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Gender: Female
Location: PA
Occupation: 9th grade bhs
Age: 14
AIM: liotta14
Member Since: August 12, 2004
Answers: 13
Last Update: August 22, 2004
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ok..im trying to help a friend out..and help him w/ his best man speech but what do u talk about when ur writing a best man speech?..id love it if people could help n fast! thanks!

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heyy..okk you talk about how long you knew the groom maybe a memory proveing you were good friends..what happend when he met the wife(how she changed his world)or w.e..wish them luck nd all that good stuff happiness..u know...and then say ur happy for him good luck x0x0 teresa


hey its me agen! thanks for my last question u guyz helped me lots! evry1 of u!! haha my sn is blondebaby3249 if u wanna IM me! ok heres my new question...
last year i had 3 real bestfriends i mean we were like TOTALLY the bestest friends now this summer its like... rite in the beginning these 2 girls hate me now they call me a slut and stuff when ive nevr had sex and stuff! and they say i wear too much eye makeup(which i dont) and i dress slutty! so ive tryed to not put as much eye makeup on but then this one girl outta the group is like i dont care what u say im not gonna be frinds with u agen! and im like ok bitch! and were in this huge fight and then the last girl outta our 4 is like my neighbor so we gotta be friends... but that one girl is like saying shes gona make my life miserable and stuff and im totally confuzed! PLEZE HELP ME!!! (link)
hey sweeetie!!! so im totaly glad u asked me this question!!! This happend to me recently!!! Well there is nooo doubt the girls are a bunch of jelious bitches!!! They dont admit it but they at heart are all jelious of you AND dont change your makeup dont change a thing bcuz they want to be like you so they bring you down!! Its time to block them from your buddy list and when any1 tells you they were talkking shit as hard as it is ..act like u dont care..trust me they will evvenually get bored of talking about sum1 who doesnt care..if you dont answer em bak online they will have no feed back and nothing new to talk about so they will stop...pull back and get a couple new friends but dont get soo close with them fast take your time..time to pick a bunch of good friends and plus by the sounds of you your better than this!!!And when this happend to me i had to realize i was too!!! dont worry dont let them bother you if you need more advice PLEEEZ IM me at liotta14 this happend to me and its hard to deal with!! dont worry xoxo teresa


How can a girl ask a guy out, without coming on too strong? How would a guy react if he kinda likes the girl, like if the girl notices him checking her out all teh time and winking and ahving little side convos. whats a good way to ask him out?
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heyy i would def. GO FOR IT!!! guys love aggresive girls and it takes the pressure off them..just ask him he likes you then if he says he does say well would you wanna go out?? see what happens!! gooo for it!! need more
IM it --->liotta14


i havnt had a boyfriend for like a year and i dont know whats wrong with me i dont really like anyone i mean some guys are real cute but i want a boyfriend what do i do? (link)
heyy...well the first thing to do is to put yourself out there....flirt with a couple guys...then its time to think...what do you look for in a guy...looks..intelegance(spelled wrong) personality..is he nice or an asshole...then see witch one fits your type the most..start talking to him then see what happens from there...and if you do like him..never deniy that you do it will get back to him and he'll think you dont when he could!!!! goooood luck :-)
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ok i have a friend who lives across the country. well he keeps tellin me he likes me and today hes like, wut if i called my g/f up and broke up with her and asked u out? well long distance relationships dont do anything for me. anyways he keeps askin me out(which is really dumb) and stuff like that. then he was saying i love u and when he was getting off he said i love you like a sis. i dont get it! he wants to go out with me but loves me like a sister! i dont really care about relationships, im only 13 and sos he but i mean come on. wut should i say to him or do to just make him realize wut hes saying. we have been friends ever since we were born and i dont want to ever lose him as a friend and i do like him he is just driving me insane. will someone pls help?

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heyy sweetie!!! just tell him what you said here...relationships are suposed to start before the distance!!! and what is a relationship if all you can do is talk on the phone after all your only 13 you dont need that now and when he said love u like a sis..it was because u didnt go 4 his idea of gonig out with him in the first place....my advice..dont go out with him.it wont be like haveing a boyfriend anyway!!!! good luck need more liotta14


I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.


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heyy...go for it definatly..i highly doubt he will push you away at all as long as you dont do it out of the blue..be paitent with your move!! but definatly do it!!!! goood luck need more advice liotta14


If you fell in love (like REALLY fell head over heals in love) and you know it will never ever EVER work out(like the man might as well be dead its so never ever going to happen), is it normal to feel like you'll never love anyone that way again? He didn't break up with me cuz we weren't ever really together, but my heart is broken. I'm not angry with him or anything either. Its just that I know in my heart that i will never feel this way about anyone ever again, just is it normal? (link)
hey hun!!! yes it is totally normal to feel this way but just to let you know you will feel this way about someone again. It hurts to get your heart broke but in time it'll be fine. Just keep yourself buisy and dont sit and think about how it could never work out there is no use in that!!! goood luck need more help liotta14 xoxo tere


Hi well ok see me and my friend were the bestest of friends then all of a sudden I start liking this boy , and he likes me but my friend said that she wouldn't get mad at me, well I called her and told her the news about us going out and she threw the phone across the room......
What do I do?>?? Plz Help me.......And Fast (link)
i wouldnt really give in and brake up with him. Talk to your friend after all she should of bin honest with you when you asked her if it would be a problem. If you dump him what is that going to do?? you hurt yourself and him because he likes you and not her so its not like she is going to get him anyway. Talk to her and tell her how things are going to be half of it is her fault friends should be honest with eachother..gooood luck xoxo tere liotta14 if ya more help!


okay so im a 15 year old female
and i have this huge crush on
one of my brothers friends
his name is wesley..but hes 21
and in the marines..hes leaveing
for iraq in 8days..but i like him
allot and dont no how to tell him
or how him being in iraq and me
being 15 and in pennsylivania er
w/e my state is spelled would work
but i saw him at the mall tonight
and he was at my house tuesday and
at my brothes game..and when i saw
him tonight we stared at each other
for a longgg time..and we talked at
the game last night..and for like
an hour when he was here tuesday
so i really am starting to become
attached to the kid but im not sure
what to do ya know? well i hope some
one can help me

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hey sweetie sorry but this guy is way to old for you...its illigel and i think since he is going away it will only be better for you. Sorry to say he cant see you like you see him its just to weired and plus thats your brothers friend..trust me because i know how that goes (the guy rule) you dont go out with your best buds sister so id try to get over him and i wouldnt really tell him how you feel things could get ugly with your brother involved too but dont worry goood luck xox need me liotta14 !!



me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do.. (link)
Dont dump him..you will just end up back toghether...it depends what you call fun?? hanging out with the girls?? then tell him you need to do that so you cant hang out EVERYNIGHT you need you friends..if you mean fun by hanging out with other guys then i'd tell him you need a break and emphesize your not dumpin him...gooood luck xoxo tere


well i broke up with my ex boyfriend twice. reason being we didn't really go anywhere with eachother or have the chance to. well after the second time we broke up, we were talking online and he was saying some pretty rude, mean things to me. i told my friends about it and none of them really like him for what he said. then a few days later, he asked if we could get back together saying how he would be a better boyfriend and stuff like that..

i have been thinking and i really do like him still, but do u think i should give him a THIRD chance?? and if so should i care what my friends say..

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If you like him.. go for it...i have a tun of guys living in my house and the only way to show there "emotion" is to be mean unless you go out. IF you decide to go out start fresh dont go back to the way you started the other two times because you'll end up right back here. Your friends have a big part of this but its your decition dont let them infuence you to much!! much luck xox tere


all my friends have got got boyfriends and i havent (im 14 and female), i havent even been with someone, n im scared that they will call me frigid, my mates boyfriend keeps saying 2 me that his mate will go out with me but ive neva met him n i dont wanna go out wit him either.

has any1 got any advice for me??? (link)
heyy... i've bin in your situation you definatly dont want your "mates" boyfriend to tell his friend that you too should go out that leaves the situation nothing but aqward when you meet. If you dont want a boyfriend its no big deal trust me you are missing out on nothing except a few meaningless pickup lines they give. Take your time get a boyfriend when you want one and do it the right way and thats not being set up!! goood luck xoxo tere


This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!! (link)
hey hun!! i really doubt hes cheating. Its hard to cheat or dump someone when you know there family and friends. But there is still a chance so dont completly kill the thought. Dont take action on what you heard. Wait a while see what happens or if you hear this again then do somthing about it depending what you hear!!! good luck and dont freak about it!! xoxo tere




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