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Left out!
At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee
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So, you're on a quest for a new personality, aye? Frankly, you seem JUUUST fine to me. There's nothing wrong with wanting friends, but at the same time there's nothing wrong with being yourself. I want you to keep that always in mind as I continue my ramblings..trust me, I have a lot to say.
Basically, if you want others to notice you, you need to build confidence and comfort in yourself. You need a rock solid core so that when people get mean--and they can--you can say: No, that's not me. I know me. I am this, this, and this, and I am not, that, that and that. When people see that you know your own person, and aren't afraid to smile and be friendly, they'll notice. You'll come to light up a room with that confidence. It won't happy overnight, but slow and steadily you'll get there...
...What the heck are you doing still reading my crappy advice? Go out there and be social, girlie! Git!
-Jesspiration
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You should try to start-up a conversation with somebody, like compliment someone's hair or outfit, or grade on a test. Just open-up to people and try not to be so held-back. Wear something bright to school to draw attention to yourself, and hopefully someone will notice you! Maybe you'll even get a cute guy =)
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Just be outgoing! Try to find something you have in common with a classmate, such as a favorite band, TV show, or book. Then bring it up by saying something like, "Oh, you like ______, too?! I love it!" That might start off a good conversation. You might also compliment someone who looks nice and friendly, but only if you're sincere!
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Hey!!! I'll be ur friend lol! I think i already know u don't i! lol
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go up to people and start convos wit em... when people look at u smile... be confident
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Well, don't wear cloths to school, its the best way to get noticed in my book...
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All you have to do is have confidence to speak to someone. It doesn't matter who, but if you want to get to know certain people all you have to do is introduce yourself. When people start noticing how nice you are by getting to know them, they'll be sure to want to get to know you.
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hey...well just start talking to a person...or if you see a person sitting by themselves at your luinch period then just ask her/him if you could sit with them....im going into hs this year and i wont no barely anyone...and im soo scared cuz im afriad i wont make any friends...cuz im shy too...but thats what im gona do...if i all see a person sitting alone at the lunch table im gona ask if i could sit with her..or good ways of meeting new people is introducing yourself...or maybe asking someone to be your partner in gym class or a school project or we...there are tons of ways of meeting new people you just need to be confident and believe in yourself that you can achieve your goal...
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well make an effort to talk to them silly! compliment them.. find something you have in common etc, thats how i get to know people.
hehe, hope ive helped!
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Just be yourslef and when ever you see someone sitting alone just go and say hey or when a couple people are talking just go up to them and be like whats up?...hope i helped :)
KayTea
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HI... I feel the same way sometimes.. frist couple years I like that. I met this one frined change everything. i know how be my self.. be who you are around your family and people you already know.. be little open and say hi people and ask how they are. try bring up converstaion.. ask if person goes lunch same as you ask if you can join them or.. is there a club at school and if you join something you like meet someone... :) I hope I help
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Changes Is Good
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dont be shy and try to trike up a conversation
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im in the same passition sry i cant spell...yeah just say hi to ppl then they will notice u answer a question ur teacher ask ...hope i helped
-JoN
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Don't try to blend in with the crowd, try to stand out. They will all soon get to know your wonderful personality. It's not really how you look, it's how you act.
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Talk to them! If you prove that you are a nice girl than people will want to get to know you. So just start out with conversation and pretty soon you'll be making tons of friends. **Kacie**
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be out going. flirt and act cute. it doesn't matter what you look like, just act like your the queen of the world. be confident, and talk to random people.
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Dear Left-Out,
TO make new friends be different if you don't have a school uniform dress differently dont follow trends, set them. But, if you have school uniforms just be yourself!
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I say your best bet to get people to notice you is to volunteer in class, and then when you have breaks from class, talk to the people in the class and let them know you exist. Make them WANT to get to know you.
Hope I helped. Good luck!!
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uh well jus start talkin to ppl..try to fit in..thats all ull soon b gettin known dunt worry
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aight...for one, DONT BE SHY!!! that is the worst thing ever. also be really outgoing. one thing that will probably draw a lot of attention to you is change ur appearance. cut ur hair or dress in a new style. try to look cute!
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