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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?
(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in)
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There are plenty of girls who are still virgins, (especially in your age bracket), you may be hearing a lot about pregnancy among your peers, but I'm sure at least half is just talk. Some girls are embarrassed about being virgens, so they lie about it, but a lot of girls are virgins. There is nothing to be embarrassed about being a virgin, and unless she wants a relationship only for sex, she will be happy about your virginity too.
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i really dont kno how hard it is , but it should be a lil easy, if u dont find anyone soon , u can i/m me at borntobeabadgrl. ~hope i helped~
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wow! omg ok guys reading this going 'omg this guy doesnt know what he's talkin about' are totally clueless! they're should be way more guys like you in the world! you totally shouldnt be embarresed at all! any girl who doesnt want you is totally crazy
lots of love!
`~-_::Haley::_-~`
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NO!!!!!
y should sumone be embarressed to be a virgin..
i no i am a virgin and damn proud!
i dont want to go around as a well known slut especially at the age i am right now!
even for a guy u shouldnt be embarressed to be a virgin be proud!
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wow, why arn't there more guyz like you? Well, i'm a 13yr girl, here it is totally different. It's only embarrassing if you already had sex. People here in my town are really cool about everything. You shouldn't be embarrassed if u are a virgin, i am, i'm not embarrassed...lol. You're only 13, the girlz who are pregnant or worried about getting pregnant are assholes. Your smart, your gonna have alot a girls wanting you when you get older...lol<33
*hope i helped*
-feel free to ask me more questions, i'm always here
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goodness...i'd die to have a guy like you!!! its usually the other way around, the guys teasing the girls if they are virgins but hey i dont even know you and i respect you greatly for your intelligence!!! this kind of attitude will get you soo much farther than you think
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no, it shows your not a whore, and its good to wait for the right person...
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Uhh...People shouldn't be embarressed bout being a virgin...it is good to be truthful at times and...if being a virgin is one it ain't a problem...cuz I'm still a virgin and not embarressed to say it!
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Wow! God, any girl would be soo extremly lucky to have you. You shouldn't be embarrased to be a virgin. That is something to be proud of. I have had to pull a guys hand out of my pants and at first I was embarrased but then I realized that it was the right thing to do. All I can say is you can go to a church, make friends with people there. A real christian girl won't wanna have sex till she is married. Hope I helped!
Love
Steph
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i'm a virgin! some people think it's like not cool or whatever and they joke about it but i just say better a virgin than a ho
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It may seem impossible to find a girl who wants to wait to have sex until she's married, but there are PLENTY of girls like that out there. I'm 13, and i'm gonna wait.. i also have friends that are going to wait too. Sadly, when you get into high school alot of girls are embarssed to be virgins! But others aren't. I wouldnt say you're supposed to be embarssed if you're a virign. Many girls (like myself) will be proud to hold onto their virginity until they are married. I think it's great that you're intrested, and not obsessed with sex (like some guys...) lol If you have any other questions feel free to ask!
~Kayla
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bein a virgin is NOTHING and i mean NOTHING to be embarassed about!! and finding a girl who will wait is hard these dayz but there are a lot of them out there. in fact im one of them!! jus look hard and i gaurentee you will find one. and yes that is the probblem with society today... to many whores! well i think that made sence and i hope it helped! and once again bein a virgin is PERFECTLY okay! hehe.
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i'm a 13/f. all the time my guy friends are talking about sex,sex,sex. it gets kinda tiring. u can find plenty of gurlz who are virgins. there are alot of virgins that i know that are in high school.
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Im a 13 year old girl, and trust me. There are plenty of girls out there that dont wanna have sex until they are married, me being one of them. Don't worry, there are plenty of girls out there who dont want to have sex until they are married.
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im a 14/f and i think its awsome that u feel that way. the guys in my school only focus on having sex. adn yeah some guys in the school are emmbarrased to be virgins, but im not. if i knew you, id date you...dont worry about it, youll find a girl who has the same feelings as you
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Okay, well I wouldn't find it that hard, because I am 13 and I believe in the no sex until marriage rule. All of my friends say that they feel the same way also. I wouldn't be embarrassed if someone asked me if I were a virgin, because I'm not ashamed of the decisions I make. I'm not gonna go have sex with someone just because some dumbasses think that it's cool to lose your virginity before marriage. All of my friends feel the same way :)
In the last question you asked, it really depends on who you are if you want to be embarrassed. Music, movies, and TV programs practically promote sex before marriage. That's why our society developed the idea that sex is perfectly okay in high school and / or college. I'm not embarrassed to admit I'm a virgin, and my opinion is that other people shouldn't be embarrassed either.
By the way, you are only 13, and you have your whole life ahead of you to make these kinds of decisions. Don't let me or any other advice-giver make a choice for you! Hope that this clarified something that had come to your attention, haha. :)
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if you go to church, then ask one of those girls if theyd like to be your gf. and if youre embarrassed to be a virgin, thats really sad. you should be proud that youre not goin with the flow and sleeping around like a lot of ppl i know.
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Well, you don't have to be embarrased about being a virgin, you're 13 years old, probably 99% of guys that age are virgins, and if they say they aren't, they're most likely lying. When you get into high school other guys might start making fun of you, but they're just retards. I'm in 9th, and during lunch I sat next to these guys who disgusted me, actually, me and my friends couldn't help from laughing at them, they were really, really, really perverted, and in very "unique" ways. I don't know how they came up with things like what they said. If I sit by them again I might just become a lesbian. Lol. My point, don't worry what other guys think.
Oh yes, and there are virgin girls out there who want to wait and stuff, myself being one (well, waiting for marriage I haven't decided yet, but I'm leaning towards it, I'll wait for love at least.), so yeah, just hafta find the right person.
Good luck, you give me hope in the male species.
-Farren
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No, your not supposed to be embaressed if your a virgin. Most teens think it's cool, so some say they are just to be "cool". I read somewhere in a magazine that like a high percentage of teens are virgins. It just seems like everyone is, but actually they aren't! Your only 13, and trust me, you'll find someone that has the same opinion on sex as u, as you get older you'll meet some! My guy friend is 18 and really really good looking and a lot of girls want him, but he's a virgin and tells everyone that he is. He says that he's waiting for the right person. So never no matter what feel embaressed. It's a good thing. There are soo many bad conseqences if you have sex, like catching an std or getting a girl pregnant. So always think of that!
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lol, i think the best place to find a girl like that is your church... sadly, the morals of most people have deteriorated because in the modern society, they're not necessary. but i promise you there are still girls that are innocent enough out there. they just tend to be a bit more shy, but it means it's so much more special when you find them.
no one should ever be embarassed by their virginity btw, and i think it's awesome that you're going to wait.
::edit:: i'm sorry if i offended you when i said the best place would prolly be your church, i truly didn't mean to. i made an assumption and i shouldn't have.
however, i was just trying to show that many of the people i know who are more religious are more likely to still be virgins. sorry again
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You should never be embarresed because your a virgin. If you look hard enough you will find that perfect girl. Who knows it may be your friends or someone you meet travling. Dont just think about marriage and sex. Just focus on your work at school. Once you find someone you will know if they are right or not.
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Well some people are for some odd reason.I personaly think you should wait till merrage because it might feel better for the both.Im not embarresed im proud to say I'm a virgin but when you love someone alot and you have ben going out with them for a while a looong while and have respect for each other then i say go ahead but if you been going out for a couple months i say THATS NOT LOVE!and no your not supposed to be embarressed well thats what i think.
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It seems like you're a smart guy with his priorities right where they should be:] There are girls out there, yea I've noticed alot of under-aged girls getting pregnant as well. But it's their decision! And yes, some girls& guys are embarassed about being a virgin. It's mainly b/c they are afraid of the reactions the other people will give them for being a virgin.Well atleast that's what I think! I'm a virgin& VERY proud:] Goodluck in your search hun!
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Dude, I will tell you right now that there are plenty of girls like that. I do know lots of ppl that aren't virgins, but I also know a lot like myself. All my best friends are and I have to say a lot of girls out there are thinking the same thing as you. Your still young so don't worry, I promise there is a girl like that for you that's perfect. Just wait! -Kayla
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There are <b>lots</b> of girls who are still interested in waiting. It's all about having patience in your search.
And no, you shouldn't be embarassed to tell someone you're a virgin. Sex is <i>not</i> a big deal. Nine times out of ten, someone who makes a big deal about losing his/her virignity is lying about having lost it in the first place.
Keep your chin up and stick to your morals. You're one in a million, hon. :)
♥ Lorelei
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