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What is the best way to break up with a boy if you are going to. Should I call him, write him a note, E-mail him, or IM him?! :-/
-Worried
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up front him and say that we should see other people and just we should stay friends
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Best way to do it is in person. trust me don't do it online, or by e-mail. definitely not a note. if you can't do it face to face then you could consider doing it over the phone. but .. seriously it's dumb if you can't handle it face face.. sorry hope i've helped :)
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i think the best way is in personm, but if you arent comfortable with that call him
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call him or talk to him... you don't want him to think you never cared and that everything was a waste of feelings and time.
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I would, if I were you, either talk to him in person or call him. E-mails, IMs and notes to me give off the impression of cowardice. I had a guy break up with me over IM, and I just thought "Wow, what a chicken. He didn't even have the nerve to tell me to my face," and you don't want the guy to think that, do you? I mean, I'll bet it's different for girls breaking up with guys than it is for guys breaking up with girls, but still.
I would talk to him in person or on the phone if you can. While IM would be easier, it's probably not the best way to do it. Seems kind of...uncaring, like you couldn't even take the time to talk to him in person. That's just my opinion, though. Hope this helps, good luck!
-Siren =)
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IN PERSON! best way, that way he knows yu have guts and never break up online! always in person babes!
x0x Loverx33
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notice you didnt list tell him to his face... which is ALWAYS the best option.
beccers_boo
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The name will not be mentioned...but I have had someone break up with me over IM.It sucks,quite honestly it does.I think the worse possible way would be in a note.The best,maybe not easiest,way would be in person.It gives you more closure and such.Now if in fact this is a long distance relationship...the phone would be your best option.However like I mentioned before if you see the person daily,do it in person.
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it is better to do it in person!
HOPE I HELPED!!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle
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Don't e-mail or Im bc you can't always get across what you want to say, oh and same with writing a note. It's probably better to do it face to face but if you're just to freaked about it calling isn't so bad. Good luck!
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i always say face to face or note. with the note then i think that its like the seconed best thing bc you have to give it to him in person, idk why but i have a thing with breaking up when its not face to face. one of the worst things that you can do, in my opinion, is im bc i think, idk that its more sencere in person. i've tried the phone thing, and i've tried friends doing it for me, but that makes me feel even worse about it! so idk! theres my advice!
lots of love!
~Haley~
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The best way is to do it in person! It's harder that way but it will be much easier, trust me! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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the best way is to do it in person! but if u cant then do it on the phone.. but the worst is e-mail and IM!
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You should definately do it in person. Even though it's harder that way, it shows him that you weren't scared to tell him that it's over. If not then do it over the phone. You need to have him hear what you're saying. I hope everythign works out for you. Hope this helped.
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