then wat friends are they!? Rumors are so stupid. People are just jealous cuz your actually pretty enough to get some action! lol. they think just cuz your beautiful, your not a virgin! jealousy! they are SOOOOO jealous of u cuz your pretty and an awesome person and their all NOT! cuz they have nothin better to do with their time so they make fun of good people! Forget them, cuz u have a life! enjoy! and i'll help any way i can! Love, Threedaysgrace_gurl! [ ThReEdAySgRaCe_GuRl's advice column | Ask ThReEdAySgRaCe_GuRl A Question ]
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