Hey! well recently my bf and me broke up. and the reason we did was bcuz hes going through a really hard time in his life(well he hasnt had a wonderful life i should say) and Before the break up he told me him and two friends ran away and that they were partying. and then he told his one friend that him and the friends were camping. i mean he knows i will give him the space for everything that needs(iv done so since the 9th grade) but i mean its just so werid he would act liek he is. and i dont know if i can handle just being his friend.. my question is what can i do with this?
I totally understand your problem. I had a boyfriend once and his family wasnt so stable and it got hard for him and we split up because he wanted to find himself. After that i was really unconfortable with talking to him because it just wasnt the same. What i did was called him up and asked him why he was acting so different and doing the things he was. He told me everything and he told me he just wasnt sure who he was. After that we talked more and he went back to himself. Just give him time after you talk to him and things will hopefully get better...hope everything works out..
xOxoO
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My dad smokes a lot every day and it really bothers me and my mom and brother but mostly me. We all tell him to stop and he's always like "I will tomorrow or next week or after this and that"
And I always have to remind him to open the door or window when he's near me while he smokes...I mean he doesn't do it 24-7 and he knows when to draw the line sometimes, but it bothers me and I know he's ruining his health...not to metion I think he's ruining mine too! I suddenly can't run laps at school without me stoping breathing and it bothers me b/c it never seems like he cares...my mom stuck to her word about quitting after our cruise and I know its addicting but I want him to stop should I like hide his cigarrets from him or throw them out? What should I do? Plz help I will rate! (ps...it's embarrassing when he leaves his smokes out with the ashtray b/c my friends don't like it either :o!)
Sit down with your dad and tell him your serious. he might think that hes only hurting himself but the second hand smoke you and your mom are breathing is even more dangerous. maybe find a website that tells him about the serious causes of smoking or the effects its had on people. Or you can ask your mom to buy nicotine patches for him. i hope everything works out..
KayTea
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nebody kno a website that counts words in an essay for you??
i dont know a website but if you type it on Microsoft Word you can go to "tools" then click on word count
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i love all my friends dont get me wrong but i really like one of my friends and he knows i like him but he has a girl freind and i think he likes me but i really dont know what to do??
all you can do is talk to him. Just let him know what your thinking about and talk everything out..in the ends things will be how they should be
KayTea
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Ok im a cheer leader im 14 and our uniforms are like really ugly and supposadly we cant get new 1's but we can get stuff like matchin shoes, socks, and jackets but we cant get new uniforms so we needa raise money to get these thigns and maybe convince them to let use get new uniforms so wat are some good fun raising ideas?????
~Cheer grl~
Try a car wash, or sell doughnuts or something of the sort..
KayTea
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I'm a freshmen and during my first three weeks 3 guys have showed interest in me. I really like the personalities of all 3 but theyre all so different! Okay..guy #1...he is also a freshmen, he's hot, and hes a good christian and everything, but ive never seen him get really crazy and i do that sometimes and i like to not be the only one ya know lol....guy #2 hes a sophmore...hes funny and really nice to me..he doesnt make good grades though...he is susposed to be a junior..or maybe even a senior im not 100% sure, he rides my bus and hes not the hottest guy but hes DEFINATELY not ugly...hes kinda like eminem..he doesnt look ANYTHING like him but hes on the same level of hotness...guy #3...hes a senior..it would be really cool to go out w/ an upperclassmen..i could probably meet new upperclassmen that way as well..well, neways, i REALLY REALLY REALLY like his personality...hes a good guy..but he isnt very good looking...i know that sounds shallow and i dont mean it to be im just trying to give pros and cons here...hes not incredibly bad but hes got dark brown hair and glasses..hes not very "built" and he doesnt really have the same style as most of the people i hang out with...so if you were in my position what guy would you choose? can you give me your reasoning too? also, i was wondering if you all could put them in order like "this guy 1st, this 2nd, and this 3rd"...sorry this is so long!! you deserve a 5 just for reading this!! lol so i will definately rate you good!
i would choose number one...from reading this i get the feeling you like him the most and he seems the nicest to me.if # 2 is into pot a little i would cross him out just because drugs arent good AT ALL. abd number 3...it is probably easier to go out with someone in your grade bc your circle of friends will be more the same and you will probably have more of the same intrests.
KayTea
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At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee
Just be yourslef and when ever you see someone sitting alone just go and say hey or when a couple people are talking just go up to them and be like whats up?...hope i helped :)
KayTea
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My best friend is sexual active and im really worried about her. Im scared that one day she will end up pregnet and her parents are really strickt and im scared for her. She doesnt make the best of grades so she really feels like the only thing she can do "right" is have sex with guys and shes even done somethings with girls. Ive even seen her cyber with a girl .. what should i do? and does that make her a lesbian? I need help im really worried for her.
You should talk to her asap. let her know that your worried and tell her the dangers of sleeping around..stds, aid, hivs. If she tells you shes using protection also let her know that isnt 100% safe they can always rip. If she is having problems with her grades offer to study with her or help her anyway you can. Try to make plans with her so she isnt so occupied with "dates". And about the lesbian part...i guess she is what we call bisexual....if you need more help be sure to come back..
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This question is more for the older ppl here, but if u know the answer, let me know whether u are older or not!
When I get older I'm looking in2 becoming like a news anchor person, or something along that lines. When I go 2 college, wut kinda degree would I need 2 get? I assume a certain degree in communications, but does any1 know if there is a certain degree in particular? Plz let me know!
im not sure what degree you would need but if you go down to a universty and talk to a supervisor of some sort they will help you with what ever you need...good luck!
xoxo
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my friend is cuttin her wrist and stuff wat should i do to help her?
Confront your friend and listen to what she has to say. Let her know that your there for her and there is always help out there. If you are nervous about talking to your friend let a trusted adult know and they will take it from there by getting her counsling of some sort..
i hope it works out..
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hey guysz ive been single for a really long time and i realy want a boyfriend .. i hate bein single .. does any one have any advice how i can get a boyfriend ?
Its important not to be desperate. you have to wait for the right person to come to you but there are some things you can do to help. Always be confident. if a guy sees you and thinks your not happy with yourself he will lose all intrests. Another thing is to always smile. guys love a girl who shows her teeth :) good luck.
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