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me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do..
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Dont dump him..you will just end up back toghether...it depends what you call fun?? hanging out with the girls?? then tell him you need to do that so you cant hang out EVERYNIGHT you need you friends..if you mean fun by hanging out with other guys then i'd tell him you need a break and emphesize your not dumpin him...gooood luck xoxo tere
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if youre having such a kik ass time without him, i dont think ur in love... hwen relationshiups last that long, they tend to get a bit routine and boring. you two should probably take a break. if you find you miss him while you two are taking a break, there may be something there. but if not, its best you break it off now and not drag him on any longer
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It means you are two different people. If he dampens the fun atmosphere with a bad mood, then the problem is his and he must deal. If it's because you are chasing other guys, then you are not ready for a long-term relationship. If it's because he doesn't like your friends, then listen to him, but don't ditch your friends just for him. If it's money, pay for a date or two. You don't say why he is gone again. If you two are off again, keep it that way for a while.
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Break it off... say you rather just be friends.. or go on anothe break to be sure... im sorry.. hope everything works out
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***Liz***- I think that this shows that you guys are growing apart. You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him that maybe its time for you guys to just be friends. ***Marie***- Maybe you don't really love him. Maybe you feel like you have to go back to him because you feel guilty because you were having fun without him. Or you've just grown so dependent on him in the past nine months that being with him feels right... But why did you break up in the first place? I think you should break it off with this guy and stay single for awhile. Have fun, but steer clear of getting a boyfriend. Don't rush into it because you might find yourself in another sticky situation.
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have fun ;)
-xXoBrianna
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If you love something let it free, if it comes back then its meant to be.. That sayings not always true... Maybe its a better idea just to break off for a while just so you know that its good to be with that person..9 months is a long time for a relationship and your probably having lots of fun when hes gone because your used to feeling subjected to one person and with him not being there you feel that you are free and able to be with lots of other people.. It could mean that you just want to experience some other things before you go back to him.. You spent 9 great months with him, and maybe that was enough.. To make sure that it was you should get away for awhile and experience other things.. And if you 2 were really meant to be.. things will work back together.. Good luck, i hope everything works out.. HAve fun in the meantime though!;) <3 Paris Marie
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um that pretty much means you miss the single life! break out of this prison you call a relationship experience life girl! make sure he knows you love him but for right now you dont want to have any serious relationships!
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break up with him and have fun! party it up.
Eh, if you want to, stick through it, and see if he can have fun to. lemme just say, its always fun to be single. (thats why i never intend on getting married or having a boyfriend.)
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