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Im havin diffcult evr since my 23 year old cuzin died what shuld i do? i rele miss her! help me asap
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Try to get your mind off the fact that your cousin died and go have some fun and if it pops up in your head again just remember that it will happen to all of us and remember the good times you had with your cousin.
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Try to do things to keep your mind of our cousin, no matter what, we always have difficulites when a loved one passed away, not matter what. I hope you will feel better, girl! :-)
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Dear Troubled,
Sorry about your cousin passing away. Try getting into new activities and clubs to help you keep your mind off of it!
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Your 23 year old cousin passed away and now that you realize that...its better for you to know that, thats one step..but you have to start telling yourself she is n a better place because she is! Just think about it as if she was needed for something bigger and better! Everything happens for a reason..yet it may seem unfair,but its for the best. you have to understand that you are also going to get stronger from this and you will soon understand all that. You will i promise!
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i know how it feels to lose a loved one, my Grandma died almost a year ago =( .. it's perfectly fine to grieve and cry about the loss of your cousin. the way that really helped me is that i talked to my family and they comforted me - since we were all going through the same thing. also, i wrote a poem that expressed all of my feelings. i hope i helped you and i'm really sorry about your cousin.
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talk to people about how your are feeling or write how you are feeling in a diary or a journal...its easier if you come out and talk about it instead of holding it in
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My very best friend in the whole wide world died about 5 years ago, and I still miss her. I spoke to a psychiatrist to help me out some. I went to church. I tried very hard to stay busy with other things. It takes a lot of time to be comfortable with the death of someone close to you, especially if it is unexpected. You will always remember her, but try to think of the good stuff. It hurts a little, but she would want you to go on and live your life to the fullest.
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awwwwww im sorry... Everytime u feel sad just remember that shes in a better place now... keep her alive in ur heart and ur memories...
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do somethin ta take ur mind off her for a while...never stop thinking about her or loving her...just take a "vacation" from all the drama its cause n do sumthin that you normally wouldn't do!!
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yeah i know it really hurts when you lose a loved one. but you have to stay positive and know that she is in a better place. you will feel better, it just takes alot of time.
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you just have to know that if its true that they can see you down from heaven, she would want you to go on and not grieve about it. Just remember the good times. And live a life that would make her proud. Find someone to talk to if you get sad, it helps a lot to know someone's down for you. But nothing can really take away the pain if you love her that much. Just remember all the good things about her, and the time you spent with her.
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keep your head up high and stay close to your family. remember the good times (as corny as that sounds) because the worst thing in the world is to not remember things about her. i know. i lost someone close to me recently, and its scares me that i can't hear him laugh.
try and keep her close to you despite the fact that she's gone. she'll always be with you.
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aww well its hard to get over sumthin like that..
jus do things to get it off ur mind or go to a counsler..or talk to a family member about it...
i hope you feel better..
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it's tough when u lose someone, i kno becuz i lost my grandpa 2 cancer!! it takes time so you need to be easy on yourself and in time it will change!!
<3 .*.BeSs.*. <3
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Just keep your head up.. think of it as death isnt a bad thing. They are moving to a higher level. Just keep your head up and stay strong. And pray if you are having troubles. Best wishes to you, and good luck
-holly-
hope i helped
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this sounds like something that you're just gonna have to wait out. nobody will ever be able to replace her, and there will always be a void left by her. just remember that shes in a better place. if ya wanna talk about it further you can email me at xlilpimpnshawtyx@aol.com or IM me at blondii14697. sorry :(
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