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Ears Pierced


Question Posted Thursday July 1 2004, 1:07 pm

Hey everyone, 15/m here and I wanted to get my ears pierced today, both of them. I asked my parents they said fine I could get it done. But right when I was about to be out the door my mom asks "which ear?" then I said both. And she gives me this look and asks "why?". She just goes and asks question after question after question after question and starts talking about what getting your ears pierced mean you're gay or some shit. Hello mom!!! That was last millenium, maybe if I wanted to get just my right ear pierced then that would mean I'm gay, but either way, I'm not, I had a g/f, she's seen her etc. Guys everywhere have both of their ears pierced, I see it in my school, I see it in the NBA, I see it in the NFL, in music videos. I don't know wtf is her prob with it being just my left or both. And I wanna get it done TODAY. What should I do?

PS- Sorry, but as you can tell I'm PISSED.


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Additional info, added Thursday July 1 2004, 1:27 pm:
In order to get it done on my own I gotta be 18+, legal issues....

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lynx_wings answered Friday July 2 2004, 3:53 am:
Oddness on your mum's part . . . hmmm.

Explain that the stuff about right ear piercings being gay is idiotic, and cite some examples of guys who have both. Don't get too angry at her, just shrug and say that both ears is considered absolutely fine now.

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Fish answered Thursday July 1 2004, 5:47 pm:
Tell your mom that whole "left is right and right is wrong" stuff about guys and ear piercings is crap. It is anyway. Tell her you aren't gay, and it should matter even if you were, and that you don't care about that stuff. And then...go get your ears pierced. And you're right, a lot of guys get both pierced (I think it tends to look better anyway) If she won't let you...there's always the 'ol apple, ice cube, and needle old fashioned way (I saw this one guy who pierced his own ear in class without that stuff. It took him a while but he did it) I wouldn't advise it, necessarily, but it can be done.

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Mizz_C answered Thursday July 1 2004, 2:00 pm:
OOOOOOOO well i think that you should tell her that since she already agreed to it then she should stick to it. Show a few pictures if you have them about those ppl like NBA stars and football players etc. If that doesnt work i think your just gunna have to wqit till your 18



-MIZZ_C

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Caramelsuga123 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 1:21 pm:
Hey wat I think u should do is lie to your mom and tell her your gunna get only one ear pierced and then go to the place your getting your ear pierced and get them both pierced then, once your mom yells at you tell her you cant take any of them out or they'll get infected.

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AnDiE answered Thursday July 1 2004, 1:11 pm:
well.. didnt she already say you cuud?? so.. just git it dunn.. and if she has a problem with it.. then she can deel with it.. seriously.. it is a new milleniam.. l0l.. howevr you spell it.. l0l.. but yea.. guys with BoTh ears pierced are hot.. (= hope i helped..


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blue_exodus answered Thursday July 1 2004, 1:11 pm:
Tell her calmly that it's very acceptable today for guys to ave both of their ears pierced. But don't show frustration, because that will make her feel as if you are trying to rebel- and she will be more likely to not allow you to get them pierced. Remind her, also, that she said you could- but don't say it like you're trying to shove it down her throat. Good Luck-
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HollyAnn2282 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 1:11 pm:
Just show her some music videos! Tell her that if people think your gay oh well you have a girlfriend. But just tell her and show her the music videos i dunno any more advice i could give you... good luck though
-Holly-
Hope i helped

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xOxTiAmoxOx answered Thursday July 1 2004, 1:10 pm:
Hun, tell your mom that its what YOU want to do an if she is gona have a problem well TO BAD, tell her its the trend an that you like how it looks just, tell her how it is an show her so people that have both ears done, like on tv if you have time, i hope it helps!!

plz rate

xo0x Shellz x0ox

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