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Okay, this is kinda compicated. So theres this guy i like. hes a year younger than me, hes 16 im 17, but i couldnt care less about that. last year, at homecoming, two of our mutual friends decided that he and i should go out. so they convinced him to ask me to homecoming. he really liked me. but i was still in the process of getting over this really complicated relationship/non-relationship which it has taken me until a few months ago to get over. i did have some feelings for this guy (the first guy) but i wasnt ready and i felt cornered cuz our two mutual friends were pushing for this so when he asked me,... i reacted pretty badly. as in not good. rejected him. not gently.now, hes hung up on these two different girls, one is an exchange student from new zealand. shes really nice, but ive talked to her about her and him, and she says itll never happen. the other girl is not allowed to date. so there's no problem except that he likes them. sometimes i get signals from him that make me think he likes me, and then hell make a comment about one of the other girls and im really not so sure. but i really like him. but im going to college in less than a year and we wont be in the same school or even the same city. well be in the same state though. im so confused. please help.
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If you really like this guy, then it's time to bite the bullet and confront him. He did all the work last time (with a little help from your mutual friends) - and so this time it's down to you. The worst case scenario would be that he rejects you, just as you rejected him - but I expect he would do it in a more civil way, as he experienced harsh rejection first hand!
As for the college thing, a year is a long time, and you can have a lot of fun and good times in a year. It's well worth asking him out now, even if it's only for the fun you'll have in the next 12 months! Don't forget, 21st century girls ask boys out too! Anyway, I hope you do ask him out, and I hope you find happiness with him - let me know how it goes or something ok? Good Luck!
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well not to hurt your feelings but he might have gotten over you. i had a male friend that was in love with one of my female friends. i say he liked her for well over a year. he wanted to be more than friends with her. she kept saying she only liked him a friend. well he ended up moving on and found a girlfriend. him and his girlfriend broke up and then my female friend decided she liked him more as a friend. but he still liked his ex girlfriend. he was over my female friend. and to this day their still not together. sometimes it's like the saying 'you snooze you lose.' you can try to be more than friends but it doesn't seem like he's too interested anymore. and you will also be leaving for college in a year. so is it really worth it ?
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Well it dosent sound like things are going to hapen with both you guys if your leaving and wont see him any more,if u want things to still be there though, id stay n touch with him and maybe smething will happen, but i duno if things will happen 4 awhile! if u guys are ment to be then it will happen!
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hey..call him..explain to him..that you were in not place to date anyone..that you just were not ready...if he wants to do something wiht you he will...but..DO NOT let your friends set up your love life...theings just get all MIXED up when others do things that you may or may not like.
So call him or talkt to him..if he wants to ask you out ..he will..if now..well that happens..it all about timing...
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Tell him how you feel and what you were going through in the previous relationship with your ex boyfriend . Tell him how you felt about him then, and tell him how you feel about him now . I'm sure he'll understand . Also when you talk to him, tell him something similar to " I know you must think I have some nerve . Thinking that I can ask you out again after what I did and said to you when you asked me out." My brother told me to put that because he says he'll be thinking that you're conceited, so I'm sorry if offended you . Tell him how you feel before it's too late . Hope I was some help, and have a nice day .
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