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What do you do
What do you do when your best friend is kind of blowing you off and when you aren't hanging out anymore. I miss her and don't want to let go.
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Is your best friend blowing you off cos you don't hang with her or the other way round? You have to think if there could be anything you have done recently which could have upset her. Next, you have to confront her either face to face or, if thats too difficult, over the phone. Ask her whats wrong and if you have done something wrong. She should tell you then but if not then the best thing to do is to write her a letter or email. This might sound stupid but this way you can get all your thoughts and feelings down and everything you want to tell her and let her know about, out in one go and without being interrupted. Tell her that she means a lot to you and how this is making you really unhappy. She will realise how much she is hurting you especially as you took so much time in letting her know exactly how you feel and therefore how much you do count her as a really good friend.
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That's what is happening to me. I'm not confrentational (or i'd sit her down and talk to her about it) so I'm just trying to call her and make plans to hang out with her whenever we're both free. However, in my situation, I'm getting to see how she really is when she's not around me and I really don't want her as a best friend, afterall. I'm sorry I wasn't much help, but I hope you don't lose her. Sit her down if you feel like you can do that, and don't give up if you really don't want to.
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u need to sit her down and talk to her about it because friendships are good to hold on to.. plus.. if she is a good one she will sit down and listen to you complain or whatever. Just tell her you miss her being around i had that problem with a friend we hang out every so often but she is one of my best friends so whatever but just talk to her
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talk to her, try to have you two hang out more like invite her over to your house or to the movies or talk to her on the phone,if that doesnt work tell her you miss hanging out with her and you still want to be friends if she had gotten the wrong idea that you didnt want to be friends anymore hoped that helped
~mini
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well... then try and corner her and talk to her so that you can work things out..
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Talk to her about why you two don't hang out that much anymore. Tell her how it's making you feel. If she keeps blowing you off talk again but if she always blows you off after howw ever many times you talk to her she's not your real friend. Most likely if she's your best friend she'll stop. I hope I helped!
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if i were you i would walk up to her and say wat you feel. there has to be some reason that your friend is blowing you off. if that doesn't work send her an email,im,or note and drop it in her locker. hope everything works out.
--jpecheeroxsmisoxs
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umm if i were you i would talk to him/her about how you feel and see why she is acting like that. it could be that shes preoccupied or maybe is really busy, i dont know. nothing will change unless you talk to him/her about it
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You ask your friend why she is blowing you off and that you should hang out more because you miss those days
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First talk to your friend about it.Tell her exactly how you feel and how you miss hanging with her.If she doesnt understand its her loss.
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Call her up on the phone or go over to her house and say "hey we havent hung out in a while lets go out tonight" and tell her you miss her
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my bff from 4 years did that to mee. at first its hard, but then after a while its really not that bad. i kinda dont care anymore. its sad, i'm really sorry sweetie, theres nothing u can really do. she may be mad at u or something. talk 2 her ask her what biting her ankles.
x0x Loverx33
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You should talk to her... tell her how you feel... ask her how she feels... try to put the pieces together & figure out what is causing her to do this... maybe it's unintentional... if she doesn't seem to care... or gives you an attitude... it'll be best to give her sum space...
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give her some taste of her own medicine blow her off when she trys to hangout with you! and when she says we need to talk tell her why your doing it or you could take lead and tell her that you guys need to take about your friendship good luck!
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I would first talk to her online, on the phone, in person..which ever one you prefer. Confront her and tell her how you feel and how your hurt. Maybe she doesnt realize shes been leaving you out..maybe she has a reason or something who knows? But talk to her first...
It really sux sometimes but friends drift apart and sometimes theres nothing you can do about it :( Hopefully this isnt the case and i hope it all works out. I know how you feel..stay strong
-melissa
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well ! does she have any reason to be mad at you ? if so let her cool down. if not tell and talk to her about it ! after all you and her are BF! so so you should feel comfortble with her . maybe she thinks you are blowing her off !
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It sounds to me like she might want some space right now. Maybe she found different friends to hang out with. Catch her in the hall or call her. Tell your best friend you'd really like to hang out more and that you don't like when she blows you off. Talk about how you're feeling. If shes's a true friend she will try and make time for you so you can hang out. Suggest seeing a movie or going to her house sometime when she's not busy. If she still continues to ignore you, that's her choice. She doesn't know what she's missing out on with a good friend like you, so you'd have to let go and hang out with your other friends. I hope it all works out for the best!! =)
*laura*
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Your on luck, well the same thing happened to me! put some presher on her (why are you being me) that tottaly freaks(not in a bad way) them out, it works you will get in to a conversation and you will soon be laughing back at this day
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Dear What Do You Do,
Just talk to her, and if she doesnt understand and try to work it out... then you are to good to be her friend.
From,
David's Girl
P.S.
dont get upset if you aren't friends any more if you need an internet bud just email me at Mustang82@sbcglobal.net my name is Kaitlyn
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duh go get a new better one
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Well that happens to alot of people!Well things will straighten out soon. Believe me!
---jpepreppie
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wow-the same thing is happening to me-except its kinda over now-its hard-to see your bestfriend move on without you-heres sum10 that i read and it made me see how things are-"sum people come into our lives and quickly go..sum stay for ever-and they leave footprints on our hearts forever."-im not shure if youll understand that rite now-but rlly its the only thing i can tell you--i lost my bestfriend to a prep-it sucks-but soon your gonna see that she wasnt a waist of time-cuz of how much you learned while bein friends with her-shes part of your life-nvr let that go-but nvr forget-she mite come back to you-and bein a good frined-you should be there with open arms
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you have got to talk to her! you have to ask her why she is doing this and if it something that you did,, if she says somethings not wrong and you know that something is dont keep rubbing it in, it may be something she does not want to talk abou.
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The only thing you can do is to talk to her and tell her how you feel! It stinks, knowing that you aren't hanging out anymore and being blowed off right? Maybe she's mad at you? Just ask her why she's been doing this to you and I'm sure you and her will go back and start being real friends with her! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Sorry, but she is just telling you that she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. You should start searching for some new friends,ones that will value your freindship.
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