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ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??
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all i can say is follow ur first instincp and if it does work out with one of them go out wiht the other and if that doesnt work out then you know it wasnt ment to be
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And you have to choose why? Do they know that the realtionship isn't exclusive? I would just spend time with each of them, and one of them will probably shine eventually. And you could always just be friends.
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omg the same things happens to me!!! i just go for one an hope the other dosnt get madd or stop liking me! sry its not that good advice.. but hope it helps!
x0o shellz
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I would just go with the one that you just feel something with, something special, i dont no how to describe it, just something the other one doesnt have, if you make the wrong choice, idk
tell me how it goes
xxxASH
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Good for you girllie! I would ask myself which one I would be so in love with that I would concider marring them one day. If there's both of them then, try holding minni contests, like take them both to the movies and see which one acted more like a gentalman. Hope I've helped!
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All i can say is to follow your heart.
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Why dont you just go on dates with one of them then go on a date with the other one and judge by there. See how they act out side of school and noone is perfect. Its only a silly crush not your love life depending on it like mine is.
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First they aren't perfect. And second, why don't you go on dates with both of them and then gradually turn it into a relationship thing of boyfriend/girlfriend. Middleschool and Highschool are the only times in your life where people expect you to be an item and call each other boyfriend and girlfriend the second you get asked out and say yes. So, I don't know how old you are, but try to get to know them better first because then you can choose which one you really do like best. It also depends on what kind of negative things they have going on. Is one possessive and the other one is kind of rude at times? either way, you shouldn't really put up with either for long.
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Well i've been caught in your position before and i know it really sux b/c u dont wanna hurt anyone and u dont wanna make the wrong decision or nethang. with my two guys i had to see which one would treat me better and which one i would be with for a while. i knew they both would treat me right but i had to pick the one i related to the best. u know by the one u feel most comfortable around and which one makes u feel special and makes u feel needed and someone who will be there for u no matter what and not some guy whos jus in it for sex or whatever and jus someone u can trust i hope some of this can help u in ur decision! hope everything works out! *kisses* Ash
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