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HeY eVerYoNe! Im Paris Marie and im from the *Golden State* of California.. I love to surf, lay out in the sun, play softball n volleyball, and cheer..>~Im An AspiRinG AcTrEsS~< I also love to help people and im here for anyone that needs advice! StAts: HaiR* BloNde* EyEs: *bLuE* HeIghT: *5'4* **my scanner is still broke..

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Hey Girl What Kind Of Tannin stuff do ya use? Ive tryed everythin but nothing seems ta work!

Banana Boat dark tanning oils work, Heat Therapy dark tanning lotion (drugstores $5-Up)Hawaaian Tropics dark tanning oil, Baby oil and iodine, it will burn you at first but it will bring out a really good tan after you shower.. If you burn put skim milk on a rag and run it over your skin it takes away the burn.. If you want a fast tan you can always jump in the tanning bed for 10 minutes every once in a while to get a base tan so youll tan easier, or you can buy sunless tanner , Neutorgena sells that, (drugstores carry sunless tanners) or you could get a spray on tan at your nearest salon.. Good Luck

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hey my hair is a blondeish color now..got that way from the sun...i have nothing against blonde hair on other people, i just don't like the way it looks on me. i have kind of pale skin, and dark brown eyes. my hair is 2 inches longer than shoulder length and very layered and straight. does anyone have any good hair colors i could dye it while still looking natural? like i mean specific colors--not "brown" or "red"...like maybe a color on a dying kit and the number of it

*Caramel Blonde (its a dark blonde and it has like a honey tint to it..)
*Tawnee (kind of like a brown color, lighter; Looks nice with high and low lites)
*Expresso (the coffee lol, its a color kind of like a brown, darker than tawnee, looks good with people with a fair complection; it looks really pretty with champagne blonde highlites)
*Honey Blonde (Darker Blonde, kind of has a reddish tint to it, maybe a little bit of orange.. People with fair complection are more likely to tend to a darker color hair.. Hope everything works out

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ok this is gonna sound sort of weird but lately i feel like i cant control anything really i cant control my heart or the way i look or the way i feel or any of that but i can control how much i eat im 5'6 going into 8 grade and i weigh 102 pounds and i just want to weigh 98 idk why but 2 me thats how i feel i should look so i just stopped eating basicially i mean its 2 and i havent had anything to eat today ill probally eat a little bit but not alot and i always feel like im getting fatter and stuff i just dont want to look like me anymore... i hate the way i look but idk why i feel like this i have the best boyfriend i could ever ask for great friends great family i guess i just feel like i have to be perfect for everyone and i think thats how everyone wants me to look so thats what im going to do i guess should i weigh less than 98? how much weight should i loose?

You really shouldnt lose any weight.. For your height of 5"6 your weight is perfectly fine.. There is no designated weight for a person, its just how healthy you are and if you diet and excercise.. Your only going into the 8th grade, your still growing and if you dont eat you wont get the amount of nutrients or vitamins that you need for your body to fully "develop". These feelings are feelings that basically all teenage girls go through.. The feeling that they have no control on whats going on in their life.. It happens to the best of us, The only thing you can do is follow your heart, even if you cant control it; Anorexia Nervosa is a very serious eating disorder that ruins your matobolism, and if you dont eat; You matolbolism will slow down, And when you want to start eating again, you will gain weight faster.. Eat 3 balanced meals a day and excercise thast the diet you should be on.. You dont need to worry about your weight considering how tall you are and your still growing.. If you need help with your eating habbits, i suggest you see a doctor who can refer you to a specialist.. EVERY teenage girl has insecurties about what she looks like, your not alone.. I hope everything works out, and i hope i helped you.. Good Luck

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Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him Bob. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i cant say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!

x0x signed confused n depressed

Confused and Depressed,
You obviously felt love for this person, the feeling that cannot be explained through words other than perfect.. No matter what you do or how much you try to forget about him, memories always come back and make you want more..Think of why he broke up with you first.. What happened in your relationship to make it not work? Age difference is not a factor, so you dont have to worry about that.. This is an on again off again kind of situation, And with him going away it doesnt make it any easier on you to feel for him; If you have feelings for this guy, you need to do something about it.. None of this on again off again stuff because it loses touch and time that you two could be spending together! He told you he had feelings for you and you have feelings for him, so you 2 have to make this relationship work and be strong and healthy.. It sounds like you 2 are good friends and thats the best way to make a relationship..No one can ever compare to your first love..(if hes the first person youve felt like that before with) and the feelings wont go away without time.. If you like him and your willing to put your trust in him giving him the power to destroy you but trusting him enough that he wont; then this guy is obviously worth it and you should go through with him..Dont lose touch with him, thats whats ruining the bond between you too.. Good Luck, i hope everything works out well..

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i plan on having this hardcore party at my new house when its done being built. all the people im friends with are into really hardcore music and skateboarding and having fun. but i want the party to be really awesome, not just sitting around the whole time talking. i know i should have music and food, but what else can i do to make it really fun? if the party gets boring, everyones gonna wanna start drinking or smoking and thats not good. all of the "spin the bottle" games are getting old. and i dont want everyone at school talking about my party if its lame...

If your friends are all skateboarders maybe build a small ramp or something by your new house.. Set up lights outside (Spencers) has really awesome glow lights and strobe lights.. LOUD MUSIC...Maybe have a bon fire; And if some of your friends will help pitch in maybe pay for a hardcore band to come and play at your party... rOcK oN, PaRtY haRd,hAve FuN

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Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?!

all friends should kind of have an instinct that your friends ex boyfriends are OFF limits.. it just causes chaos..You need to confront her.. tell her like it is.. You still have feelings for him, and it must kill you to see someone else with him.. Tell her that you still have feelings for him, and you guys really didnt get a chance to be "officially over" your friend is the one who is supposed to be there to critisize your ex when you see him with another girl; Shes not supposed to be the one with your ex.. Dont stop being friends with her necessarily.. If she doesnt respect your opinion.. Then next time she has a guy she likes.. you go for him and see if she likes it.. Hope everything works out..

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i think i look really ugly when i smile..but everyone says that smiling makes u look prettier but i dont think i do. all my friends get mad at me when i dont smile but i dont know what to do! HELP!

Ehh i bet that bothers you when people tell you that.. Listen you have to have confidence in yourself and the way you look, thats what makes a person beautiful; Not all on how they are on the outside but how they carry themselves too.. Hope i helped..

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well ok. this is gunna sound stupid at some parts! but im soo mad at my boyfriend becuz in his AIM info it says..

Jackie- Your Awesome Gurl-Very Sexy
Nina- Your a Great Girl- Very Sexy
Brad- Sexiest Mofo Alive- Very Very VERY sexy!
Rachael- (shes my best friend btw) Your Pretty Kool- Very Sexy
Heather- Your Good To Talk To- Sexy

then at the very very very bottom of his info which is like 9348 spaces down.. says

Amy- I Love You- Very Very Sexy

I told him it makes me mad when he has these chicks in his info.. like callen em sexy n stuff and he responded with a " im allowed " it made me SO mad, as u can tell im a very jealous girlfriend, i jus dunno what ta do.. Please help!! I need it.. (*i rate high*)

AMy*

Hun you are not jealous you are doing what every female in her right mind would do if she saw that in her boyfriends profile.. If i had a b/f and that was in his profile.. i would be VERY upset.. If hes going to treat you like that, you can do much better Amy..Its good that you told him how you felt.. If you want to stay with him, then retaliate; Put guys in your info ( i know it sounds childish) but give him a dose of his own medicine and see if he likes it.. And if he doesnt get the point then obviously hes not worth your time and your feelings.. I dont really know maybe hes just insecure about relationships and he wants to have a backup if yours fails.. Dont give your feelings to someone who wont give them back.. I hope everything works out; and if it doesnt, Like we say here Theres plenty of surfers in the bay;)

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Ok, I'm 13 and I get really bad depression. I've had it for like over a year now. I forgot what its like to actually have true happiness. And I know most teens go throug this, but mines pretty severe. Like I never want to do anything anymore, I just dont care, I hate life, And most of the time I just feel like dieing. And like ver since I got it, its screwed up my life. I lost all my friends and havent really had any in like a year. It seems easy when people just say "start making new friends" or "find an activity you like doing" or try to be happy or whatever, but its so hard. I don't know what to do about my depression. Please help?

You should go see a doctor.. The doctor can diagnose you with depression (if he hasnt already..) And if he has, he should have prescribed you some Anti-Depressants.. This medication triggers your hormones and literally make you happy.. Sooner or later you will be reduced on a certain schedule and eventually u will have to stop taking the medication.. You canT just hurry up and meet new friends and find something you like to do, that doesnt make you happy.. you need to love yourself first before you can love something else.. I recommend that you see a specialist.. Doctor, Pediatritian, and if you need to talk to someone about your problems maybe see a therapist; I hope you feel better, And everything goes well.. Best of wishes

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Ok Ok im from England.. and in America all the songs come out before they do here, sooo please can you list me some good songs that have just come out in America?

SouthSide-- Lloyd ft. Ashanti
All Downhill from Here-- New Found Glory
Sunshine ---Lil Flip
(Boom) its On---Ying Yang Twins
Tear It up---DMX
Modest Mouse--Float On
Franz Ferdinand---Take ME out
Ashlee Simpson--Autobiography
--Pieces of Me
--Dont make me cry
I dont know what types of music you listen to but theres a variety up there..hope i helped..

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It's Kevin1986 here with a problem and a couple of questions. I'm friends with two guys,let's say D and J. J used to go out with a girl that I'm very close with,but not dating,although I'd like to. He's pretty obessive,talking about her all the time. Anyway,D used to like her too and they almost went out,but they had a falling out. About a year ago,a new guy,M,goes out with her. I don't care about M and neither do they. J and D want me to tell M that the girl he's going out with is a headtrip because their relationships with her didn't work. I say,it's his bed and it's job to determine whether his girl is crazy or not. I say D and J want me out of the way so they can get her,because I know she'd hate me forever if I tried to break up her relationship. Since I care about her,I want her to be happy even if it's not with me. Your thoughts on this issue? P.S I never really considered telling M this,but I want your opinions on what the real story is.

I think that if D & J have feelings about it, they should be the ones telling M, not you.. Even though you are their friend, its not worth getting into and having your friend thats a girl and your close to get hurt..I basically think the same way as you do, its for the guy to find out..He can learn his own lesson just as D & J did and maybe it will be different for M.. Most likely not; but you never know.. Just be supportive for the girl, and if i were you i wouldnt say anything.. just let things take happen as fate would... Hope everything works out

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Alright heres the situation.. I have this friend, his name is Chris. Anyways, we are like best friends, i guess you could say. We talk alot hang out pretty often. He has a girl friend and i am single. Do you think he likes me if he does the following.. always smiles when he looks at me, always ask who i like, is really nice to me, and hugs me all the time.. i am really confused i dont know if he likes me or is it just a friend thing? Thanks in advance!! -xXoBrianna

Dont read the wrong signs, best friends are supposed to do that kind of stuff... HE has a g/f and you dont want jump to conclusions and get involved in that.. My best friend has a girlfriend 2, we always talk n hang out he hugs me and hes always there for me.. BUT ITS JUST A FRIEND THING.. i hope everything works out..

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me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do..

If you love something let it free, if it comes back then its meant to be.. That sayings not always true... Maybe its a better idea just to break off for a while just so you know that its good to be with that person..9 months is a long time for a relationship and your probably having lots of fun when hes gone because your used to feeling subjected to one person and with him not being there you feel that you are free and able to be with lots of other people.. It could mean that you just want to experience some other things before you go back to him.. You spent 9 great months with him, and maybe that was enough.. To make sure that it was you should get away for awhile and experience other things.. And if you 2 were really meant to be.. things will work back together.. Good luck, i hope everything works out.. HAve fun in the meantime though!;)

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I am kind of pale i guess you could say.. What type of blush is good to use for a person that has a fair complection.. like waht types of make up? thanks..

If your skin is fair you can use Burts Bees Blushing Creme in Peach 9$ burtsbess.com... For your lips you can use Too Faced Bunny Balm in Peek a Boo Peach, 11$ toofaced.com .. And for your eyes you can use cover Girl Fantastic Lash Mascara in Very Black, 6$ at drugstores... At night your going to a party or a dance etc.. For your cheeks use Agnes B. Fruity Blush in Petale de Rose $12 ccb-paris.com for your lips use pookie colorbalm in Be Mine Forever $9 pookiestore.com and for your eyes use PRestige soft blend khol eyeline in jet black, 4.95 in drugstores... Good luck

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My parents got divorced.. and since they have been divorced ive been going through tough times that no one really knows about.. I guess i hide it well.. i started to cut myself about 3 years ago.. wehn people ask me i just make up lame excuses.. I dont think they believe me but its been working.. I just keep thinkin of what it could have been like if they were still together.. What should i do.. please help
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You really need to get help.. Your friends might not wanna tell anyone because they dont want to hurt you. Its bad on their part but they are trying to stay true to you and they dont want you to get mad.. Divorce is one of the toughest things that teens have to go through.. Dont hide your feelings, If you need to talk to someone talk to a counselor, a friend, therapist, or a psychiatrist. Self Mutilation is a hard thing to describe.. There are other alternates that you can do other than cut yourself to release your anger and pain.. Tell your parents that you want to see a psychiatrist and tell them whats going on.. becasue no one is gunna be able to help you if u keep hiding it.. Your parents surely will get you help and seek whats best for you..You cutting yourself is def. not going to get your parents back together.. its better to be happily divorced than unhappily married.. Dont punish yourself for this your parents couldnt work out together and its not your fault.. DONT BLAME YOURSELF! I hope everything works out well...PLease get help!

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I dont know what to do.. I used to have so many friends, until they all got boyfriends.. We always said GIRLS BEFORE GUYS.. and that was a huge lie.. I have about 3 good friends now that i see pretty often i guess you could say.. what am i supposed to do?

Time and people change.. Regardless of what people might say, promises arent kept all the time.. Your friends obviously are making a mistake because more than likely they are not going to be with that person the rest of their life.. Meet new friends, people that will treat you right.. You dont need friends like that. They are poisen and not good for you; You dont deserve that.. Keep the 3 good friends you have now.. Hey its better to have 1 good friend than have 10 bad ones.. And its better to have 3 good friends than no friends at all.. Forget about those other friends.. You have to move on, they moved on without you... And if they come back, dont be mean to them accept them, but dont let them hurt you again... Hope I helped good luck

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how do you heal a sprained wrist?

Nothing really can heal a sprained wrist. Anything thats sprained is healed by time, and taking good care of it.. It helps when it first happens to add ice to it for the first 24 hours.. then heat later.. Icy hot helps if your active.. At pharmacys like CVS and RiteAid they have little wrist braces and stuff that you can wear if your active and need to do stuff and cant wait that long for it to heal.. No matter what you have to try and use it a little bit more each and every day to make it heal better.. Good Luck

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hey..im looking for CUTE school clothes..and i wanted to ask from everyone to name off a BUNCH of stores that i can check out!!

thnx!

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Abercrombie and Fitch www.abercrombieandfitch.com
Abercrombie kids www.abercrombiekids.com
American Eagle www.ae.com
Charlotte Russe www.charlotte-russe.com
Dillards
Pacific Sunwear www.pacsun.com
Rue 21 www.rue21.com
Hollister Co. www.hollisterco.com
JcPennys
Lazarus
Mish Mash
WEathervane
Gadzooks www.gadzooks.com
Kaufmanns
Macys

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this is for anyone whose parents divorced, i just need to get a general idea of what it's gonna be like at divorce court. we're going to court at the end of september. my dad has had a girlfriend for around three years and last summer (2003) she had a baby boy. i am thirteen and my little brother is 11. will i get to tell my side of the story? will my brother? how long will it take? thanks for reading this and please don't answer if you've never been to divorce court.

Usually in Divorce court, unless you were abused, raped, etc. The children dont really get to tell a side of the story. Your parents usually go in and debate on the custody situation. It can take anywhere from 30min-2 hours i believe.. The custody situation will either be full, or joined(parents share time), and full with visitation. Then the judge will tell you what the children CAN do.. Such as if you want to live with one parent, you are able to tell them that when you are 15 and or 16 (depending on which state you live in). Your attorney might ask you some questions and may tell the judge that.. Good Luck Hun, i hope everything works out with the situation your going through, i know it may be tough at sometimes.. just be there for your brother and never give up on what you believe is right!!

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how about backhandsprings..how do u do them lol ik im rushing..im just curious!!

Backhandsprings:To learn a backhandspring make sure you are able to arch in the middle.. start with your feet close together... and you can either put your arms over your head or right in front of you.. swing them backwards; and arch into a handspring... keep your arms locked, but again not too locked, but not loose so you would land on your face...in the middle when your hands hit you need to "spring" off or push off with your hands to finish your backhandspring.. a spotter may be needed for this.. The spotter should put one hand on your one leg and one hand on your back.. when you swing they should kind of guide you through to to make sure you dont stop.. BE CAREFUL!!! good luck

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