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What should i do?
Theres this guy ive been talking to he used to date my friend, i really like him alot but thing is he is sorta with his baby's mother only because of the child i dont know if i should be with him or not i love him to death and i know he feels the same about me what should i do?
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this is a sticky situation .. i think right now he has to act as a father figure to his baby and to be there for the baby's mother. you should just stay clear of him for a little while, and once he's all settled and ready - and if he loves you to death, he'll come and get you - good luck <3
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If he's sort of with his baby's mom, then I say leave it alone. That child deserves the chance to have parents who are together...but even more than that, YOU deserve someone who can be completely committed to you alone.
Think about what dating someone with a child means - he'll be giving time, money, and himself to that child (as he should). He'll be in contact with the mother for the rest of the child's life, and it sounds like he already has trouble staying away from her. His first priority needs to be his baby.
Are you ready to deal with all that? It's a lot to ask any person to honestly be okay with, particularly if you are young. Relationships are complicated enough without adding children, other women, and the baggage which comes along with both.
He's dated your friend. He's gotten someone pregnant and is still with them - though he's leading you on, and therefore cheating on his baby's mother. Doesn't really sound like a good situation for you, or anyone, to enter into.
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if i were i would leave him alone. put your feelings aside. trust me baby mama drama is no joke. its fuckin hell. dont put yourself through it.
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tell him how u feel!! that's all you can do!!
<3 .*.BeSs.*. <3
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