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picking friends
My friend KT had a bofriend named James... he wasn't wot u call POPULAR, but he was really sweet. KT went to Albainia for vacation, and James was really nevous she was gonna brake up with him. We were trying to b supportive and tell him shes not going to but she did!!! over emial!!! She's back now and hates him because hes not popular and she doesn't want to b friends with him. she also doesn't want us to b friends with him either even tho we got to no him and he's already our friend. wot should we do???
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Tell her that what she is doing isnt right and that you dont want to be mean to someone that hasnt done anything bad to you! Tell her if she wants to act that way its her choice but that doesnt me you have too as well
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U dont have to hate him or not be friends with him She dumped him that does not mean u cant be his friend she just needs to find out not everything revolves around her
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Well soundz like shes being a really big jerk... just remember... no one can ever tell u who to be friends with and who not... this girl is not ur mother... u should str8 up tell her that... tell her that if he told u not to talk to her u wouldnt listen to him... & u are not gonna listen to her cuz what shes askin u 2 do i very selfish...
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just becuase he isnt "popular" doesnt mean that she shouldnt like him. thats so rude. its good that u and ur other friends got to kno him and like him as he is and want to be his friend. dont listen to her.. u can be his friend if u want! dont be a follower be a leader. and if she has anything to say tell her u shouldnt treat people like that and ur going to be his friend regardless.
Manda
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KT doesn't sound like a very good friend...anybody who makes you choose between them and another person, isn't worth being friends with. What's it to her if you wanna be friends with him?
Dumping James now as a friend would be a horrible thing to do...If you were a good friend and a good person, you would stick to your morals and stay friends with James. How would James feel if you just abandoned him cuz somebody told you to?
Forget about KT.
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Talk to her about it, tell her that popularity isnt everything and what she did was really low, tell her how you feel and that you finally got to know him and just because she doesnt want you to be friends with him doesnt mean you are going to stop
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heyy hun
tell her u want 2 b friendz w. james 2. nd if she ditches u bc ur hangin w. him den its her lost. she shouldnt act lyk a b***c.
xoxo
brunettebeauti
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