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this is goin to sound REALLY werid and maybe distubbing but i need an outside opinon,
i have seen my cousin, 2 times in my WHOLE life, me and my family stayed there for a weekend the second time, me and him slept outside in the tent cuz there was no rooms in the house, seperate, or anythig so we jsut slept out there and he kept putting moves on me! and touching me like, ( a boyfirend ) would do, i was getting really uncomfortable then when i was goin to sleep he pulled nice in close to me, and then he started kissing me then we started to make out i then id stop and tell him this is wrong he said we barley see each other so its allright but i didnt' agree i went back to trying to fall a sleep and then he started goin down my pajama pants and he FINGERD me, for liek 3-5 seconds cuz i pushed him off, i don't feel comfortable to even talk to him on the computer anymore and i can't TELL anyone cuz they'll think im like discusting what do you guys think?
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Well we can't erase the past, so all I can say is what do you want with your future? Talk to him about it. Warn him that if he does it again, you'll KICK him in the nuts, and ask him if he does this to other people, because this is DEFINATELY a case of molestation, and it's WRONG. He needs to stop immediately, and find himself a girlfriend or SOMETHING. If he DOES do this to other people, then you definately must talk to your parents or his parents or someone, because this is WRONG. That's all I can say. It's disgusting. He's disgusting, not you, girlie. Keep that in mind.
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OMFG is your cousin older then you or the same age? You should so0o tell your parents and have that kid get some searious help and dont blame yourself you tried to stop him and he didnt so dont take them balme is he denys it then hes an idiot fag and refuse to stay in the same room as him ever again
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ok, first of all, thats kinda incest. But if you never see him, who's gonna know.
secondly, if you said no, thats molesting. you should tell someone, tell your parents or something, bcuz thats kinda a big deal.
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Tell someone and who cares what they think! What he did borders on criminal conduct! Are you afraid he will say you asked for it? Stand up for yourself, because no one else will. You said you started to make out then stopped. Are you feeling ashamed because you didn't find it entirely gross? If so, realize that when you are touched like that, you will respond-that part is normal. The rest is not. You need to tell a clergy member, teacher, counselor, or someone. Now, the next part. You are both related. Time and distance do not change genetics. What he said is wrong! It does matter. Do you want him doing this to other girls? If not, speak out.
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That IS disturbing that HE would do that. He's total family whether or not ya'll barely know each other. It was totally unethical of him to try to do that to you. I say, tell his mom or your mom so you won't have to deal with him anymore. Kay... hope it goes well.
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well first of all i think its just WRONG for him to be doing that....if you tell someone i dont think that theyll think ur disgusting cuz it wasnt your fault it was his for doing all that stuff...a guy and esp. a cousin shouldnt be doing that stuff to you when they barely even kno you...
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you should tell him to stop. if he doesnt, tell your parents, or his parents. or the police.
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Tell him the truth and if he tries to do it again tell the police.
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That was sexual harrassment. You could call the police and keep him from doing it for good. And everybody would know that you didn't do anything wrong.
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Hey!!! Ummm... ewww. Sorry, but that's pretty sick what happened. In a way it wasn't really your fault b/c it seems like he was doing everything, not you. <3Kali<3
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i think that you were just confused. i happens alot. it's kinda weird but you felt uncomfortable so don't worry. and just tell him how you felt about it. and be honest.
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