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hey everyone, it kinda seems like everytime i look at this stuff on the internet, the next day, something bad happens. If god knows that we are gonna look at that stuff, why doesnt he try to stop us, or why did he even create that stuff???

the thing about God is that he doesnt stop us because he wants us to learn it on our own. he has done such a great job, so you shouldnt question him. he wants us to fight temptations. He doesnt do everything for us. and it was our fault there is that kind of stuff! he created the world perfect and then adam and eve ate from the forbidden tree and there came sin cause of temptation. just stop looking at the kind of stuff. its not good for you anyways.

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im 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend or even a kiss. the thing is i want one but, when people like me i say no because i want the one that i like and thats all. the thing is how do i get the person i like to like me back? but they may like some one else.thanks

please dont delete

hun. theres no need to rush into relationships. they take time to build. just be you and be flirty! it works like a charm!!

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hey girl..i really love your site! it helps tons of girls w/ their problems! k heres my question..i have love handles and i really want to get rid of them. i've tryed doing situps, side crunches, pilates, work out videos and everything i could think of...but their still not getting smaller! help! i know guys hate the chubby girls.... thanks for the help! *lovehandles* 17/f

Alot of girls have love handles during teen yrs. its just because of how the body is maturing and it always has the extra there in order to grow more! dont worry, alot of people have them! continue with the pilates. for situps, do like the ones where yu switch from side to side. they target that area! they should get smaller, and if the problem persists.. ask your mom or a doctor if they have any special workouts! good luck sweetiee!

xoxox Loverx33

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I want to buy a pair of vans from a website and I'm wondering..do they run small..big or just regular size?

alittle small.. just buy one half or a whole number larger! xoxox Loverx33

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im 16.f and my best friend is 13. she likes to boss me around and recently she told me that im so perty and i take everyone away for everyone else. shes not the skinniest person, but hes not overweight. she told me today to gain ten pounds and get ugly or im not realy her friend. im also goin out with her older brother. ( thats not the reason shes my friend tho) and shes told me to break up w/ him b4, but i cant just b/c she says so. she says she gets no attention and nobody likes her. i think i have a future with him and i cant just break it off b/c her. right? thanks..

totally not hunni! shes only 13.. what can she do to you? she cant boss you around like that. just tell her that:
a) you are not gaining 10 lbs
b) you are not getting ugly
c) you are not breaking off with her brother
d) she cant boss you around
e) get a life
hunni, its ok. just dont let the little loser get to you head. shes not worth it the way shes acting towards you! try to find a best friend your age and you style.


good luck hunn!
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My math teacher is really cool, he is really youn
and he's friends with alot the students. I talk to him alot before class, after class, during advisory, and in class.
The other day I was talking to him before class started and I was wearing semi-new pants. I had the plastic thing that keeps the tag on them,on the side of my thigh really close to my ass. It's really small and clear but he noticed it and took it off for me. I'm wondering if this is innapropriate.
He never really makes me feel uncomfortable but it does seem odd that he noticed something that.
Do you think that this is innapropriate?

no hunni, i dont.. i mean, keep an eye out so it doesnt get anything too bad!


xOx Loverx33

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ok well I have a problem everyone hates my screen name (sn) and I hate it too.. Everyone tells me to change it and I kept putting it off but tonight I wanna change it.. I have no frickin clue what it should be.. I am into basketball volleyball soccer well I dont wanna name all but mostly EVERY sport I like punk rock music like green day blink 182 and that stuff... plz give me some sn's i could use.. love ya lotz KAYDEE

umm, i luv making up screen names =C)

-KaydeeBabeex3o
-VballBabex33
-BbaLLHunni xOx
-PinkPunk 101
-GreenDayFan xOx
-BL1NK182B4BY
-SoccerShexii x33
-PunkBabii 411
-PUxK4YD3ExNK
-SportyShorty xOx
-BlondeSportsBabe
-BrunetteSportyx3
-BlackHairBabYx3o
-CandiiCutie x3o
-BR41NxD34DxBABY
-Loved xOx
-PinkBaby 101 ((or fave color))
-HotStuffAthlete
-Xo Athlete oX
-OoKaydeeBabeeoO

well, if ya need more just ask! i'm here to help! xOx good luck ;)


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2. I want my braces to not stand out so much (right now I have hot pink rubberbands) and I was thinking about getting either clear or white rubberbands. But I heard that the white rubberbands make your teeth look yellow. And I heard that the clear rubberbands turn the color of whatever food you eat. Is this true?? Does anybody have clear or white rubberbands that could give me some advice?? Help!! Thanks!!

yes, it happened to me. light pink kinda makes them so they dont show and its a pretty color. its what i have!


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I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do?

well, personally, i thk that Christianity is the one u should pick. God has his ways and he is the right path for your life. He has all the answers and Jesus is the only way you can get to heaven. This is my opinion and i think that it is the best thing for you too. tell me what you pick :).


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i know it is long, but i need the help!


i have this friend that i really like that has been my best friend since second grade! his name is Dylan. he is kinda chuby. but that doesn't matter to me! i really think i am starting to develop a thing for him. the only prob is that i live in Kansas, and he lives where i used to live, Arizona. i am in 6 grade now. and he was the first friend i ever made when i moved to AZ. i really really lik him! i got a phone call from him last night and i haven't seen him or talked to him for like 9 months. and out of the blu he jjust called me. i really miss him ! what should i do? plez help if you haven't alresdy fell asleep!

ur onlii in sixth grade kiddoo! enjoy being a kid, and dont let puppy lovee make u go crazii. just stay a friend because long distance relationships are soo hard i'll tell ya! if ya need anything, just askk!


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What do you do when your best friend is kind of blowing you off and when you aren't hanging out anymore. I miss her and don't want to let go.

my bff from 4 years did that to mee. at first its hard, but then after a while its really not that bad. i kinda dont care anymore. its sad, i'm really sorry sweetie, theres nothing u can really do. she may be mad at u or something. talk 2 her ask her what biting her ankles.


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hi i love my mom but every day she always yells at me for no reson like if i write sloppy. and she loves to get me in trouble with my dadi need some help what can i do to be a better daghter.


:~( :~(

aww sweetie i'm so sorry :(. have you tried talking to her? ask her why shes nagging at ya? there must be something bugging her, and well takes it out on yu, which is totally wrong. just talk to ur mom, and tell her to get off ur case. this always works--ur doing no good to our relationship. thats cause parents want good ties with their kiddies and if they are told, then they should be bettaa!


good luck babay!


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i am directing a play . i don`t know what one i should do . can anyone think of a googd play

omg, lol, i thought it was a play in like basketball haha, soz, but umm here are some ideas...

YOUNGER KIDSS: Peter Pan, Aladin, Robin Hood

OLDER PEEPS: Romeo and Juliet, Comedy Sitcoms, and there are a lot of others so just ask!

lol, good luck!!


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my crush says that he can't get a gf right now because he is busy with other stuff! I heard he likes me from my other classmates. does that mean he is not that into

it prolly doesnt mean he doesnt LIKE you. he may be telling u the truth, u should trust him. he seems to like you, but what you should do is just be his friend. like get closer to him, cause he might be nervous around you. he might not feel comfortable yet. its nothing about you hunni, just give him a little time sweetheart!


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well im in basketball...And im like not too good whats a way to help me not think about bein nervous...or somethin...plz help me out !!

aww! ur prolly awesome! but just tell urself that u CAN do it like everyone else and no one is there to judge u. besides is wat YOU think. dont try to please everyone. TRUST me, it doesnt work! lol, i tried it 4 a while!


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What is the best way to break up with a boy if you are going to. Should I call him, write him a note, E-mail him, or IM him?! :-/

-Worried

IN PERSON! best way, that way he knows yu have guts and never break up online! always in person babes!


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Can girls get pimples.... down there?

from shaving, yes. just use a lot of shaving creamm!


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Is there anyway to get rid of acne and blackheads fast or at least to get less of it?? PLEASE TELL ME!! I'm 13 and a girl

sun usually does good, but if yu dont live in the hot areas, use proactive. its really good! its working on mee :)


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I'm a 13 grl and I'm really self concious about my body. I always think I'm fat but my friends say I'm not.. But I think they r just being nice.. I've thought about becoming anerexic. I know how it hurts ur body and stuff but I dont care. I've eaten less in tha last few days. Am i becoming anerexic? How do you know if you are?

i have the same problem. i AM skinny but i just feel BLAH! many girls have this problem. dont stop eating, i mean i really havent eaten a FULL meal in a week, and i feel sick. i just havent been hungry. ur body needs food, so dont make this problem. excersise more if yu want to lose wieght hunni! good luck babay!


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im 20 and a female, i very much want to open my own strip joint...what do you guys think...also what do you think i should do...give me suggestions about all little things like what do you guys like about going to them..(like what should i call it, what should i have inside?) thanks for taking the time

i really wouldnt do something JUST to please guys. they may think its 'hot' and 'sexii' but strippers dont have respect for their bodys AT ALL. but if yu really WANT to make urself a cheap find for guys who dont respect women, then take a course on managing ur own business. u can find ads in magazines and stuff. good luck!


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