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I still love him...what should I do?
I'm 14 and a female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. He broke up with me because he said he wanted to concertrate on school and he didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse. When we were dating he told me he loved me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I believed him and told him I loved him back because I truely meant it. After we broke up we still talked and he told me that he wanted to get back with me after he brought his grades up. He ignored me for a week and I was upset. We started to say hey and gave hugs whenever we saw each other and I told him to call but he never did. The next day at school I found out that he made out with another girl(this was 2 weeks after we were broken up). I try to get over him and move on but it's hard because I still have alot of feelings for him and I still love him. I wouldn't mind getting back with him even though what he did was totally wrong. I don't want to chase after him because if he wanted me he would come after me...right? I don't know what to do because I still love him and I dont know how he is feeling right now. His friend is supossed to see how he is feeling about me. I don't know what to do though. Can you help? Thanks!
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the hardest thing in life is to let go but sometimes it can be the best thing, if he loved you he never would have let you go try to get over him by hanging out with friends doing things you love that way you take your mind off him maybe if he see's that your moving on he'll remember what you used to have and reignite the flame if not you should know it just wasnt meant to be everyones got a cinderella story maybe he's just not your prince
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of coarse you love him still 6 months is a long time for ure age and hes what you have been with.. maybe he just wanTs to try other things out, you guys are young and maybe he had second thoughts, i think he still likes you alot, but i think he might have mixed feelings on what he really wants. Maybe he just did tht to see if ure what he really wanted, still he shoukd have told you thats how he was feelingbecuase it was unfair for you to find out the hard way, im sureif he found out u did that with other guys hed be pist and confused 2! so talk to him about whats going on, and about what happened, maybe its time you guys took a break for alil bit, but since u guys still have deep feelings for eachother plann on gettin bacK together, who knows? maybe you will find somebody much better that will be commited to you,, ure still young .. date around and see what tings you like and dont like in a guy!
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This probably isn't what you want to hear- but you definately need to get over him. It's wrong of him to keep you waiting while he goes off and does stuff with other girls. There's so many guys out there who would be better for you and could make you feel special and loved. I know it's hard now, but things will look up. Once you find the right guy you will for sure know, and you will feel so much happier! Don't chase after this guy because he might just try and keep you on the side incase things go wrong with another girl, and you definately dont wana be in that position. Get rid of him and move on to a real man who will treat you like you deserve! Good luck!!
-Jennifer
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I know it isn't what you want to hear, but you need to get over this guy. There are PLENTY of other guys out there. If he moved on that quickly, then this guy is obviously already over you, or just can't make his mind as to what he wants. How you're feeling is understandable, and perfectly normal, but just try and keep an open mind. There are tons of guys with potential out there, and you wouldn't want to miss one because you were still focusing on this one! I know you feel like this is the only guy for you right now, but it'll pass. Good luck =) Hope you feel better!
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Well, talk to him about his "incident" and see if it was some misunderstanding or something. If it is a misunderstanding, ask him out at the very next possible tym he could go out, and hopefully he still loves you the way he said he did.
Hope this helps!!
Jillybean
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ive been through the same thing and i know the pain and what your feeling now. the only thing i can think of in your problem is maybe you guys grew apart. things change all the time and love hurts. its a part of life but look where planning on marrying this guy anyways?! i mean cmon. you prolly have no clue on who you want to marry but if you love this boy tell him how you feel b4 its too late. and when i say that it mean dont wait more than a month or even just a week. life goes by too fast for careless mistakes
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