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hey what up...here are some semi interesting things about me...im in marching band, i act in plays at church, i have 2 sisters and a 2 brothers, im the middle child...and well thats about it...feel free to ask me anything and i'll try to answer it!
E-mail: go_french_horn_2006@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Michigan
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: kristoff911
Member Since: December 11, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: December 13, 2004
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For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me. (link)
um first i would say to talk to your parents, they can help you by helping find you a counselor to talk about why you are cutting. i dont know what you are going through or what makes you want to cut yourself, but you need to stop before you hur yourself in an even worse way.


I am 16 years old and I have been through hell and back! My mom was with a guy for nine years and I was molested by him. Now every year she is with a new guy. In February I was raped by my brother in-law and my mom didn't believe me at first, I was called a liar and I was told that I asked for it, the cops didn't even believe me until I took a polygraph test! I eventually got away from my mom because she hit me one day. I was living with one of her friends which kicked me out of her house for smoking cigs (She knew before I moved in that I was a smoker and I NEVER smoked in her house or even on her property!) I tried to kill myself because I didnt want to go back to my mom, i was placed in a mental institution for 4 months and now I am living with my mom again! She of course is with another guy. In the last few weeks my mom has had two strokes because of her boyfriend yelling and threatning her! I can't take it! I have enough problems of my own and the other night I tried to kill myself again! I dont want to end up back in the hospital and my moms new boyfriend is cool as long as they aren't fighting. I am scared that my mom is going to get hurt and I am going to end up dead because the slightest things make me want to cut, burn, or die! I still don't feel close to my mom, but I spent so long fighting her and finally gave in. I have no where to go but back to the hospital and I dont want that! WHAT DO I DO! (link)
first of all i think that you need to talk to a counselor to work out your problems. DO NOT KILL YOURELF!! that is not the way out. you may not know it but the people around you will miss you if you are gone. you could seriously hurt yourself if you keep cutting. u need some help!


14/F. I have to get orthodonic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks. (link)
they hurt for about 4 or 5 days but after that it shouldnt hurt very much or at all. once you get used to them, they shouldnt bother you. the orthodontist should give you wax to put on wires if they are poking your mouth. any color will look fine as long as they go well together, like dont get brown and lime green, that would be hideus. if you chew gum, sugarless is probably the best kind to get,but it might be a good idea to wait about a week or so before chewing it so your mouth can get used to having metal in it.


I was having a conversation with a guy about sex between the same sex, and of course he was very excited to hear about my girlfriends and I open mind in the subject. After I told him about a personal experience, he felt free and conferrable to tell about his with another man. The feeling of disappointment and discuss was automatic, and he asked me to explain why? where is the difference? why was it okay for me, and so wrong for him? I was out of words, there where no explanations, this has never been open for discussion. At this point I think that maybe if I can't be open minded about both ways of same sex relationships then I need to rethink my ideas of two girls together.
How does everyone feel, and if the same as me, how would you explained. why do we accept to girls and not two men? (link)
i have the same problem. i have several homosexual friends and they are open about what they do with other men. we cant change the way they are, we cant force them to change. if you have any questions about anything like that i suggest you talk to your health teacher at your school or to a counselor at your school. thats a hard question to answer sry if i didnt help at all


What do you do when your best friend is kind of blowing you off and when you aren't hanging out anymore. I miss her and don't want to let go. (link)
umm if i were you i would talk to him/her about how you feel and see why she is acting like that. it could be that shes preoccupied or maybe is really busy, i dont know. nothing will change unless you talk to him/her about it




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