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Hi I havent been very hungry at all! and idk why! I just recently went on this "diet" because I am 5'0 and 150...where I only eat 3 meals a day well for about 2 weeks now I havent been hungry for breakfast, or lunch and I dont eat any snaks inbweteen. like today I didnt eat breakfast and I was fine and I didnt have lunch and I was fine, I am not trying to starve myself!!! I just dont like food for some reason! Is it because my body is now use to not having as much junk food as I use to?/? please help!! And can you give me some ideas on how to loose my "love handles" also to thin out my legs and stomach area..please help..I hope my body isnt shutting down on mee..
* srry if this was long*
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Perhaps your stomach is shrinking. Also, are you physically sick? Sometimes when you're sick, your body is concentrating so hard on getting better that you don't notice it if you're hungry. It's hard to explain, but..meh.
It's not healthy to not eat breakfast. If you want to lose weight faster, than the better thing is to eat at least a small breakfast even if you're not hungry. Eating a little something in the morning will give your metabolism something to work on throughout the day. And when you do eat, make it healthy. I suggest grapefruit if you aren't that hungry..it helps the digestive system..which could make you feel hungry again later on in the day. Just a thought.
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Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous? (link)
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All your life, you have been his "main girl"...even if you weren't going out. Now that he has another girl in his life, it might take a little time to adjust to. Don't worry...he won't forget about you. Be happy for him.
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My friend KT had a bofriend named James... he wasn't wot u call POPULAR, but he was really sweet. KT went to Albainia for vacation, and James was really nevous she was gonna brake up with him. We were trying to b supportive and tell him shes not going to but she did!!! over emial!!! She's back now and hates him because hes not popular and she doesn't want to b friends with him. she also doesn't want us to b friends with him either even tho we got to no him and he's already our friend. wot should we do??? (link)
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KT doesn't sound like a very good friend...anybody who makes you choose between them and another person, isn't worth being friends with. What's it to her if you wanna be friends with him?
Dumping James now as a friend would be a horrible thing to do...If you were a good friend and a good person, you would stick to your morals and stay friends with James. How would James feel if you just abandoned him cuz somebody told you to?
Forget about KT.
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soooorry its long, but i need help :(
Alrighty every1, I have absolutely fallen in love with this boy *Damien - and damien is thee greatest guy ever... if i was able to marry him right now i would!! but see we got into probably one of the biggest fight ever and i think he's gone.. for good :'(! i really dont know what to do with myself now... everything i do is "damien" i eat, sleep, drink, shower, think, talk about damien.... 24-7! i mean i knew i loved him before but tonight i just felt that "this is him" feeling! where you know that this is the person you would spend the rest of your life with... i know its crazy and 'im too young' but i dont care what you say or think because i am in love with him and thats just how it is.... but i really need some advice on getting him back! please, pretty please i am begging anybody!! thank you soo much who ever does help!!
p.s we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and NEVER broke up before... soo yea that also!! thankss! (link)
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You're so used to having him because you've had him for so long. Now that he's gone, you realize how much you really do love him. YOu want what you can't have.
So go ahead and try to tell him how you feel. Try to sort this fight out...what was this fight about anyways? If it turns out that you can't get him back, then you might just have to deal with it. It may take a while for it to heal over where you're completely over him, but it will be worth it in the end.
But for now, go tell him how you feel, and apologize about the fight.
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okay well my two best friends started going out... why does that bother me???
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You may like one of them as more of a friend, or they might make you feel like the third wheel.
You should just try to be happy for them, as hard as that may seem.
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My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have. (link)
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Well, if you really have tried everything, then there isn't anything else you can do. You're going to have accept him for who he is on this one and put up with it.
If you don't want him to smoke AROUND you, then that's perfectly fine. You could always ask him to refrain from smoking while you guys are in the same area.
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*sry if to long but please read*
well im in 7th grade and we have some 8th graders in my PE class. and theres this guy i think is pretty cute but ive never met him but were always kinda glancen at each other every once in a while n stuff and it might be a bit obvious that i think hes cute but idk if he thinks i am. anyways so today he was talking to these 2 girls and i was talking to 1 of my friends and one of them turned around and was all hey do yall think hes cute? so i was like uhh idk and i said softly (well i hope softly) liek not really and my friend was like no and they were like omg i think hes cute n stuff and i was kinda blushing. i would go out with him if he wanted to go out with me but im not sure and i REALLY hope that that didnt make any of a difference. id really kno what im asking, i just need someone to kinda tell me if i did the right thing or not
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Sorry, but you should have said yes! I mean, what else did you think was gonna happen when you said no? If you said yes, then you'd prolly have a chance w/ him...they may have asked you that question because he had either a) been talking about you or b) felt insecure about himself.
Don't be afraid to say what's on your mind in the future.
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I NEED ADVICE!
i love this girl and i want her to love me but she is obsessed with this other guy I really love her at first it sounded like she like me and it was flirting...I want her but she loves another What should I do? (link)
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Right now, there isn't anything you can do about it. Sometimes, trying sooo hard to get a girl makes her like you even less. Start looking at other girls, and don't concentrate on her so much. You want what you can't have..well, look around at what you can.
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yesterday at the doctors i got a shot in my arm (kind of my shoulder) and it didnt hurt at all, but now today it hurts really bad it feels like i have a bruise where the shot was and it hurts really bad whenever i move my arm. is this normal or should i be concerned? im starting to worry. how long should this pain last? (link)
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It's perfectly normal, it happens all the time. The vein that they pushed the medicine into is sensitive right now because it just had fluid shoved into it. It's fine and will go away in a day or two.
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ok why does every 1 say drink water to lose weight? wat does it do? and why do they say cold water is better? how does it make u lose weight?? (link)
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THe reason people tell you to drink water in order to lose weight is because if you drink enough water, it fills you up so you can't eat. It's supposed to be used as an alternative to food. But really, it is bad for you..it's anorexia.
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and we talk all the time on the phone and online but when we get to school we dont talk at all! we haven't even hugged..! and like all we do is say hi or wave and walk away like we're in health and Intro to something together and like everyone always talks but we never do! well me and my friend Sam are going to watch him practice and the kid she likes practice for football so if you have any advice on how to get him to talk to me in school please hurry cause my friend is coming over now! alright thanks!
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You're both shy. You should make the first move...go hug him in the hallway next time. He should take that as a pleasant surprise.
It sounds like this guy isn't used to having a girlfriend. Give him some time to adjust. If it's been a while and you've been patient, and still you guys don't get any closer (emotionally and physically, heh), then maybe it's time to let him go. Wouldn't it just get boring after a while?
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ok soooooooooooooooooooo i have a little problem that i jus cna't seem to fix on my own alright so my best friend was going out with this guy who i've become like really good friends with *which is mucho weird but w/e* and so they broke up early this summer and now we've *guy and me* have gotten closer *well i think so* anywhoo so now EVERYONE AND THERE BROTHER think i like him WHICH i dont cuase i mean yea were friends but he went out with my best friend and its not like that would be ok either way BUT what makes matters worse is that my best friend seriously thinks he likes me and i'm like nooooooooooo were jus close....
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i have no idea what to do
pooheads
oh and if that didn't make sence sorry!
thanks
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Sorry hun, but there's not much you can do to make people believe you. The only person you should be worried about is your best friend. explain to her that even if he were to like you, that you don't like him and wouldn't go out w/ him. And if he asks you out, saying no should set the record straight.
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okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?
sorry it was so long.. ill rate.. because i really need help! (link)
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Apologize to him. Explain to him why you reacted that way. IF you want to go out w/ him, ask him out.
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okay well hi u know how i told u bout me and my b/f how he wuz goin in to High school and im still in 8th well...we broke up! I cried all day saturday and a lil sunday. I miss him sooo much and i still love him. We broke up because we neva saw eachother nemore and he wuz jus too busy for me and it wuz too hard for him because i guess all his friends have g/fs at skool! Every day it gets harder for me to not talk to him. Every day i wonder if he still loves me and misses me he told me when we decided to break up that he still loved me and he gonna miss me soo much but that wuz then and this is now! Will i eva get ova him???? is there nething i can do to get ova him??? PLZ help! Kaila (link)
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Look, it's ok. It sounds like you really liked this guy, and if you did, it could take months for you to get completely over it. When I was in 9th grade, I went out w/ a 10th grader for 3 months, and when we broke up, it took me 4 months to get over him.
Although it's hard to see it, you WILL get over him in time. Time is the ultimate healer. It's ok that you aren't over him right away, it's perfectly fine.
But for now, you have to realize that you are going to have a lot more boyfriends in the near future. You should realize that you are unique individual that anybody would love to have as a girlfriend.
Just give it time. And when you start to get over him, you will feel it. It's a greeeeeat feeling.
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i know i dont have a anger issue but sometimes i come off as being mean and i get irritated mostly with my best friend..today this happened and i guess i got too excited and must have been talking loudly but not yelling and then she didnt walk home with me instead she walked in front of me. i dont know what to do but we constantly get mad at each other. we have been friends for such a long time that i feel like i talk to her like shes a family member but she doesnt always get how im saying stuff. please help what can i do to be more calm with her?? (link)
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Sometimes people can come off as mean because they are jealous of the other. I'm not saying that you're all that jealous of her, but maybe in your subconscious mind, you are. It's either that, or you guys are spending too much time with eachother.
As for now, I think you should call her up and apologize to her. Explain to her how to you feel, and tell her that you're sorry. Obviously, you don't want to hurt her. If she is a good friend, she should understand this and forgive you.
As for the future, just think of what you say before you say it. Think of how you're coming off to people. If you really want to change like you said, then you will in time.
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My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!! (link)
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Don't do it yourself. There's way too much risk. If your parents don't want you to get it, then you should oblige by that. Just wait until your older.
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This may sound pretty gross, but I'm 12 and I masterbate. I just use my fingers and I don't finger myself, but I haven't gotten my period yet. Does this mean I did something that'll make it so I don't ever get my period, or will I get it and does masterbating mess my "lower parts" up if I just use my fingers?
Sorry if this is really gross I just really need to know, and Mods please don't delete this I'm very concerned... (link)
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Oh honey no way did you mess anything up. It's perfectly natural and you're going to get your period sooner or later.
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ohh my how do you get rid of a large scab on your face in a mattter of a few days!! I really really really need advice, its not huge but, it just makes a difference and i feel like its all that people are looking at! Please help me! (link)
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NOOOOOOOOOO don't put make up on it. It just takes it longer to heal, and if its scab, make up won't do shit. In fact, it will just make it stand out more because it cant absorb into the skin..it will just lay on top of the scab and look weird.
But whatever you do, don't pick at it, let it heal on its own. When the scab is looser and ready to fall off, then MAYBE you could carefully pick it off...but wait at least 2 days for that.
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ok well I think I'm OKAY pretty... I mean Ive been told i'm "beautiful" by some people... but so has everyone right? ok well my friend is also OKAY pretty too. But whenever we go out the guys usually end up more attracted to me. I have no idea why I mean we're both really nice and everything... and its not like I mean for anything to happen. And sometimes I dont even like the guy! it bugs me sometimes. But also sometimes the guy SHE likes likes me... I feel so bad I mean I dont even do anything! But she always gets frustrated (which i can understand) but theres nothing I can do about it! Ive talked to her... and she knows it but still she get mad! I dont know what to do (link)
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Perhaps you come off as more confident as she does. Or perhaps, you ARE more confident than she is. Basically, in this case, it sounds like they are more attracted to your personality than they are yours.
There isnt much you can do. Perhaps you can set her up w/ a guy you know.
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I have all different kinds of friends in such, but i hang out with 2 of them more. Im not a girly girl( and im not a lesbian) i hate wearing skirts and dresses and i really dont lyk really preppy people tha wear houchie skirts and a half a shirt, but maybe tha's juss some of the girls that go to my school. I just don't understand why people wear that stuff when you know its unconfortable. Why wear high heels to school them you could be confortable. THey only dress like that to get guys attention. I don't like cheerleaders either they annoy me. I'm kinda skater and like to do things that girls normally don't do or arent that good at. Me n my best friend r crazy at those kinda things and fit in real easily with the guy crowd. Every place that i go i always get mean looks from preppy girls cuz i don't dress lyk a brittany spears wannabe. Why do you think people corner me cuz im skater and not a barbie doll? (link)
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They're jealous that you can be so comfortable w/ just being comfortable with who you are. They feel that in order to get peopel to like them, they have to wear high heels, skirts, etc...that's why when they see you, they don't understand how you can have friends when you don't dress like everybody else....well, something similar to that at least. THese people won't admit that is what they're really thinking..but deep down, it's true.
Good job at being who you wanna be...you're one of the few REAL people in society.
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