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I'm 15 years old, and 2 months ago, I was involved in a serious car accident. My friends and I were out having fun, the car that I was in had 5 people in it, and I was in the back, there was 3 people in the other car. It was about 11 at night so there wasnt really anyone on the roads so they decided to race. We were going about 80+ side by side on these curvy roads and it was icy because it was after a snow storm. After a couple minutes it started to get really scary and I was just getting really nervous because my parents had no idea where I was, and I kept screaming Slow down. They wouldnt slow down. The next thing I knew I woke up on the ground next to my boyfriend in a lot of pain and crying. I realized that we had gotten in an accident, I laid there trying to wake my boyfriend up. I heard sirens after what seemed to be an hour later, but was really only a couple minutes. I got rushed to the hospital with minor injuries, and after I got taken care of, I got the worst news of my life. The only survivors of the crash, were me and my best friend who was the driver of the other car, and my boyfriend but he was in a coma. I stayed with my boyfriend everyday and just cried and cried, he didnt wake up, he never woke up. His parents decided to just let him go because they wanted him to go peacefully and not have to deal with any pain. It is soo hard dealing with this, I look at pictures of the accident everyday just reliving that whole night, I'm sorry this is long but I was just wondering if anyone has had an experience like this and wondering how you dealt with it..? Please and thank you.. (link)
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first of all, i want to tell you how deeply sorry i am for you. reading this has just made me like cry, thinking about it though. This definitely shows you, your parents care about where you are. Did you care about your boyfriend enough to put him or let him be in this situation? as in was it his idea to go in the car or yours? but look thats not the point the point is, he will ALWAYS stay in your heart. he will be there no matter what, but at age 15 you just have to keep moving on. i have delt with alot of deaths and they hurt. my heart feels like its half gone but just keep your chin up and keep smiling the beautiful smile everyone wants to see. A part of him will always be with you and as hard as it seems to just forget about that whole accident. well i wouldnt say forget cause you will never forget about it. but be happy your alive, be thankful, dont wish you were the one who wouldve died. cause everyones time will come. just dont worry. love is tough. i hope i helped out
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I'm 14 and a female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. He broke up with me because he said he wanted to concertrate on school and he didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse. When we were dating he told me he loved me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I believed him and told him I loved him back because I truely meant it. After we broke up we still talked and he told me that he wanted to get back with me after he brought his grades up. He ignored me for a week and I was upset. We started to say hey and gave hugs whenever we saw each other and I told him to call but he never did. The next day at school I found out that he made out with another girl(this was 2 weeks after we were broken up). I try to get over him and move on but it's hard because I still have alot of feelings for him and I still love him. I wouldn't mind getting back with him even though what he did was totally wrong. I don't want to chase after him because if he wanted me he would come after me...right? I don't know what to do because I still love him and I dont know how he is feeling right now. His friend is supossed to see how he is feeling about me. I don't know what to do though. Can you help? Thanks! (link)
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ive been through the same thing and i know the pain and what your feeling now. the only thing i can think of in your problem is maybe you guys grew apart. things change all the time and love hurts. its a part of life but look where planning on marrying this guy anyways?! i mean cmon. you prolly have no clue on who you want to marry but if you love this boy tell him how you feel b4 its too late. and when i say that it mean dont wait more than a month or even just a week. life goes by too fast for careless mistakes
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ok well theres like this guy i really like and ughh i feel like nothing is ever going to happen...he said he liked me but nothing ever got anywhere and idk what to do....ive tried to talk to hima bou tit but nothing seems to work
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why dont you flat out tell him how you feel and just whats going on...if thats to hard then have a friend help you out!!! good luck!
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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?
(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in) (link)
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goodness...i'd die to have a guy like you!!! its usually the other way around, the guys teasing the girls if they are virgins but hey i dont even know you and i respect you greatly for your intelligence!!! this kind of attitude will get you soo much farther than you think
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ok look me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 6 months and we are in a deep relationship and we are both in love wit each other(by the way im 14 es 16) but he said he wants 2 spend the rest of his life wit me and so do i and i believe him cuz he tells his siter everything and she tells e wat he said and he wats 2 have sex but he said if i dont want 2 he will wait but i kindof do want 2 should i or not? (link)
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hey well i think you should definitely wait because hes put that offer on the table...secondly i think you, a 14 year old shouldnt even be thinking about sex. you should try to stay away from those things that could hurt you in you childhood days. sex shouldnt even come to mind when your 14. be smart. dont do soemthing youd regret! good luck.
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Well I've Liked This Boi Jeff For 4 Years And He Finally Nos I Like Him and I Found Out That He Likes Me To. But I Asked Him Out and He said I Don't Know. But I'm Going to Hang Out with Him Today He's Perfect for me My Parents Like Him My Brother aproves of Him..(which that never happens). But he juss is a nice person i don't no how i could flurt with him Sunday like what can i do?..I gave him a hug and stuff but im scared to hug him all the time..soo?? (link)
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well i think you should make sure he likes you first before you express your feelings and tell him how you feel. because if he says he lieks you, after you say you like him. it may turn out to be like a complete explosion that just blows up in your face. by saying this i mean he could be lying because he jsut wants girls to like him..
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