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E-mail: moongiggles89@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: The U.S. of A.
Occupation: Being myself
Member Since: August 12, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: August 14, 2004
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my friend is so annyong and i dont know how to get ride of her and she is allways comin up to me and bossin my around and she has such a nasty mind and i have no idear wher she gets it from but she blamin a lot o nasty stuff on me like i went on a nasty website wat the hell is the matter with her mind i cant get rid of her because she is allway like commin up to my door and askin my mom where i am an d just lets her in and then she like she the fuckin boss tellin me what to do like its her fuckin house and i am fuckin fed up wit her shit n if i say i dont want to be her friend she will just keep comen back i did not say anny think or what i said dose not matter i mean how the fuck can i get ridd of her or stop her from bossin e around and or stop her from from blamin these nasty things on me plz help PS I ONLY RATE FIRST 9 (link)
"Let me live the life I choose." -Kaya

DUDE, CHILL OUT. This is your life, and your house. YOu have to constantly keep that in mind! Don't let her push you around, tell her that, as kindly as possible. Also, you might be surprised. Things could work out, maybe if you laid out the facts and told her that she was bossy and dirty, she'd change.

Also, you DO need to mind grammar. When I look at your question I think: Wow. She must not give two shits about me.


My hair is too plain and i am going back to school soon and i want something different then just in a pony tail does any body have step by step hair tips to give me a better look?
i am desperate!!!! (link)
"Everything's in your hands. You are in control." - Unknown

What look are you going for exactly? Edgy, sophistication? What? Have fun flipping through a magazine until you spot a style that catches your eye. I have so much fun with my hair. You could dye it, layer it, straighten it, style it, the list of fun things to do just goes on and on.


this is goin to sound REALLY werid and maybe distubbing but i need an outside opinon,
i have seen my cousin, 2 times in my WHOLE life, me and my family stayed there for a weekend the second time, me and him slept outside in the tent cuz there was no rooms in the house, seperate, or anythig so we jsut slept out there and he kept putting moves on me! and touching me like, ( a boyfirend ) would do, i was getting really uncomfortable then when i was goin to sleep he pulled nice in close to me, and then he started kissing me then we started to make out i then id stop and tell him this is wrong he said we barley see each other so its allright but i didnt' agree i went back to trying to fall a sleep and then he started goin down my pajama pants and he FINGERD me, for liek 3-5 seconds cuz i pushed him off, i don't feel comfortable to even talk to him on the computer anymore and i can't TELL anyone cuz they'll think im like discusting what do you guys think? (link)
WARNING: I am a blatantly honest, sometimes mean person, but I do mean well...really. I do. No! I'm serious! I do!

"I'm invincible as long as I'm alive." - John Mayer

Well we can't erase the past, so all I can say is what do you want with your future? Talk to him about it. Warn him that if he does it again, you'll KICK him in the nuts, and ask him if he does this to other people, because this is DEFINATELY a case of molestation, and it's WRONG. He needs to stop immediately, and find himself a girlfriend or SOMETHING. If he DOES do this to other people, then you definately must talk to your parents or his parents or someone, because this is WRONG. That's all I can say. It's disgusting. He's disgusting, not you, girlie. Keep that in mind.
Jesspiration


At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee (link)
WARNING: I am a blatantly honest, sometimes mean, person, but I have all the best wishes...honest. I do.

To be popular is to be common. -Unknown

So, you're on a quest for a new personality, aye? Frankly, you seem JUUUST fine to me. There's nothing wrong with wanting friends, but at the same time there's nothing wrong with being yourself. I want you to keep that always in mind as I continue my ramblings..trust me, I have a lot to say.

Basically, if you want others to notice you, you need to build confidence and comfort in yourself. You need a rock solid core so that when people get mean--and they can--you can say: No, that's not me. I know me. I am this, this, and this, and I am not, that, that and that. When people see that you know your own person, and aren't afraid to smile and be friendly, they'll notice. You'll come to light up a room with that confidence. It won't happy overnight, but slow and steadily you'll get there...

...What the heck are you doing still reading my crappy advice? Go out there and be social, girlie! Git!
-Jesspiration


I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do? (link)
WARNING: Truthfully, my friend, k l v g, probably wasn't doing the best thing when she led me, a blatantly honest and sometimes mean person to this site, but here I am anyway. Sucks for you I 'spose. ;cP lol

"It's better to be a lion for a day, than a sheep all your life." - Unknown
So, you like this girl--that's all I need to hear, mister. GO FOR HER. Life is TOO SHORT to walk or even to jog. You have to RUN. Run after this girl, you like so much. At least if you came out and expressed yourself you wouldn't be wondering "What if?" later on. It's a very painful feeling that uncertainy you'll feel later if your best friend gets your best girl, and it's probably very painful RIGHT NOW. Don't prolong the suffering. It's not hard. Say it with me: _Insert Name_ I like you. Do you think we have a chance together as more than what we are now? Would you like to grab a Starbucks or maybe see a movie?

It's not that hard. E-mail the outcome if you have time: moongiggles89@hotmail.com
-Jesspiration




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