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i want a boyfriend
all my friends have got got boyfriends and i havent (im 14 and female), i havent even been with someone, n im scared that they will call me frigid, my mates boyfriend keeps saying 2 me that his mate will go out with me but ive neva met him n i dont wanna go out wit him either.
has any1 got any advice for me???
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all you gotta do is be open and honest and be yourself.
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Eh, dont go out trying to find a random guy to go out with...only go out with someone if you realy like them and you think their worth ur time.
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heyy... i've bin in your situation you definatly dont want your "mates" boyfriend to tell his friend that you too should go out that leaves the situation nothing but aqward when you meet. If you dont want a boyfriend its no big deal trust me you are missing out on nothing except a few meaningless pickup lines they give. Take your time get a boyfriend when you want one and do it the right way and thats not being set up!! goood luck xoxo tere
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well if ur scared ppl will call u frigid...don't be cuz u gotta learn that u can't let wut ppl say get to u hun! and if u don't wanna go out with this mate then don't, be ur self and live life to the fullest!
::*sarah*::
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Just wait for the right moment till a real boyfriend wants you... U wont regret waiting
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lol .. yeah i have some advice. you don't have to have a boyfriend just to say "i have a bf" .. and if they call you frigid or prude .. they're not your true friends!! just be yourself and hopefully you'll find a guy that's true and likes you <3
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Don't worry about not having a boyfriend yet. Ur only 14, and still got many years ahead of u. Wait 4 a guy that u really care about and really like... it's probably better not 2 go out w/ this guy u've never met. Ur gonna find an awesome boyfriend 1 day, so just keep ur chin up and wait it out.
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dont be scared...have fun while you can. DONT BE PRUDE!!!!!!!!
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look im a 14 year old male and ive never had a gf but thats becuz i dont want a relationship yet becuz all my friends hav or had gfs and i c that now a days relationships only last a few weeks and then they cry over it and its just stupid so im gonna wait till im 15 or 16 so u dont have 2 have a bf if u dont want one now remember dont just et one cuz everyone else has one becuz thats just wrong. hope i helped good luck !!rate me!!
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well, just tell people that maybe you are happy just being single. *gasp!* but why not? Why can't a girl be happy just being single? don't date him if you're happy just as things are and you don't really don't want to.
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Alrighty. Well first of all don't rush things. Sometimes having one can be the worst experience of your life. Before you go out with someone, you want to make sure that you really know who he is. Do you like his personality enough? and stuff like that. You want to make sure he respects you for who you are and he doesn't want you to start dressing all sluty and crap like that. If you have guy friends then that's a really good start (espescially if they are single). Just go up and start talking to him and then start to flirt a little bit. Don't come on too strng or you may scare him away. Be yourself and everything will work out fine. Good Luck!!
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No rush! Im 15, and i have never done anything with anyone. You'll find the right one! Age dont matter.
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i sorta have the same problem...just let it go by its self, dont force n e thing. bc then u might become to obsessed with guys (which can happen trust me!) and im sure theres someone out there 4 u! and if u see a guy u like n u kno him go flirt with him or something. or if u see a guy u dont kno and would like to then go talk to him! ya only live once ya know...
good luck
-katie
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