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Broken Hearted...
Dear advice people givers (lol),
I got my heart broken recently. Last Sunday to be exact. We'll call him Jason. Jason and I have been going out for a week and 4 days. We known each other for a couple of months and have been aquainted. Jason and I got in a fight the day before we broke up. He was on the phone with me and I told him my personal life and I began to cry too and he threw it in my face saying all this mean stuff. It left me so mad at him. You can't even imagine. Well on the 11th (next day) day he calls and he was all like "Hey what are you doing?" and I said "I am at my house.." I said it with an attitude because I was mad at him. Then he was like "I think we should just be friends..." I just hung up the phone. I have no idea why he broke up with me... I could not talk to him, I didn't want to. Then like 15min later he calls my cell on his friends phone and when I answer he hangs up! I was so mad and so sad. I know boys lie but somehow they make you believe their lie, He said I was the best thing that has ever happened to him and he loved me soo much and he wanted this realationship to last forever. Well...I believed it. I haven't talked to him since we broke up (dec. 5) and for some reason I really want to call him and talk but then again I think I don't want to but then I really do...do i make sense? But then my best friend told me the weirdest thing, she said that when we started hanging out as just friends, that he thought I was a ho or a slut (i wasn't supposed to know). And 1st of all I do not dress or act like one because, yo, I am the farest from being a slut and dude, he wouldn't have gone out with me if that was all that he was looking for. Because he knows me...everything almost. Should I call him? I really miss him...a lot. But he hasn't called me, not even once. I don't want to call him and feel like an idiot...srry 4 it being so long :)
Thanks :)
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Let it go. It only lasted about a week. That's not a very long relationship...And plus it was mean that he wasn't nice about you telling him your problems. Don't call him. There are better guys out there, and you've got plenty of time to find them.
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a week and 4 days.. i know that people are like omg boyfriend!! but this is what people to get a sense of feeling of what they like in a guy for in future 'hookups'.. but if he really did believe in what he said about forever.. he would have called you by now. i dont think you should waste your time on waiting for him to come around and you to call him. theres better people and if a guy makes fun of you for crying about your life, thats total bs. you def dont want that in a guy. but its up to you hunnie. x0
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sounds to me like you were either a booty call or he was using you to say he has a gf to look all big in front of his friends. I'd call him and talk to him about everything you just told us! good luck if you need anymore advice just ask!
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Forget this guy, he sounds like a real jerk. If he's THAT insensitive, then don't waste your time worrying about him! Believe me, you can do better. I'm sorry about him lying to you, and it isn't the first time you'll hear that little line--most guys will use it at some time or another--but there are tons of guys out there that ARE worth your time.
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I want to give you part of a speech that my older, mature friend gave me: All guys between the ages of 14 and 25 are LIARS and ASSHOLES and maybe just wanna git in your pants! But guys are assholes! But you were kind of wrong in this situation because you neer gave this guy a real chance to explain! But he is an asshole and just get over him!
*Good luck hun!*
...*Merry Christmas!*...
>>Emmy Boo<<
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call Him ! and just say wuzup . He did say he wanted to be friends . ( but boys do lie ) My Best friends boy friend told her that he was never going to break up with her and he did . But now they are friends i have had boy friends like that we are very good friends so dnt worry about it act normal and act like you have moved on and he will be the one to beg you ! It might take a while! you could also 3-way him and pretend you are not on the other line and see what he says
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After that big fight, he was probably angry like you so he broke up with you. If this guy really loved you he wouldn't let that fight ruin the relationship. He would apologize. Since he hasn't called or acted like he cares about you anymore, it seems like he doesn't care once so ever. Yes, guys are good at leading girls on then leaving them broken-hearted. I really don't think it's worth the time to call him. If he wanted you back he would have tried already. I know it's hard to let go of a guy you really like, but if he's going to go call you bad names and do those things to you, he's not worth the trouble. True love is something that never dies, so if it's died
for him it most likely will not work out. Who knows, maybe you'll find a new guy to love. There's many guys who will break your heart, many who you'll love, but you'll make it through. ;)
//laura
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whats ur problem writing something so long?
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damn girl i know how you feel im going though that right now i know it really hurts me and my boy broke up too i know its probably just try to get over it i know its going to be hard and show him that you dont care about him anymore and just move on trust me it will take care and go out and meet other guys and dont even think about him aight if u need anything just leave me a message in my inbox.. and tell me whats up or imed me if you got AIM ok girl take care and i hope i help you love, nicole!!
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--wow--that sucks-like bad-but no,i wouldnt call him-not for a little bit longer atleast-cuz you were friends befor-maybe you can pull it off again-but you need to kno-you not ready to be friends with a guy that just broke your heart-and yes if you loved this guy it will take a long time to get over(sry to say)-it took my half a year to get to the point where i could finaly hangout with him-but i still hurt and its been well over a year and a half--and lets get this clear-when most guys say forever-forever to them means until there ready to move on-(also sry to say)-you will miss him-for a long time-even if you do become friends again--this is rlly all i can say to you-broken hearts happen often-the guy who fixes it for you comes not so often--
--good luck to you--hope things work out
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well people will almost always get their hear broken. Well if he broke up with you he wasn't good enough for you anyways--
jpepreppie
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