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Summer Love


Question Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 11:31 pm

Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...

btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)

~Signed, Lost in Love


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HappyAdvice answered Sunday November 7 2004, 4:05 pm:
oooo, thats so sad!!! I don't know exactly how you can win him back because i don't know what kind of person fred is. Just be yourself, be really nice to mary and fred. If you want to impress him, do something that you wouldn;t normally do, something nicefor another person or something. Most importantly, don't let him know that your jelous and frusterated with mary (assuming you are {i would be}) I really hope this helps!@!!!!
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KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Sunday November 7 2004, 9:40 am:
dear lost in love,
this has to be the sweetest story ive ever heard. ok, this guy sounds like an idiot 4 not keepin you as his gf. I kno its definently hard 2 get over. but you dont have 2. try flirting when mary is around, and when they flirt, ignore it. he probably wants 2 make u jealous. if u really love him and hes still ur good friend, then tell him how u feel. if ur not great friends, then become better friends and then tell him. theres always a second chance. hope i helped ya!

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P4TH3T1Cx1426 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 9:00 am:
he doesnt like you. give up!

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xoshaneyney3283 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 8:50 am:
i know how you feel sweetie, the same thing happened to me. Try talking to Mary and tell her how you feel.

good luck! hope i helped!

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LostMorbidSoul answered Sunday November 7 2004, 12:39 am:
I just finshed going though that....and really, its not worth it. Just hang out with other people and try to consentrate on other things and keep yourself busy...I know its easier said than done but you know, it works. Good luck!

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xoxobabygirl answered Sunday November 7 2004, 12:31 am:
wow i would says he isnt worth those tears dont cry girl.. just tell him how u feel and her.. and ask him how he feels about u ok i hope i helped love shorty

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