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Hi well ok see me and my friend were the bestest of friends then all of a sudden I start liking this boy , and he likes me but my friend said that she wouldn't get mad at me, well I called her and told her the news about us going out and she threw the phone across the room......
What do I do?>?? Plz Help me.......And Fast
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ok well first sounds to me like your friend likes him...best you can do is, do your best to talk to her. Find out why she did that and then explain to her she said she wouldnt be mad. Next time she should tell you how she really feels instead of keeping it from you. -aMaNdA <3*
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You need to talk to her. Sit her down and just talk to her. If she is a good friend... she will be happy for you.. but I hope you do realize that she is hurt. This may put a strain on ur relationship.. but in due time things will be fine.
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Well, this is more for your friend to deal with than you. Maybe she liked the guy, maybe she's afraid if you have a boyfriend you'll have less time for her. She said she would be okay with the situation, so you have done nothing wrong.
I would have a conversation with her - explain you'd never want to hurt her, which is why you talked to her about dating the guy before you started. Let her know your friendship is very important to you and she'll always be a priority.
Put the ball in her court, and hope she tosses it back.
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Wow. Well, I think you should confront her about it. Because NO guy is worth any girls friendship. She's being really immature about it. This dillema is a predictable boyfriend-type-bestfriend-gets-jealous- problem. But if she's a real friend, she would understand and should be happy for you. Tell her to put her in your shoes. And that it's not worth endings ya'lls friendship. Well, I hope everything works out sweetie! Luck :]
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well it looks like your friends not a true friend, she shouldnt get mad over you two being together. talk to her about it for sure tell her that its not a big deal. Also tell her that she is over reacting!
Good Luck
Crystal
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ask her what her problem is.. you were nice enough to ask if she would get mad... sooo its not your problem its hers, she told u she wouldnt get mad and she got mad.. maybe shes not mad about that? who knows <3
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What i would do is find her a guy she likes even better so she doesn't feel so jealous or have a girls night with no guys and just talk and sit her down and tell her that you really like this guybut don't want to interfere with your friendship.
best of luck***
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if shes you "bestest" friend than she should cool off. just try to talk to her or something. have her tell you whats wrong even though you already know. talking should fix you problem, dont be one sided be sure to understand her or act like you do.
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Well this has happened to me and dont worry about it she'll get over it in time. But friends are forever and boyfriends come and go. So if u are willin to put youre friendship on the line for him then just think bout it
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First, I suggest you ask her if she has/had feelings for this guy. To me, it sounds like she does. I mean, that's some reaction to a friend going out with the guy she likes, to throw a phone across the room...
If she does have feelings for him, there's nothing you need to do about it, really. She didn't tell you, OR him, so...It's her own fault. I hate to say it, but really.
Just talk to her about her reaction, and explain to her that you didn't know she liked this guy. Talk it out.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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Try to convince her that you and her will still be friends and all. Let her know that this guy means a lot to you, and you hope that she understands because you really want her to. She might just be having a moment. If she still has a problem with you going out with him, then it is your choice. Is your friend worth giving up for that guy? I'm sure it won't come to that, but if it does, it is your decision.
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Unfortunately, people are like that. Apparently she liked him (you didn't mention if she does or not, so I'm just assuming.) And now she's jealous that you have something that she wanted. I think the best thing you can do right now is to, just sit down with her and talk about what happened and that you didn't mean to hurt her. Remind her that she said that she wouldn't get mad at you if you started going out with him.
Hang in there, hunni. Things do get easier. Don't change your mind just because someone else doesn't agree with something you want. I hope I helped. Leave me a message if you need any more advice, hun. Good luck.
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ok well talk it out wit her ask her why shes so mad if she told u she wouldnt be mad u guys will get threw it trust me
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Just tell her that she said she wouldn't get madd at you that you lied this boy. Maybe shes just jealous or likes this guy too. If i were you i'd call her and talk to her about it.. HOpe i helped
lauRa
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i wouldnt really give in and brake up with him. Talk to your friend after all she should of bin honest with you when you asked her if it would be a problem. If you dump him what is that going to do?? you hurt yourself and him because he likes you and not her so its not like she is going to get him anyway. Talk to her and tell her how things are going to be half of it is her fault friends should be honest with eachother..gooood luck xoxo tere liotta14 if ya more help!
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i think that you just need to talk to her and everything i mean obivsly{how ever you spell that} she musta liked him too or something or she wouldnt have acted that way and everything i mean she said that she would get mad at you and all but then again she still did that makes like no sence at all you need to tlak to her asap
-Cass-
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Hey. let her kno that she was the one that said she wasnt gonna get mad...point that out to her so she has no rights to be mad at you even tho she likes him too...tell her that and how you feel and hear her point of view and everything. anything else you can contact me..Take Care..Hope I helpe! x3 SweetStar.
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