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Website: Shellz
E-mail: lilterra38@earthlink.net
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: XoBaBiiShellyoX
Member Since: June 8, 2004
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Last Update: October 16, 2004
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Okay, theres this chickk that goes to my school. I was haveing such a good day cuz I got my hair cut and I got stuff to scrunch my hair, and I thought I looked soo nice. EVERYBODY was complimenting me, and I've never got any compliments from any of these, like my best friend amanda told me i looked pretty, and I've never been told that i was pretty before so it was really cool. But this one chick, shes supposed to be one of my best friends, says I look really bad, and I'm trying to looklike one of my other best friends named Justine, But i wasn't, because Justine doesn't even scrunch her hair! And my belt had broken that day and It wasn't cuz of me, it was because I wore it like everyday and it was fallen apart, it was my favorite belt, and I like put pins in it so it wouldn't break anymore, and then of course I said. "look at my belt" in front of her, and she said "That's what happens when your fat" and I'm like "Dude your mean" and shes like "Truth Hurts", I dunno, she was never mean before, Do you think she was just mad that everybody was complimenting me and not her??

I rate high..! (link)
omg dat gurl is sucha bi.tch if she woulda said dat to me i woulda snuffed her!... she SOO AINT your friend.. an i think she is juss hatin... durs madd gurls in my school dat do that to.. an den dey get snuffed an i laugh! =P i think she jelouse cuz she dont look good or she fat or sumthin... juss forget bout her...

.:'+*+':. mE$h .:'+*+':.


hey, i dont know y but every since i turned 12 (im now 13) i have lost a lot of my self confidence. i think im pretty and all but i dunno sometimes i just wish i could change a lot of things about myself. ne ideas of how i can boost my self confidence back up? (link)
im the same way... i just walk around the mall an say ew shes a slut at least i dont look like dat... or go get a mann lol dat helps too!! or always hang wit a lot of guyz to get the other girls jelouse (i sound kind of mean but it helps!) an hang out wit friends an do make overs an stuff, Or just be yourslef an if someone dosnt liek you for you are... fuk dem! ya dun need em!! hope it helps n e more questions you can talk to me on aim... MadeInBrentwood


I have a serious question, Okay my best i think she is lik ebi-polar or something, she is the best friend ive ever had and shes been there for me through a whole bunch. But i think hse is bi-polar or somehting because one minute everythings normal and then the next she just snapps on me over the littlest stuff.. I mean her freindship means alot to me but i dont kno what im supposed ot do ... PLEASE HELP ME !!! (link)
hun, my friend does that to... sometimes you just have to try to ignore it...my friend does drugs that may be why she does it... ask you friend simple questions like have you ever drank or did drugs because if she answers yes to them that may be why she does that snappin thing... but if she ever gest abusive like my friend does just fight back an show her your not scared because if you dont she is gona be abusive constantly... an if she dosnt have like a mom or dad in her life that mite be another reason.. my friend dosnt have her mom eather...
hOpe it helpz!

much luv

Shellz


HEY OK MY NAME IS KATIE I AM 14 AND A GIRL AND I AM FOREVER CRYING I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY LIKE IF I HEAR A SONG THAT REMINDS ME OF MY BOYFRIEND I START BALLING THEN IF SOMEONE MAKES ME MAD I DONT YELL I CRY I DONT UNDERSTAND AND I DONT WANT PEOPLE TO GET ME WRONG I MEAN I AM A VERY HAPPY PERSON BUT I JUST CRY TOO MUCH HELP ME PLEASE .. Xo0X (link)
hun, the same things happen to me... i think if you get another man you wont cry as much, but when i get madd i usaly cry to its just like somthing you cant really control... i hope i helped... :-/
xo0x shellz x0ox


Hey everyone, 15/m here and I wanted to get my ears pierced today, both of them. I asked my parents they said fine I could get it done. But right when I was about to be out the door my mom asks "which ear?" then I said both. And she gives me this look and asks "why?". She just goes and asks question after question after question after question and starts talking about what getting your ears pierced mean you're gay or some shit. Hello mom!!! That was last millenium, maybe if I wanted to get just my right ear pierced then that would mean I'm gay, but either way, I'm not, I had a g/f, she's seen her etc. Guys everywhere have both of their ears pierced, I see it in my school, I see it in the NBA, I see it in the NFL, in music videos. I don't know wtf is her prob with it being just my left or both. And I wanna get it done TODAY. What should I do?

PS- Sorry, but as you can tell I'm PISSED. (link)
Hun, tell your mom that its what YOU want to do an if she is gona have a problem well TO BAD, tell her its the trend an that you like how it looks just, tell her how it is an show her so people that have both ears done, like on tv if you have time, i hope it helps!!

plz rate

xo0x Shellz x0ox


Okay so I just walked in this store and this amazing guy stoped in front of me , we started to talk and I found out that he is only 16, and Im 15 , he asked me out on a date and I said I didn't really know , he toldme to think about it.
This Guy is totally Hot!!! , his name is Richard , should I give him a chance?/ Or should I tell him to go??? I just met this guy today.
PLZPLZPLZ HELP Jenipher ASAP (link)
GIVE HIM A CHANCE!!! lol you never no he mite be the knight an shining armour youve been waiting for!!

xo0x shellz x0ox


HEY GUYS WELL I DONT HAVE A HABBIT OF BITTING MY NAILS I LIKE PICK MY NAILS AND THEY GET REALLY SHORT AND I WAS WONDERING IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO 2 HELP M ESTOP? I WANT NAILS!!!! *LUV NIKKI* (link)
hun, you can buy the glue ons, the press ons, or that glue you put on your nails that tastes nasty so you wont bite them, an theres the kind of glue that makes your nails stronger an longer in like a week. Or you can get acrilics...
hope it helpz!!
plz rate
xo0x Shellz x0ox


ya'll might not get this but i really don't either
ok me amber katie and lexie all have b0oy friends
ambers b/f started liking lexie and my b/f starteed liking amber and amber's b/f started likeing me but we want the same guys to go out with whats should we do (link)
Hun, i think yall should switch b/fs because if your man likes amber an ambers man likes lexie an lexies man likes you... switch guyz it would be a fun experience its like when older couples do the swing thing lol hope it helpz!

.:*:. plz rAtE .:*:.
xo0x Shellz x0ox


Me and my bf were going out for about 3 months until he broke up with me but he didnt tell me why and i want him back real bad. What should I tell him to get him back or what should i do? (link)
Hun, talk to him an tell him how you feel. an ask if he would be willing to go back out with you because you still really care about him... if he refuses to go back out with you just move on theres always better, an hey if you get in a really serious relation ship he mite get jelouse (if ya no wut i mean) of you an wana get back together!!! ;) Hope it helps! Best WiShEz xo0x Shellz x0ox


hey my name is katie (( female )) and i have a boyfriend we've only been dating for a month tomorrow ;; we've went out before but i really love him and im only 14 but i mean i never felt this way for a boy before but i think hes ignoring me because some bad stuff kinda happened well imma tell you [[ short versen ]] -- well i was talkin to this boy that likes meh wait no loves me and he kept telling meh and like 20 mins before we were going to my boyfriends house he was all huggin on meh and holding my hand then when we got to my boyfriends house he pulled this headache crap cause i wouldnt talk to him but i mean i dont like this boy _at all_ and i told him then my boyfriend found out but i mean i didnt tell him so i found out a bunch of my friends told him but im not sure but i called him the nixt day and i told him i didnt like the other boy and he didnt believe meh but its been like 4 days later and my boyfriend still isnt talking to meh i mean if i call him hes either bout to leave or not there or about to do sumpthyn i mean is he igoring meh? i mean i've cried my self to sleep like almost everynight this past week and i dont know what to do -- will you please help meh -- (( i hope i made this understandable lol )) thanks [[ much love ]] Katie Sumner (link)
Aww just tell him the truth an if he wont listen an keeps ignoring you dat means the wants to break up... so like right a letter or go to his house so he has no excuse! stuff like this happens to me all the time!!! ive gone thorugh 3 guyz because of that! its realy annoying... but i hope everything works out... but the best thing is to go to his house, an sit down with him an tell him whats been goin on an how your feeling about it an maybe you to can get closerr an have a better relation ship if you both tell how your feeling... i hope it helps! BeSsT! wIsHeZz- Shellz

if you need any more help talk to me on aim
MadeInBrentwood or XoBaBiiShellyoX


Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
*Kris* (link)
Hun, it seems like the guy only wanted to get in your pants... i think you should just forget about him an move on with your life... it was a big mistake to leave your friends an go with him but... i prolly did the same thing lol :-P but.. i think you an your friends that you left should all go out (clubbin if your old enough) an find someone thats alot better than that jerk... hope it helpd
x0ox Shellz xo0x


ok, im 12 and im so flat! is it possible to grow boobs over 1 summer? im going to a new school and itd be cool if i had achest


am starting to grow. will i be able to grow in time? if so how big?
i know looks shouldnt matter but every girl i no has a chest
thanx (link)
yeah you can grow in time... my friend grew from an A to a C in 3 months! an she was 11!!! if you just want a chest because you want guys to like you... they are only gona like you for you chest.. not the real person under all the make up an clothes... it really dont matter to me because im a 32 A an err body likes me for hoo i am an not what i look like, even tho all the other girls who are "Bigger" get less b/fs then me because they think being "bigger" in places is the only thing that counts but it really dosnt..
hope i helped...
x0ox Shellz xo0x


alright, well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year, and we've dont sexual things except for all the way because i know I'm not ready, the thing is HE does everything to ME, i wanna give him something back but im so incredibly nervous and don't know where to start, i was thinking about going with a handjob and then just work my way to more serious things but i dont know how to start cuz i get so nervous.. please help if you can.. (link)
Well, how old are you? it could be because you feel to young... or your just really afraid of doing something you mite regret... do wat ever you feel is right, if you dont feel right doing it just tell him an if he makes a big deal, hes not the best guy for you, a real b/f would understand an still love you no matter what! ignore your head and foLLow ure heart. Message me on aim if u need me!

XoBaBiiShellyoX oOoR MadeInBrentwood

h0p3 It h3lpz!!
x0ox Shellz xo0x


Ok, im 12 and i weigh about 150-160 and im 5'9 but i dont look fat, but my fat goes to my legs(thighs mostly) and now its starting to get to my belly and i want to lose weight but nothing works for me. i tried excercising,doesnt work, dieting, i get too hungry , and i dont know what else to do to lose weight! i only look fat in shorts and my bikini, but i like to wear those clothes and i cant cuz my legs are fat. (link)
DAMN YOUR TALL!.. sry lol i was only 5'0 when i wuz 12! to palates an just dont eat fatty foods like fast food... mcdonalds expecially! try eating yogurts an salads cut down on your snacks daily, play sports, soccer, lacrosse, basketball, swimming, track, an you can bike ride.. if you keep gaining weight and really concerned talk to a doctor
x0o Shellz


today i saw my boy friend with another gurl at the movies...they weren't even watching it!!! (if u kno wat i mean) Wat should I do?!?! I was thinking about breaking up with him but i love him way too much!!!! Plz help me!!!

thanx,
~*RiSs*~



(link)
END THE RELATIONSHIP! IF YOU WANT YOUR MAN TO CHEAT AN YOUR THAT FLEXABLE HE WILL CHEAT!! JUST LEAVE HIM!!


ok well this is the girl that has been talkin about Broc. well last nite at like hmm 1030 he came over with 3 of my other guy friends and we hung out til like 1 this morning. well rite before he left he grabbed my hand & started hugging me then we KISSED & for like the next ten minutes thats all we did was make out. lol so im glad that he made a move & stuff but im leavin tomorrow for 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him & he said he doesnt want me to go but i cant just not go..he told me he had to ask me sumthing tonite before i leave tomorrow morning. wut do u think it could be. i hav ean idea but if hes gonna ask me out idk wut im gonna say... cuz im a big flirt & im afraid i mite do sumthing in hawaii. so i dont want to take the chance of cheatin on him. ya know. wut do u think i should do.. plz respond like before tonite cuz hes coomin over tonite!!!!!!!!!thanx a bunch
kristi (link)
hun, best bet is that he is gona ask you out!! :-) im so happy for u!! but if u think your gona do somthing in hawaii just dont tell him... what everhappens in hawaii stays (well better) stay in hawaii!
hope it helpz!! (say yeah!!!to him!)
x0o Shellz


There's this one guy that I'd do anything for. It's crazy, yes. But I love him so much...it hurts. And he never talks to me. Never pays any attention to me. But I can't tell him how I feel, he's too cool. He intimidates me. And I don't know what to do, because all I want to do...is be with him. (link)
hun, you mite think you would do anything for him but when you get to know the real side.. you would do anything to get rid of him... belive me this happens to me all the tyme, but if you think he's the one for u, try to change your look, clothes, hair, an makeup will do.. but if he intimidates you he might not be the perfect guy
hope it helpd
x0o Shellz


heyyy shelly
its kristina
just sayin hi
by by
oh my user name is LiL TeEnA Ox
*~KrIsYTeEnA~* (link)
HEYAZ okiez i got ya snie thingie mo boberrzx... diz is madd KEWLZZ! llyke O mUh GoDdD! hOlLeRrRr


ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??

(link)
omg the same things happens to me!!! i just go for one an hope the other dosnt get madd or stop liking me! sry its not that good advice.. but hope it helps!
x0o shellz


okay well i have no problem with having guys as friends but i want them to notice me more in a "girlfriend" way i guess you could say do you have any ideas on how to get them to notice me thanks alot (link)
haha! me too! hun, i think that you should just like flirt till it hurts (i usaly do datlol) makeup... diffrent clothes.. not slutty but just a lil diffrent an all i can really say is f.l.i.r.t.!!
hope it helpz!
any more questions you can talk to me on aim:
XoBaBiiShellyoX or Madeinbrentwood

x0o shellz




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