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Gay relationships
I was having a conversation with a guy about sex between the same sex, and of course he was very excited to hear about my girlfriends and I open mind in the subject. After I told him about a personal experience, he felt free and conferrable to tell about his with another man. The feeling of disappointment and discuss was automatic, and he asked me to explain why? where is the difference? why was it okay for me, and so wrong for him? I was out of words, there where no explanations, this has never been open for discussion. At this point I think that maybe if I can't be open minded about both ways of same sex relationships then I need to rethink my ideas of two girls together.
How does everyone feel, and if the same as me, how would you explained. why do we accept to girls and not two men?
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It really matters on the person wether they decide if they want to "accept" that idea or not. Tell him that you have your views and he has his.
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Maybe its because girls seem all huggy an kissy anyway if their friends so it seems ok
i hav no problem with any gay relationships with girls or man so i dnt mind theres nothing rong wid them an its not their fault they r gay.
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OKay, this is what I would have said before your added info ...I feel that both males and both females can be together, it doesn't gross me out at all, even though i'm straight. Society in general, accepts women being together just because men are more ... open with their sexual wanting then women. And what do you think a man would rather see, 2 men or 2 women? lol. To the additional info, the reason his experience gave you the creeps was because you were attracted to one another. It probley took you on by surprise. You probley go with society's standpoint though
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Okay i have homosexual friend buti dotn try to change them. I mean i am all for gay/lesbian marridge. They are people to right. With the same rights as us right? No one has the right to deny marriage. ill go more into depth if you want me to.
-beccers_boo
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i have the same problem. i have several homosexual friends and they are open about what they do with other men. we cant change the way they are, we cant force them to change. if you have any questions about anything like that i suggest you talk to your health teacher at your school or to a counselor at your school. thats a hard question to answer sry if i didnt help at all
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people have this thought that two girls together is sexy while two men together is discusting. truthfully, you can accept any way you want..most people accept girls more because its "cleaner". For example, two men will have anal sex and two girls can eat eachother out. there is a fine line between the two activities both sexes perform, but they are still very different. in my opinion, if accepting men together is harder than accepting two girls together, thats understandable. But don't show discust towards a friend that was with another man when you did the same thing and was with another girl before. you have to have an open mind while talking about those things and try to accept everyones opinions and values and ways of living.
well, hope i helped!! if you need more advice, feel free to ask.
take care. - ash
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