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Hey its Lindz. I like to dance and I love music. I've also played guitar for about 9 years. Sorry I havnt been on here for a while. Ask me anything....

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is this normal...

im ok with death, and i know heaven is more peaceful then earth..and i know heaven nothing can go wrong..

i sometimes want to die..but sometimes i fear that i dont want to dye...like i dont want my life to end i always want it to continue...and never end

im 14 and i know my death isnt till another 80 years or so...

Teenagers have a lot of death thoughts, its completely normal. Dont worry about it to much....unless you start becoming suicidal. Then you should get help. Hope I helped

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i like this guy stevie. a few days ago, i found out from lots of people that he likes me too! i was really happy but he knows i like him too so i dont understand why he wont ask me out. lol i never really asked out a guy before cause i think its more right for him to ask me hes really sweet around me and hints all the time but like i dont want to ask him. should i or wait?

Just talk to him about it or something. If your to shy then try writting him a note or talking to him online. Thats how I got my first boyfriend! Good luck :)

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I used to like this guy for like 2 yrs. i was soo freaked out that i couldn't even talk to him.(hes a yr older than me)...well then i realized that i had a crush on a completely different guy(3 yrs. older than me) and convinced myself that i didnt like the other one anymore....now me and the 1st guy talk a LOT and its soo cool!! everytime that i talk about my new crush...he either looks away or talks w/ me...i have stopped liking the 2nd guy but i haven't told the first one yet..but my problem is that i never stopped liking the 1st one...and i think he knows....but i dont want to tell him...and loose our releationship.
~Confused

Just keep being friends and maybe hint about it a bit. Good luck

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Does it hurt to have sex for the first time?

I've heard it does because the guy your having sex with "pops your cherry". Hope I helped

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why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart?

I dont know, but I just got over a heart break. Dont worry, you'll get over it eventually

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ok..there is this guy at my school and ive liked him a pretty good while..everytime i see him i my heart starts beating fast and i like melt..well there was this church thing that i went with,with my friend and he was there!! we went to an arcade and we was flirting with me and after that we went to arbys and he was flirting some more..is that a sign he is starting to like me..and if he is i dont know what to do cause he just broke up with one of my good friends and i feel bad if he asks me out and she still likes him..should i like him or should i just say no if he asks me out?

Well first make sure that your friend still does like him. If she doesnt, then you should go out with him. But if she does, just work it out with her. Hope I helped

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13/f

I haven't had my period for about two months or so..and I've been showing all the signs for having my period ( cramps, pmsing, extra discharge..the usual ) so I started wearing my pads..but it hasn't come for a while..like the signs have stopped for a week? Is this normal?

Yea the first couple of years that you have your period it changes around a lot.

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Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...

btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)

~Signed, Lost in Love

I just finshed going though that....and really, its not worth it. Just hang out with other people and try to consentrate on other things and keep yourself busy...I know its easier said than done but you know, it works. Good luck!

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My life sucks. I've never had a girlfriend, i always end up being her good friend, and they always give me that excuse of "they dont like me that way". Im made fun of and beaten up. Everynight i come home and i want to cry and i sit and i cook in my hate towards others but mostly myself, for i cannot figure out why all my friends have such good lives, and im stuck with this. Why is it that i come home everynight wanting to kill myself? Can you help me?

Get help and stick around.

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My friend just moved to a different school and now we dont really talk anymore...I dont know what to talk to her about! What should I do?

Just make an effort to see her. You guys will come up with something to talk about....it just might take a bit more effort than before. Good luck

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I have taken an overdoes bcoz of my exs engagement. I hated being in hospital. And i promised my mum i'd never do it again but resently ive felt low enough too. i dont know how to stop myself. my life is spining outa control what am i gona do?

Just talk to people you trust about it. Also, if you promised your mom that you wouldnt do it anymore, that should also help stop you. If your really having trouble stopping, you could get professional help. Its weird, but it diffently helps in the end. I hope I helped.

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Ok, well, my b/f and I just broke up a month ago and I still want to stay friends with him but lately hes been ignoring me. How do I talk to him with out making it seem weird?

Just talk to him about casual stuff, like a movie or some teacher in school.Hope I helped ya.

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hey yall, me and my X just broke up about a month ago.. i already have a new boyfriend, but i dont know if i really like him or just trying to get over my X. me and my X only went out for about 4 months, but the love we had for each other was amazing. but now me and my X arent on good terms and he blocked all my screen names and is talkin shit about me to all my friends. i just wanna let him know that i care but he takes it as being obsessive...but i know im not obsessed..i just miss him..how can he go to lovign me so much to hating me so much?? i mean, he knew my AIM password and deleted my whole list and it was the same as my email password..i guess he just guessed it was...and he changed it! why is he doing this??

well, probably he didnt want to break up with you in the first place, and now that your with another guy, it probably made him mad and he didnt know what to do about it except for take it out on you. Thats what I think. Good luck

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Ok so my best friend is gorgeous and has a great personality so all the guys go for her. Like any time I make a guy friend that she doesn't know yet and we're pretty good friends, she always ends up being closer with them and the guy either forgets I exist and ignores me or just isn't very close to me like they used to be. So every guy friend I have is much closer to my best friend and the people have just been really mean to me for no reason. I really don't like to complain so much, but I feel like they're thinking she's much better than me so they just don't care about me anymore and it's been really getting me down. I'm usually such a happy person but stupid guys are getting in the way of it. I keep telling myself to just forget about guys, but you have to have guys in your life too. What should I do?

I had the same problem last year. Just let her know how you feel, thats a start. And then also just talk to your guy friends more and stuff...eventually I bet you'll get them back. Hope I helped

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okay im 13/f and i want to ask my mom to buy me a thong but i am afraid shell think im like a street walker/hooker/slut whatever but i want one. i dont know of anyways that i could get one myself other than sneak it like go in a diff aisle thingy and buy it with my own money but i dunno. any ideas?

Yea I read ya...just tell her that you want one and that no ones going to see it but you want to try something different. If you need anything else just ask me

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My cousin is expecting a little girl in March and she's decided to name the baby either Cecilia or Cecilie. (Pronounced Siseelia or Sisilee). She has asked me to search for middle names that will flow easy with her first name and last name. The last name is Walsh if that helps any. I hope you can help! Thanks in advance.

I think that Cecilia Marie would be a good name...even though marie is a common middle name. Also Leeanne might be another good middle name. Hope I helped...if ya need anymore help ask me anytime.

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Ok hey well i have these 2 friends that i always have classes w/ we rarely never have class together maybe like 2 hrs outta the day..but in all the hours we do..they never really wanna talk to me they always ignore me like im not there and leave me out..and if i don't talk they get pissed off..and im sick of them absolutely am sick of there stupid crap they throw fits if i dont freakin give them there way..and lately..its really gotten to me cuz mostly this one girl is always talkin about her boyfriend..and im so0o sick of hearing about him b/c trust me hes my ex boyfriend and hes not that friggn special! we fought all the time..n he just wants her for sex..but you cant tell her that b/c shes so0o stuck up! so0o i guess my questoin is..how do i talk to these people about my built up anger that could explode @ ne moment and get tonz of people pissed off @ me!

Thanks a Bunch

Ill rate if i think its good or if u attempt

xOvEr AnD oVeR aGaInx

Just tell them that your really sick of listening to them complain about stuff and that they really need to stop being so dramatic...hey, sometimes they have to hear it straight forward. Hope I helped

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he makes hearts all the time, smiles at me and is nicer to me than usual. i like him but i dont know if he likes me. van anyone helkp / i give 5s for all attempts. thnx.

**prill-z**

Flirt with him a lot...and talk to him a lot. lol

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What are some things I can do to make a girl like me more... and also how do I tell a girl that I like her? I mean, I really want to tell her, but I'm too shy..
Please answer this question, I really need to know ASAP!

Well, flirt with her, but dont make it creepy because that'll just scare her away.Just spend some time hanging out with her like, with friends and stuff. Also, if you really want to tell her, then sometime when shes not with her friends just pull her aside and tell her! Good luck

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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?


(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in)

Im a 13 year old girl, and trust me. There are plenty of girls out there that dont wanna have sex until they are married, me being one of them. Don't worry, there are plenty of girls out there who dont want to have sex until they are married.

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