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Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
*Kris* <3
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look break it off with him because the things u saying makes it seems like hes cheetin
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I think that you should just forget about him. Hez obviously causing you alot of stress. Any guy who cant man up n just simply say i dont have the same feelings for you any more iz just not worth having. That whole "i've been really busy" bit iz so used n if he didnt want 2 spend tyme he should have just said so. I say forget about him, i kno you styll love him deeply but as they say if itz true he'll come back 2 u.Hope i helped.=)
-MIZZ_C
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*omgosh hun.. im so sorry.. BUt ne ways i think maybe your bf was drunk or something.. us girls usually always leave our friends to go with our boyfriends.. so that normal but i mean thats soo incredibly messed up of him to do that. I think you should track down his lil new gf and tell her what happend and maybe she'll dump him.. then he might even come crawling back to you and you can reject him or something.. * i kno this isnt great advice but it might help * good luck!
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Obviously he just used you for sex. I think you should get over him and find someone else that you can trust and wont go for another girl after he says he loves you and stuff. I think he was just probably using you until felt comfortable to have sex with him and then after you did he left you to find another girl to go for. So I think you should go for a better guy that wont do that to you.
*Zoe*
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Seems to me from what you said that he was just using you for sex. Did he know it was your birthday? Maybe he thought you might of wnated "Birthday Sex"? Just try and get over him because obv if he has a new girlfriend he has moved on. Try not to let it bother you and go out with your friends and scope out the guys! Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any of your questions!
*Laci
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that guy was wrong.. u need to get over him fast so dont even waste your time worrying bout him.. ne guy wud be better than someone who wud juz use u especially on ur bday so juz forget bout him! cause he doesnt deserve someone like you who cares bout him even when he hurts you!
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Sorry if this advice isn't very good, but I'll give it my best shot. I think something drove him away early. Something internal like a fear of commitment, or maybe he was growing tired of the relationship. Whatever it was, his strategy seemed to be to act distant and not call until you broke up with him. He may not have had the nerve to tell you because of his hectic worklife, just a guess. Did you try to contact him after that night? If not, he probably figured you wanted out of the relationship too. His new girlfriend is just a means of having fun. I'm sure it started out as a fling, and grew into a relationship. My advice is to find any means to stop thinking about him. Talk to other guys. Talking to other guys may lead to thinking about other guys, which in turn will lead to wanting to start a relationship with another guy. Whenever you find yourself thinking about him, try something that requires your undivided attention, or try to think about someone else. In truth, none of this may work, but in time you will eventually forget him.
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hey babe i think you should get over him cause it seems that all he wanted was sex and no wun needs a guy like that i think you need to just find another guy and apoligize for leaving your friends like that i know it might have seemed like a good think to do at first but maybe it wasnt i hope this helped some [[ xO Katie Sumner ]] .........HEY THIS IS MEH AGAIN I READ WHAT YOUR FEEDBACK WAS AND I DIDNT KNOW THAT IM NOT REALLY SURE THEN WELL UMM YEAH SRRY IF IM NOT N*E HELP
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Hun, it seems like the guy only wanted to get in your pants... i think you should just forget about him an move on with your life... it was a big mistake to leave your friends an go with him but... i prolly did the same thing lol :-P but.. i think you an your friends that you left should all go out (clubbin if your old enough) an find someone thats alot better than that jerk... hope it helpd
x0ox Shellz xo0x
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