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ok look me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 6 months and we are in a deep relationship and we are both in love wit each other(by the way im 14 es 16) but he said he wants 2 spend the rest of his life wit me and so do i and i believe him cuz he tells his siter everything and she tells e wat he said and he wats 2 have sex but he said if i dont want 2 he will wait but i kindof do want 2 should i or not?
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umm well heres what u should do....
follow your heart.
if it says have sex then hell go do it.
if it says wait dont do it
AND if your heart doesnt talk...SUX 4 U! !
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hey well i think you should definitely wait because hes put that offer on the table...secondly i think you, a 14 year old shouldnt even be thinking about sex. you should try to stay away from those things that could hurt you in you childhood days. sex shouldnt even come to mind when your 14. be smart. dont do soemthing youd regret! good luck.
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i don't think u should have sex with him if your 14 wait a while especially if he is willing to wait u need to because u never know what will happen in the future things might go wrong or something and u will feel horrible knowing that u gave it up to him because it will stay with u especially if he is your first. 4-6 months is nothin honey wait!! don't be stupid it may seem like the right thing to do know but it's not and besides if he wants to be with u forever why are u in such a rush slow down don't do something tht u will regret later on
p.s
if he is 16 why does he still have a babysitter he must not be trust worthy think about it
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i think you should do whatever you want..if u think ur ready then do it..but if u have any regrets about it then i would rather u not do it..it means ur not ready..and please dont let him push u into doing anything u don`t wanna do.
-Heather Lynn-
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it all depends i think ur boy sounds very nice n its great he can wait... but if u wanna have sex with him go ahed if u really tink hes da 1 (u dont wanna do the same mistake i did, i lost it to sumone i oved n cared for but he just lied bout feeling the same way towards me) REMEMBER USE PROTECTION!!!but i think if u like him alot u should do it but wutever ur comfy with! remember that
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you shouldnt really have sex at such a young age. and if he just wants sex then maybe you should talk to him and his sister as well
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I think you should wait until both of you are older. 14 is too young to become sexually active and if something happens, like you get pregnant or something, what would you do then? So I vote wait.
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ok it is your choice if u have sex with him or not i would say the only reason not to have sexx with some one would be bcuze u dont love them and in this case u love him right and if u dont then if u dont u shouldnt be havein sex with him
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if you two are planning on spending the rest of your life together then whats the rush in having sex? i would wait until u are certain and married....
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If you really think you are ready for that next step in the relationship then go for it.. But if I were you I would think of all the consequences to your actions and if it is really the right thing for you. If he said he would wait for you to be ready, then make sure you really ARE ready. Hope I helped..
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i think you should do what you feel is right... if u dont want to u dont have to but if you feel your ready i think you should
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If you're going to have sex with someone you have to be sure with every fibre of your body that its what you want. Because if you're afraid or if you're unsure, then it isn't totally right. Right now it might feel like you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy, but you're still 14 and what you want or who you want might change. Not to say that for sure it will, but theres a good chance one of you will change your mind.
If he is willing to wait, then he can wait. Give yourself at least a few years to mature a little more. You might find that your feelings might be different. And if you find that you still want to spend the rest of your life with this guy, well then thats amazing and wonderful - but don't feel like you wasted a couple years of having sex because - you have the rest of your lives still.
I think that by asking for help, you are showing us that you are unsure and in this situation unsurity is a very bad thing. I'll say it again - every fibre in your body has to be certain before you do it. It'll hurt more if you're unsure and overly nervous. Seriously. And also, bringing sex into a relationship makes things really really really complicated. Sex actually ends a lot of strong relationships because those relationships just weren't ready for it yet. Love can be misleading at times, so if you give it more thought and more time, then maybe you won't have to make a mistake you might have made.
There is also the issue of pregnancy, later in life you can see yourself with a baby, and the father being this guy. But not now I would hope. If you're having sex you're going to need to think about that, even if you use protection. Is that something you want to add on top of the billion other things you need to worry about at 14? Do you really need to have sex now, is it so urgent that you can't wait?
And my last question to you is, why do you want to do it? Because you can or because theres something inside you telling you its right and the next step?
If you choose to have sex with this guy be safe, be responsible and don't let it bring your relationship to a crashing hault because once you've had sex with him, if the relationship ends, you won't be getting that back obviously.
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Remeber always use protection, if you both love each other go for it. email me at ruffryders102001@yahoo.com
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go for it, but use a condom and dont make it be known to every one that you guys are gonna have sex. i dont think hes is just saying all this to get in ur pants either cos 6 months is a good while for a guy to wait for sex if that is all hes after. dont do it all the time either. sex is actually a sort of healthy enterprise. just dont do it excesively.
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I think you should do what you really want to. If you really don't want to, then don't! But if you do, then it's up to you. But I would wait if I was you, you are only 14. Don't rush into things. I know it has been 6 months, but a guy can change y'know!! Just see how things go!! Good luck!! Sarah xoxo
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