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Never again
If you fell in love (like REALLY fell head over heals in love) and you know it will never ever EVER work out(like the man might as well be dead its so never ever going to happen), is it normal to feel like you'll never love anyone that way again? He didn't break up with me cuz we weren't ever really together, but my heart is broken. I'm not angry with him or anything either. Its just that I know in my heart that i will never feel this way about anyone ever again, just is it normal?
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hey hun!!! yes it is totally normal to feel this way but just to let you know you will feel this way about someone again. It hurts to get your heart broke but in time it'll be fine. Just keep yourself buisy and dont sit and think about how it could never work out there is no use in that!!! goood luck need more help liotta14 xoxo tere
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Yeah...it is normal. I'm saying this fro experience. Your heart is broken, and it's going to stay that way for a long time. But eventually you'll find tape, and start piecing the pieces back together. It'll still hurt, trust me, but it gets better. Time heals everyhing. You'll never really forget him, but you also will realize that your heart wasn't meant for him. Do stuff. Do stuff with friends. Hang out with guys...YES you will see him in other guys. You'll hear his laugh, see the same glint in his eyes with this new guy yur talkin to...but it's okay. He was part of you. You will eventually move on (so I'm told) when you start realizing that what you're feeling now isn't reality, and everything about him should be a memory. And yet...it never will be will it? If you ever need someone to talk to about this email or IM me. I know what you're going through, and maybe I can be a drug. :D It was worth a shot. -<3- Mere
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yes...it is totally normal! and after a while you probably will get over it..like they say time heals everything...so you just gotta wait and try to get ova him...`nd if you cant..then mabye you 2 are meant to be..but you just werent at that certain time! all you have to do is keep your head up high and always look on the bright side! one daii your gonna find a guy who is so much better compared to the last guy. so dont worry..its totally normal to be heartbroken and to feel like that, but dont let it ruin your life. Just always think positivly about all of this..mabye it has just made you a billion times stronger..so just keep your head up high hun! and another thing that will make this a little easier is to talk to people you trust..and if there is no one you can always talk to me! just i/m me and ill be here for ya!
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Yes. Completely, painfully, awkwardly normal. That's what love is - you open yourself to the possibility of sharing your soul with another person. Of course it hurts when that ends.
The stronger your feelings were, the longer it'll take you to recover. But you WILL feel better, and you WILL find love again.
My first relationship ended, after a year and a half, when I was a senior in high school. I thought I had found my true love - the person I'd be with forever. I mourned for a long time, and it even affected relationships I had throughout college.
But you know what? I found my REAL true love. The heart goes on - and what I've discovered is that though the pain and emotions following that break-up were devestating, I wasn't even close to experiecing the sort of love I have now in my marriage.
It hurts, but in a few years you'll realize how wrong (and how LUCKY you were wrong) you were to think you could never find love again. Be strong.
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totaly normal!...you will eventually date other people but that love wont leave it will always be in the back of your mind
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You don't really have just a certain amount of love that you give out and then there is nothing left. Thats just not how it works. When you love someone so much that at some point you know you'd do anything for them or to be with them and then thats suddenly taken away or it slowly dissolves - you are bound to feel a little lost. You are bound to feel like you'll never love someone else again. The thing is, when you've loved someone that much, you'll always love them, in a certain special way for that particular person. Its not love LOVE, buts its as if that person will always have a place as part of you. Eventually, you're going to love someone again, and its going to be better then you could ever imagine. Its normal to feel this way right now, but it won't last for forever.
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ugh ive felt like that...and yea its normal that you dont think youll ever feel that way about any one else again...but hey someone else came along n proved me totally wrong.
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Yeea i think its perfectly normal. There will always be a special place in your heart for him..but keep in mind that you will fall in love again and get married perhaps..and it will be a stronger love.
hope i helped out..if i wasnt too clear write back please! :)
-melissa
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