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OK theres a cute girl from work, we started outflirting till i knew she had a bf. We still flirted and started hanging out more than she was with her bf. i found out he's a complete dick to her and shes tried breaking up with him 5 times but he's manipulative. In the duration of our friendship she fooled me into thinking she broke up with him when they were really just breaks. One night after work we just hang out at a park talkign, she kisses me, and i hesitate so she thinks i didnt want to. Next morning i take her home and she apologizes later that day, when i really wanted the kiss. Month or two later i take her home late and tired and we talk, wrestle a little bit, the before i know it i initiate a make out session. She stops a couple times to say you do realize this is cheating right KNowing her bf i didnt care so we continued. next morning she says its a mistake and soon she claims she loves her bf. Anyway i tell like 2 people at work i trusted and word got round to her so she doesnt really talkto me anymore. OH yeah two days later she broke up with her bf for real. I truly like her i think what do i do?
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i think you should give her sometime to think b/c she prolly very confused rite now n doesnt know wut she feels...but that dont mean u have to wait for her without chillin wit other gurls...or hookin up wit other gurls...try to meet new gurls...hook up have fun so it wont b hard on u 2...n may b who knows u'll find someone else who u like more...n its not confused bout wut she feels for u ;) good luck xoxo effy
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Wow! I'm sorry thats a sticky situation. Just take it slow, maybe shes just having a hard time with the break up, and i'm sure shes really confused about it all. Give her time to think things threw. I know its hard to want to be with someone when they dont want to be with you. Just give it some time and see if she comes around and if she doesnt then it wasnt ment to be. And if it is ment to be then she'll come around, mean while look for other girls to get interested in or do some kind of sport to get her off your mind. Good luck with everything and I hope it all goes your way!
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Oh wow. I think she needs a little space right now. Apparently, she cannot decide what she wants. I understand you want attention, but the relationship would be better off if you can wait her out. I know that my current boyfriend and I had this problem. It took us a while to get back together (like years) and finally I got tired of being controlled by the guy I was going steady with. She needs to know you care and are there for her when she is ready. She probably doesn't even know how much better she feels yet.
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gIrLs cAn bE vEry confusing alot of the time...She LeD yoU on and made you think that she was broken up with him, which means you made an honest mistake.. it wasnt your fault and for her to get mad at that is not your problem... you believed that she was single and she was just trying to get the best of both people.. you can not let people walk ALL ovEr yOu ItS noT RigHt..ItS unFaiR to u that she doesnt talk to you.. It TaKeS 2 pEopLeS mouThs to Make ouT anD oBviOuSLy if she got so upset about her boyfriend she should have not made out with you..bUT shE DiD and GoT mad.. talk to her .. i know it sounds stupid and simple but talking is the best medicine.. tell her about this and how this makes you feel.. maybe she will see what shes done (*~&iF you DoNt shE wiLL thInk sHe DidDnt do aNYthinG wroNg*#~) iT sEeMs like you two have a good relationship but shes just upset at the moment cuz of her boyfriend.. talk to her and eventually things will work out#~!<3
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I would talk to her, sit her down where no one can hear and appologozie for telling others what happened, and just tell ehr how you feel and how you've wanted to be with her for a while. Then see what she thinks.
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