sorry its long..but Which guy is the right choice??!
Question Posted Wednesday August 11 2004, 3:23 pm
I'm a freshmen and during my first three weeks 3 guys have showed interest in me. I really like the personalities of all 3 but theyre all so different! Okay..guy #1...he is also a freshmen, he's hot, and hes a good christian and everything, but ive never seen him get really crazy and i do that sometimes and i like to not be the only one ya know lol....guy #2 hes a sophmore...hes funny and really nice to me..he doesnt make good grades though...he is susposed to be a junior..or maybe even a senior im not 100% sure, he rides my bus and hes not the hottest guy but hes DEFINATELY not ugly...hes kinda like eminem..he doesnt look ANYTHING like him but hes on the same level of hotness...guy #3...hes a senior..it would be really cool to go out w/ an upperclassmen..i could probably meet new upperclassmen that way as well..well, neways, i REALLY REALLY REALLY like his personality...hes a good guy..but he isnt very good looking...i know that sounds shallow and i dont mean it to be im just trying to give pros and cons here...hes not incredibly bad but hes got dark brown hair and glasses..hes not very "built" and he doesnt really have the same style as most of the people i hang out with...so if you were in my position what guy would you choose? can you give me your reasoning too? also, i was wondering if you all could put them in order like "this guy 1st, this 2nd, and this 3rd"...sorry this is so long!! you deserve a 5 just for reading this!! lol so i will definately rate you good!
Additional info, added Wednesday August 11 2004, 3:34 pm: oh yeah and about guy #2...he lives in my community so it would be really easy to see him..but hes kindof into pot a little bit..he doesnt do it everyday or anything but he does it like twice amonth or somethin..ive never done drugs so i dont really like that about him but i like everything else..he makes me feel protected when i am with him :). Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? RuBbErDuCkY52 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 3:06 pm: Ok i would definalty say go with guy #1,he's hot *good*, he's a christian *great* and he makes good grade n he's n ur grade. Guy#2 should NEVER b an chioce because he does drugs and he's doesn't make good grades. He would definalty treat u rong. And guy #3 i'm not sure about because i guess he would b okay it's just he's a senior so when he goes off to collage.. well.. u no.. meet other girls and stuff. So if u ask me.. go with numbero uno!!lol I hope i helped!! [ RuBbErDuCkY52's advice column | Ask RuBbErDuCkY52 A Question ]
dancer4life answered Thursday August 12 2004, 12:54 am: Alright...I would say Guy #3 first...even though he is older and you say he isn't the best looking he sounds like he is really a nice guy. Then Guy #1...even though he's not as crazy as you...maybe you can bring the crazyness out of him. Then Guy #2 You dont want a guy that does pot and has bad grades! You want someone that you know will treat you right and not talk you into trying things that could harm you. Hope I helped! [ dancer4life's advice column | Ask dancer4life A Question ]
x33_onlly_One answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 11:20 pm: i would choose number one...from reading this i get the feeling you like him the most and he seems the nicest to me.if # 2 is into pot a little i would cross him out just because drugs arent good AT ALL. abd number 3...it is probably easier to go out with someone in your grade bc your circle of friends will be more the same and you will probably have more of the same intrests.
Tori_Dori answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 5:02 pm: okay, well, I think guy #1 is best for you.He's hott,smart,'n he's your age.Guy #2, doesn't seem..right.. because he smokes pot..'n that's NOT cool.'N you're gonna want a boyfriend that gets good grades.Guy #3 just kinda seems to old..but, that's just my opinion.It's kinda between guy #1 'n guy #3...but personally,..I think you should choose Guy #1.Good Luck!~'n Hope I helped.*rate*
-tori [ Tori_Dori's advice column | Ask Tori_Dori A Question ]
wakegurl21 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 4:34 pm: Okay well to be totally honest guy #2 sounds like a loser if he smokes pott and doesn't make good grades. He may be cute and nice, but if your looking for somthin more than just a fling then i wouldn't pick him. guy #3, protection to me is a big deal. I like the feeling of knowing i'm safe while i'm out, so i prob wouldn't go with him. guy #1 sounds like your best bet, nice hott and smart. he might not be that exciting all the time, but you can change that. He could just be shy around you. And you wrote about him first so that has to meen he is important to you. So if this was my problem i would go with guy #1. Hope this helps. [ wakegurl21's advice column | Ask wakegurl21 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 4:19 pm: Hmm this is tough.. id go with 1 or 2.. id go with 1 first because you most likely wont get into any trouble with him.. like you said number 2 smokes pot and stuff.. but anyways, and im sure that number 1 and you would have a good time together.. then number 2.. he seems fun and outgoing but, if hes not your type like with drugs and stuff i wouldnt get all caught up in that.. lol and number 3 is just outta the question! but there ya go and good luck, follow your heart <3
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